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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you guilty of seeing only one of the couple when chatting to them or do u see them as a pair?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I chat to them both as a pair. Unless I know them and know who it is I'm talking to x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Are you guilty of seeing only one of the couple when chatting to them or do u see them as a pair?"

I'll admit at times I do forget and will unintentionally address just one. Especially if one or the other is more prominent in conversation.

However I try to include both otherwise its rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only talk to the male half to make the woman jealous and want me more

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I assume I'm talking to both unless told otherwise.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I make a point of including both (even though I'm straight) out of respect.

The only time I don't is if one or other is chatting/mailing and it's appropriate to "ignore" the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only see Mrs lemonbuttercream I'm sorry Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t often chat to couples as very few are particularly interested in chatting to me, but those I do chat to I speak to both partners when they are both around. Often it’s only one that uses the forum and I’d chat to them but with awareness of their coupledom. I don’t just focus on the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually address both and then have to awkwardly ask which one is which

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you guilty of seeing only one of the couple when chatting to them or do u see them as a pair?"

I see a woman and there’s usually another person with the aforementioned woman, but that’s usually cause someone’s pointed him out, but I know nothing of him and his role in the situation, think he’s there just to drive her home or something.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I play “first one to suck my cock wins a prize”

Special spousal suck scoring selection is the only way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MrD

I generally address both or what I say is to them as a couple. If I want to address one over the other I try to say that + never ignore either of them. That doesn't usually happen until we have exchanged names anyway so easier to address them individually. I also write MrD at the top of all my messages to indicate if it's from me or Daisy + usually ask the other couple to indicate in some way which one of them is writing/replying. However it is never more than a single or few messages to a specific person before back to them as a couple.

We read messages the same way, they are to us as a couple unless addressed to Daisy specifically. If it is clear I am not included in it, or I am ignored when I write (never happens with couples only single guys) then they get blocked

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some guys address us both, some just me or some Mr.

Dont mind as long as they are polite.

I generally do all the chatting though

Jo x

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If it’s PhilnMel it’s most definitely a pair...a couple...both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to them as a collective. Unless it's about a forum thread then it's just to whoever posts.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I generally only chat with couples and women off the back of forum threads, so I tend to just 'see' whichever of them is doing the posting, and if both of them are regular posters I'll automatically think of them as a couple when replying.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are a few couples that I have chatted to over time and usually it's obvious which one it is doing the talking and the conversation tends to veer in that direction, although I am always very careful to ensure that I'm as inclusive as I can be of both of them - even if it's just the female half chatting will always ask things like "How are you both?" "What are you both up to this weekend?" etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are a few couples that I have chatted to over time and usually it's obvious which one it is doing the talking and the conversation tends to veer in that direction, although I am always very careful to ensure that I'm as inclusive as I can be of both of them - even if it's just the female half chatting will always ask things like "How are you both?" "What are you both up to this weekend?" etc"

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