FabSwingers.com forum: Too many veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they put you off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No, most of mine are from socials anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

No. More likely to be put off by someone hiding their summary, can’t explain it, but it’s true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not the amount

I don't like the content of some ... too graphic for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether they have had none or 100s doesn't brother me in the slightest. It would be the amount of activity and with whom whilst playing with me that would be the issue

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"not the amount

I don't like the content of some ... too graphic for me

To use it is if they sound congruent.

Lots are social.

Some are not.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Nope, veris are quickly amassed through clubs as there's a great social side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, though someone wouldn’t meet us because we had too many x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"No, though someone wouldn’t meet us because we had too many x "

And verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 4 sex veris puts me off.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"No, though someone wouldn’t meet us because we had too many x "

Same. I've been told I have too many veris. Doesn't put me off though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges veris - especially women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i rarelly read profile never mind veris

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep "

Not social ones I might add. But otherwise yes it does

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No not really.....

People get put off when I veri some though!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the content of the verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , most of mine are social and it's good to see if people are genuine

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No, you can go to a social and get 10 - 20 veri's (says me with a new profile and six veri's lol) so best to read and not judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

Do they put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if they are sex veris and all in a short space of time.

Also veris from certain people will put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes they can do occasionally, not social veris though. It depends on how many, time span and how graphic the veri is.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amount, no. Content, sometimes.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

amount....ish

Who with.....yes

Content..... definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, though someone wouldn’t meet us because we had too many x

And verifications?"

Ha ha, most of them are socials x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

The amount of veri’s doesn’t. Other factors in the veri’s themselves may help me decide not to meet though.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not the amount. Who and time frame can.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Me and you both.... Still at least it sorts out the "to-do" list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, verifications are the next thing I read after the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question is it ok to contact a verifier with regards to what they say or view points on the subject they verify ???

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Question is it ok to contact a verifier with regards to what they say or view points on the subject they verify ???"

No. That's why mine are hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

How’s it judging? People are looking for different things. People can do what they like if it doesn’t affect me. I don’t see where judging comes into it. If it affects me then yeah I’ll judge, doesn’t everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?"

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?"

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

No that’ll be me who’s in the wrong place, but I’m cool with it.

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

it does us and also if theyve met certain people

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

I am finding the forums to be extremely judgemental of late, you try and ignore it but it just insidious. Live and Let Live. You do You and such thoughts are rapidly diminishing

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

I personally feel it’s very judgemental. From experiences on here.

And I totally agree with what you say but not everyone is like that.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

No that’ll be me who’s in the wrong place, but I’m cool with it. "

Nothing to do with the site, people don't change their mind set as soon as they sign up to fab.......and why should they....

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

No that’ll be me who’s in the wrong place, but I’m cool with it. "

I wouldn’t say you was. To me you use this place for what you want and I’ve never felt you judge anyone else’s actions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They used to, when I was meeting. But it did depend on how long they'd been on here and the content of their veris. I wasn't looking for someone who met a lot (sexually speaking, not social) as I wasn't interested in complete NSA and that to me was an indicator that they were there for the sexual encounters only. Nothing wrong with that of course, but it wasn't for me

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

I'm not saying you got it wrong, sorry. Just wondering.

It's a site where people look for fucks but they can have whatever rules they want about who they fuck.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

I am finding the forums to be extremely judgemental of late, you try and ignore it but it just insidious. Live and Let Live. You do You and such thoughts are rapidly diminishing "

I couldn’t agree with you more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

I personally feel it’s very judgemental. From experiences on here.

And I totally agree with what you say but not everyone is like that. "

And that’s fine for those people. How is it judgemental? I’m here to have just one FWB I’m not here to meet lots of people. So why would I want someone who does? And how am I judging those people? I just don’t contact them or politely decline. I don’t say ewww no im not meeting you you’ve met 3 people this week!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn’t it up to the individual ?

I personally won’t meet people who’ve met lots from the forum on a sexual basis as it’s just a recipe for disaster

What amuses me is people’s perception of how it’s assumed you should be behaving on a site like this

Use it how you wish ...

Fucks sake

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd

It doesn’t bother us at all, it’s a sex site we use it for its purpose.... verification’s are taken with a pinch of salt anyway, they never tell the whole story..

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

Why should people be open minded?

Because of the nature of the site.

How people use fab is up to them but it’s not a vanilla site and personally judging people for having sex with others is a little odd to me.

