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"No, maybe ban them being sent with messages tho lol " For me I’d agree with this but I don’t think it would work. A lot of women like them. | |||
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"Should Fab ‘ban’ cock pics?" why, this is a adult site, next you will be wating pussy pics banned and full swap pics banned  | |||
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"No, maybe ban them being sent with messages tho lol For me I’d agree with this but I don’t think it would work. A lot of women like them. " Or a least to non friends then maybe. I get lots enjoy them but there's public & friends pics to show them off in. It would never work anyway fabs won't ban clock pics, moderators have enough to do  | |||
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"No, maybe ban them being sent with messages tho lol For me I’d agree with this but I don’t think it would work. A lot of women like them. Or a least to non friends then maybe. I get lots enjoy them but there's public & friends pics to show them off in. It would never work anyway fabs won't ban clock pics, moderators have enough to do "True! Personally I think cocks should be in friends pics. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind them but not at first! | |||
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"Should Fab ‘ban’ cock pics?" in intro messages it would be an idea  | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere." To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. | |||
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"Does the ban stretch to all fowl? Ducks, woodpigeon, turkeys, geese and spatchcocks included? " | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered." It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him! | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him!" I only ever did whole body or at least a significant amount of context. But I’m not inclined at the moment to show it at all. I may change my mind, but I don’t think it adds anything to my profile to have it on display. My friends are friends, I don’t think they spend their time perving my friends pics anyway | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him! I only ever did whole body or at least a significant amount of context. But I’m not inclined at the moment to show it at all. I may change my mind, but I don’t think it adds anything to my profile to have it on display. My friends are friends, I don’t think they spend their time perving my friends pics anyway "Up to the individual, doesn’t really bother me if I’m honest I just delete straight away if someone sends with a message. Depends what you’re looking for and the type of person you want to attract. I do believe that, rightly or wrongly. Everyone’s different here and that’s good | |||
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Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it... | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it..."Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him! I only ever did whole body or at least a significant amount of context. But I’m not inclined at the moment to show it at all. I may change my mind, but I don’t think it adds anything to my profile to have it on display. My friends are friends, I don’t think they spend their time perving my friends pics anyway
Up to the individual, doesn’t really bother me if I’m honest I just delete straight away if someone sends with a message. Depends what you’re looking for and the type of person you want to attract. I do believe that, rightly or wrongly.
Everyone’s different here and that’s good "Indeed it does. If anyone wants to see the goods they can always ask. And I’ll even provide a magnifying glass for viewing purposes | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many "They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure. I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them... | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it..."Say what! How boring would that be if people left each other alone. Boooooring! | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him! I only ever did whole body or at least a significant amount of context. But I’m not inclined at the moment to show it at all. I may change my mind, but I don’t think it adds anything to my profile to have it on display. My friends are friends, I don’t think they spend their time perving my friends pics anyway
Up to the individual, doesn’t really bother me if I’m honest I just delete straight away if someone sends with a message. Depends what you’re looking for and the type of person you want to attract. I do believe that, rightly or wrongly.
Everyone’s different here and that’s good
Indeed it does. If anyone wants to see the goods they can always ask. And I’ll even provide a magnifying glass for viewing purposes "Ah you forgot to provide me with one of those! So there was something there after all | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them..."but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think? | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think? "So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention? To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers... | |||
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"No, I like looking at willys." Really, stand by for a deluge!!! | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers..."No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution. | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution. "This is a swinging website, it's in the name, the minute you log in and go to the gallery you are confronted with a smorgasbord of human body parts to delight or disgust in. If getting one of those in your inbox is mortifying then you probably aren't on the right website.... | |||
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"Should Fab ‘ban’ cock pics? why, this is a adult site, next you will be wating pussy pics banned and full swap pics banned "Good idea- seen one seen them all! | |||
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"I’m getting less inclined to have them on view anywhere. To clarify- I mean mine. As for what others do I’m not bothered. It’s fine if it’s a whole body. But just a cock on its own like proper in your face! I mean does anyone ever really think OMG look at that cock I must meet him! I only ever did whole body or at least a significant amount of context. But I’m not inclined at the moment to show it at all. I may change my mind, but I don’t think it adds anything to my profile to have it on display. My friends are friends, I don’t think they spend their time perving my friends pics anyway
Up to the individual, doesn’t really bother me if I’m honest I just delete straight away if someone sends with a message. Depends what you’re looking for and the type of person you want to attract. I do believe that, rightly or wrongly.