Maybe I’ve got it all wrong and I’m in the wrong place

I'm not saying you got it wrong, sorry. Just wondering.

It's a site where people look for fucks but they can have whatever rules they want about who they fuck. "

Yeah exactly.

I’ve just had my eyes opened lately that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

Each to their own ... wouldn’t you say

They’re entitled to their choice ..

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

But your summary is still on show, so people will still know how many you've met.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

The amount, No.

The content, yes!

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

Not in the slightest. It's one of the tests, if not the penultimate, surely.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Agree!

The amount, not necessarily ( several are often social)

The content, yes.... absolutely

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Depends... If they're lots of play veris from individual meets spread over a few months or a year... Then yes. Not because of any judgement on how they choose to meet, but because I know we would be incompatible. I prefer regular meets and lots of communication, and if someone is prolific they won't be able to give me the time and attention I would be looking for

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over a year ago

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I find regular repeat verifications from the same person a bit strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends... If they're lots of play veris from individual meets spread over a few months or a year... Then yes. Not because of any judgement on how they choose to meet, but because I know we would be incompatible. I prefer regular meets and lots of communication, and if someone is prolific they won't be able to give me the time and attention I would be looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be a bit off putting but I've loads anyway. I've been on this site since 2010 and people keep verifying me. Most of mine were coffee meets but I don't like it when people verify me without asking poops as often I cannot remember them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typo I meant oops

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I find regular repeat verifications from the same person a bit strange. "

Why?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I’ve had people say they got put off because I had too many veris.

So I’ve hidden them all recently.

I don’t understand how people can have too many veris on a swinging site.......

This is spose to be the most open minded place and people still judge. Baffles me it really does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The reason I ask is I was arranging to meet someone next week and in the last week they have 6 new veris and they're all sex... I feel like that's put me off now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business."

Yeah I totally get that. I guess I'm looking in to things a little too much.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business."

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The reason I ask is I was arranging to meet someone next week and in the last week they have 6 new veris and they're all sex... I feel like that's put me off now. "

So you are put off by the fact that a swinger enjoys sex ? I've had sex with six people in one night ! But as they didn't verify me you wouldn't know, would you ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business."

Bingo

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business.

Yeah I totally get that. I guess I'm looking in to things a little too much. "

No, you're not. If you feel uncomfortable meeting someone who has met six others in the past week, you do. Don't meet them. It shows you're not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm only here to meet virgins.

It is not going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The reason I ask is I was arranging to meet someone next week and in the last week they have 6 new veris and they're all sex... I feel like that's put me off now. "

Do what you want to do my lovely. I wouldn’t meet them but like I said it depends what you’re looking for on here. Plenty of people on here don’t even meet. There are no rules as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "
50 in a week all fun yes lol she'd need a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You do what suits you. If it makes you uncomfortable, don't meet that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business.

Yeah I totally get that. I guess I'm looking in to things a little too much. "

Do verifications mean alot to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab looking for casual encounters, not commitment. I make no pretence about it. If someone is put off by that they are probably not for me.

Also who I meet is between me and them, nobody else’s business.

Yeah I totally get that. I guess I'm looking in to things a little too much.

No, you're not. If you feel uncomfortable meeting someone who has met six others in the past week, you do. Don't meet them. It shows you're not compatible. "

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? 50 in a week all fun yes lol she'd need a rest

Titter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks."

5 is too many for me. Any time frame, 10 days or 10 years.

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Not necessarily but I did think that SSS wouldn’t be interested in little old me as he had quite a lot of veris, although they were mostly from parties.

Well I was very much wrong

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks.

5 is too many for me. Any time frame, 10 days or 10 years."

Says the person with 20,485!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks.

5 is too many for me. Any time frame, 10 days or 10 years.

Says the person with 20,485!

20,483 were socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "
nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many is too many?

Too few (like zero) on the other hand...

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks."

It boils down to what you’re comfortable with that’s all and we’re all different I suppose. Just because I’m on a sex site I don’t have to be constantly lining someone up.

I rarely meet and that suits me because I take my time and do things in my own way. I wouldn’t want to be the next person on someone’s tick list and before they’ve even removed their penis they’re already planning their next meet. The fab carousel is not my thing and I know I am not compatible with that person or their approach. I don’t care if others do it, it’s their choice and it’s none of my business. I just don’t want to be part of it and that way we’re all happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks.

It boils down to what you’re comfortable with that’s all and we’re all different I suppose. Just because I’m on a sex site I don’t have to be constantly lining someone up.