Everyone’s different here and that’s good
Indeed it does. If anyone wants to see the goods they can always ask. And I’ll even provide a magnifying glass for viewing purposes
Ah you forgot to provide me with one of those! So there was something there after all "Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa  | |||
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"They should be limited to friend pics and not allowed in initial messages at least " I was thinking this. No pics allowed to be sent until at least 5 messages have been exchanged. | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution. "
I feel bad for the people who have nothing else going for them apart from their genitals though. | |||
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"They should ban people poking their noses into how others run their profile. " What a stupid comment | |||
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"No, I like cock pix. Just not 47 if the same one from different angles "Same, my limit is 46
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"They should ban guys putting pics on their profile that contains pics mainly with a women in it and just a bit of their cock showing. Just from the pics you would think its a womans profile." That too. | |||
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"They should ban people poking their noses into how others run their profile. What a stupid comment" Care to elaborate? | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution.
This is a swinging website, it's in the name, the minute you log in and go to the gallery you are confronted with a smorgasbord of human body parts to delight or disgust in. If getting one of those in your inbox is mortifying then you probably aren't on the right website...."the title of the site is fabswingers yes but if you've been here long enough you know full well people use the site in all sorts of ways, yes I agree it's pretty naive to come on a site like this and be offended by naked body parts, I don't think they are mostly offended but I do think that they are pretty fed up with getting pics sent of their cocks as an introductory message, in fact many will block you for it and the smut messages, you've been here a while and you know full well many don't like it,I don't think for one minute the sight of a cock is the problem, I think it's the thoughtlessness of the action along with a rude message in an attempt to do what? Get a woman to meet them? Most women require a little more than that to seduce them don't you think? | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution.
This is a swinging website, it's in the name, the minute you log in and go to the gallery you are confronted with a smorgasbord of human body parts to delight or disgust in. If getting one of those in your inbox is mortifying then you probably aren't on the right website....the title of the site is fabswingers yes but if you've been here long enough you know full well people use the site in all sorts of ways, yes I agree it's pretty naive to come on a site like this and be offended by naked body parts, I don't think they are mostly offended but I do think that they are pretty fed up with getting pics sent of their cocks as an introductory message, in fact many will block you for it and the smut messages, you've been here a while and you know full well many don't like it,I don't think for one minute the sight of a cock is the problem, I think it's the thoughtlessness of the action along with a rude message in an attempt to do what? Get a woman to meet them? Most women require a little more than that to seduce them don't you think? "Post of the week. | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it..."
I'd much rather see a cock pic before meeting just in case he pulls out something that resembles a mouldy mushroom. | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution.
This is a swinging website, it's in the name, the minute you log in and go to the gallery you are confronted with a smorgasbord of human body parts to delight or disgust in. If getting one of those in your inbox is mortifying then you probably aren't on the right website....the title of the site is fabswingers yes but if you've been here long enough you know full well people use the site in all sorts of ways, yes I agree it's pretty naive to come on a site like this and be offended by naked body parts, I don't think they are mostly offended but I do think that they are pretty fed up with getting pics sent of their cocks as an introductory message, in fact many will block you for it and the smut messages, you've been here a while and you know full well many don't like it,I don't think for one minute the sight of a cock is the problem, I think it's the thoughtlessness of the action along with a rude message in an attempt to do what? Get a woman to meet them? Most women require a little more than that to seduce them don't you think? "So for the minority of people that think that sending a cock pic with a "fancy a fuck" message we should remove the option for men to show their knob? And actually 60% of the messages I get from women and couples are "how big is it?" Admittedly not from the people that use the forums, but from the other 99% of the site.... | |||
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"No, maybe ban them being sent with messages tho lol For me I’d agree with this but I don’t think it would work. A lot of women like them. Or a least to non friends then maybe. I get lots enjoy them but there's public & friends pics to show them off in. It would never work anyway fabs won't ban clock pics, moderators have enough to do
True! Personally I think cocks should be in friends pics. Don’t get me wrong I don’t mind them but not at first! "This | |||
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"Why can't people just leave other people alone? If you don't like cock pics.... don't look at them....
Vilifying members or demanding the imposition of rules to regulate what you may find offensive seems ludicrous when this site provides you with all the tools you could need not to see what might offend you, or to limit your exposure to it...Ahh but women can't stop you sending them that's the point and it's a regular complaint by many
They can, they can stop men messaging them full-stop, or only have verified members or restrict messages, by age group etc. Whilst the latter solutions may not provide complete defence against cock pics, it does allow them to limit their exposure.
I have never sent a cock pic in a message unless requested, having said that, if I was totally fed up with receiving a certain type of message in my inbox, then I would probably just stop messages from the people that sent them...but why would they want to stop men messaging them? You're missing the point they ( not all) want to get to know you before they meet you, if you shove your dick in there face as an introduction it's kinda rude don't you think?
So what you are saying and I need to try and understand, that even though the site provides a level of protection against things SOME people may find offensive, we should legislate a blanket ban on such activity because that would starve people of ALL types of attention?
To be perfectly honest, I think single men should be banned from sending the first message unless they have been winked or are on a friendslist...but that won't happen because again, it would limit the amount of attention that certain groups receive which would lead to them leaving the site and creating an even greater disparity in the numbers...No I'm not saying anything about the choices women make or what they do or don't like, what I am saying is it is rude not even kinda rude to send a woman you've never met or spoken to a cock pic as an introductory message, I kinda agree maybe women should get the chance to message guys first maybe that is a solution.
This is a swinging website, it's in the name, the minute you log in and go to the gallery you are confronted with a smorgasbord of human body parts to delight or disgust in. If getting one of those in your inbox is mortifying then you probably aren't on the right website....the title of the site is fabswingers yes but if you've been here long enough you know full well people use the site in all sorts of ways, yes I agree it's pretty naive to come on a site like this and be offended by naked body parts, I don't think they are mostly offended but I do think that they are pretty fed up with getting pics sent of their cocks as an introductory message, in fact many will block you for it and the smut messages, you've been here a while and you know full well many don't like it,I don't think for one minute the sight of a cock is the problem, I think it's the thoughtlessness of the action along with a rude message in an attempt to do what? Get a woman to meet them? Most women require a little more than that to seduce them don't you think?