Absolutely this x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"How do you judge what is too many?

Someone could have 100 but have been here 10 years. Someone else 15 but in three weeks.

It boils down to what you’re comfortable with that’s all and we’re all different I suppose. Just because I’m on a sex site I don’t have to be constantly lining someone up.

Spot on there Babs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me"

They block you for having 5 verifications in a year ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me

They block you for having 5 verifications in a year ?"

Yes it's been a little sparse this year.

Last year was much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me"

How do you know why that’s the reason ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me

How do you know why that’s the reason ?"

Because they messaged me then blocked me.

How else?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It never bothered us when we were meeting , although many were bothered by how many we had . Especially as they were all play and often five or six in a week .

Couldn’t care less to be honest as we could simply choose not to show them if people didn’t like fact that we were sluts .

Some people like to feel special , and choose not to meet those who meet lots of people . That’s cool , and bad luck if they thought meeting is was going to be anything more than a one off , meaningless , but fun encounter . We always saw swinging as a hobby . Nothing more , nothing less . We always enjoyed the meets and so did those who met us , and we certainly ticked off everything on our bucket list .

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me

How do you know why that’s the reason ?

Because they messaged me then blocked me.

How else?"

Maybe they didnt like something on your profile, like the BDSM test results for example ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have used the amount of my verifications as a reason to block me

How do you know why that’s the reason ?

Because they messaged me then blocked me.

How else?

Maybe they didnt like something on your profile, like the BDSM test results for example ?"

They specifically said it was the number of veris.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There's no too few or too many for me, it doesn't make any difference to me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Nope.

A lot of them could be socials.

Even if all them are play meets then so what.

We’re all here to have fun with whoever we choose the play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have over 200 veris. I like to go to the club's and socials . I display them all .if people don't like that then I'm afraid they're not for me and I will concentrate on the ones that do want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make me think how the fuck do you find the time

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I’m sometimes jealous that people have so much spare time

Have as many as you want, it doesn’t bother me. I don’t care if they’re social or sex meets either. I’m not here to judge, I’m here for fun.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Lots of verifications shows that they do meet and are very likely to be who they say they are.

This is a positive not a negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They certainly wouldn't me. I wouldn't mind a few myself tbh.

Do a few help tho?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think on a swinging site lots of verifications is a positive thing

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"The reason I ask is I was arranging to meet someone next week and in the last week they have 6 new veris and they're all sex... I feel like that's put me off now.

So you are put off by the fact that a swinger enjoys sex ? I've had sex with six people in one night ! But as they didn't verify me you wouldn't know, would you ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly yes

It doesn’t make sense really but I’d like to think I’m not just another number even though that’s more than likely what I am haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual veris yes

Social veris no

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Nope, we’ve 114, but most are from socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I like it as it really makes me believe they're trustworthy.

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

We look at it other way no veris means ur on wrong site,not all veris are about sex,we meet and socialise with lots we not had sex with,also for us we don't meet with any profiles with very little or no veris after being on the site years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but I think I’m in the minority and my views have changed. The content and style have always been more important for me than the numbers.

I would favour people with a lot of the right kind of play veris. If 200 other women have thoroughly enjoyed the company of a man I’m thinking he’s probably pretty good at what he does!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No, but I think I’m in the minority and my views have changed. The content and style have always been more important for me than the numbers.

I would favour people with a lot of the right kind of play veris. If 200 other women have thoroughly enjoyed the company of a man I’m thinking he’s probably pretty good at what he does!"

I'll sit with you.

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Lots of these replies say the content of the veri would put them off. What content specifically puts people off?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Of course it would put me of, I'm very picky.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Lots of verifications shows that they do meet and are very likely to be who they say they are.

This is a positive not a negative. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I don't think you can have too many veris. It shows you are active and not wasting anyone's time. I've more than most on here .. Lol

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

Yes

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I was wondering the same , I think I have too many as if I see above 20 it does put me off a little , it can be a bit daunting

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Not at all, veri numbers have never bothered me, reading them is quite fun

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Not us, after all, we have quite a few ourselves - BUT we have been on the site for 12 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If they are all say from various bareback gangbangs I wouldn't meet ever.

If alot are from club goers and been on here a while. Then it doesn't bother me no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. More likely to be put off by someone hiding their summary, can’t explain it, but it’s true "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do loads of veri put you off meeting someone? "

Not necessarily lots of veri, but when you put the veri content together with multiple photos of different people and unprotected sex. Then yes, instant put off.

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