So for the minority of people that think that sending a cock pic with a "fancy a fuck" message we should remove the option for men to show their knob? And actually 60% of the messages I get from women and couples are "how big is it?" Admittedly not from the people that use the forums, but from the other 99% of the site...."Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. | |||
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"Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. " No offence, this isn't a bar... This is fabswingers. You make a profile, you log in and you are bombarded with all kinds of pictures and opinions and fetishes, kinks etc. If the women of this site truly find getting a cock pic and a "fancy a fuck" message as "rude" then I would question how they managed to last 5 minutes on the site from opening their account. Again the tools are available from the site settings to allow one to choose the way they interact with others. If you allow people to interact with you indiscriminately then, given that this is a website dedicated to finding people to fuck and not a bar (a location dedicated to getting you fucked), one should be prepared for getting those messages. It is far easier to change ones own behaviour to manage a "risk" than to expect the "risk" to manage itself around you... | |||
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"Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. No offence, this isn't a bar... This is fabswingers. You make a profile, you log in and you are bombarded with all kinds of pictures and opinions and fetishes, kinks etc. If the women of this site truly find getting a cock pic and a "fancy a fuck" message as "rude" then I would question how they managed to last 5 minutes on the site from opening their account. Again the tools are available from the site settings to allow one to choose the way they interact with others. If you allow people to interact with you indiscriminately then, given that this is a website dedicated to finding people to fuck and not a bar (a location dedicated to getting you fucked), one should be prepared for getting those messages. It is far easier to change ones own behaviour to manage a "risk" than to expect the "risk" to manage itself around you..." What tools? The only tool available is to block men from messaging it's not about knowing this is a swingers site, it's about manners, it's not about women not being able to tolerate looking at a shrivelled limp hairy dick it's about manners, it's not about reading the line fancy meeting me right now, I know we've never met or chatted, for a good shagging it's about manners. Many don't regard a swingers site as a sex site, swinging is a way of life a lifestyle but good manners achieve the best results, I think you know exactly what I'm saying the 3 veris you have said you were a lovely young man. | |||
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"Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. No offence, this isn't a bar... This is fabswingers. You make a profile, you log in and you are bombarded with all kinds of pictures and opinions and fetishes, kinks etc. If the women of this site truly find getting a cock pic and a "fancy a fuck" message as "rude" then I would question how they managed to last 5 minutes on the site from opening their account. Again the tools are available from the site settings to allow one to choose the way they interact with others. If you allow people to interact with you indiscriminately then, given that this is a website dedicated to finding people to fuck and not a bar (a location dedicated to getting you fucked), one should be prepared for getting those messages. It is far easier to change ones own behaviour to manage a "risk" than to expect the "risk" to manage itself around you...What tools? The only tool available is to block men from messaging it's not about knowing this is a swingers site, it's about manners, it's not about women not being able to tolerate looking at a shrivelled limp hairy dick it's about manners, it's not about reading the line fancy meeting me right now, I know we've never met or chatted, for a good shagging it's about manners. Many don't regard a swingers site as a sex site, swinging is a way of life a lifestyle but good manners achieve the best results, I think you know exactly what I'm saying the 3 veris you have said you were a lovely young man. " To be honest I really don't know what my verifications have to do with anything, I have been in and around this scene since I was 18 years old with polaroids in contact magazines, guess what, there were knob pictures in them too.... Likening this to walking up to someone in a bar. Well . If that bar had a woman bent over the table naked showing me her foo, another couple humping on the pool table, a man wrapped in cellophane in the gents, 25 guys lined up by the dart board with their knob out, 3 couples in the garden being arty (only available in black and white) and a general feeling of, "everyone is naked and hungry" then I might just walk into that bar with my knob out..... Friends may message, if you wink at someone, they can message..... the tools exist. And sometimes just sometimes, sending a "Fancy a fuck" with a picture of your knob works, don't ask me how, I have never done it, but I am guessing it's because the people in question thought "Yes, yes I do, nice cock!" | |||
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"Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. No offence, this isn't a bar... This is fabswingers. You make a profile, you log in and you are bombarded with all kinds of pictures and opinions and fetishes, kinks etc. If the women of this site truly find getting a cock pic and a "fancy a fuck" message as "rude" then I would question how they managed to last 5 minutes on the site from opening their account. Again the tools are available from the site settings to allow one to choose the way they interact with others. If you allow people to interact with you indiscriminately then, given that this is a website dedicated to finding people to fuck and not a bar (a location dedicated to getting you fucked), one should be prepared for getting those messages. It is far easier to change ones own behaviour to manage a "risk" than to expect the "risk" to manage itself around you...What tools? The only tool available is to block men from messaging it's not about knowing this is a swingers site, it's about manners, it's not about women not being able to tolerate looking at a shrivelled limp hairy dick it's about manners, it's not about reading the line fancy meeting me right now, I know we've never met or chatted, for a good shagging it's about manners. Many don't regard a swingers site as a sex site, swinging is a way of life a lifestyle but good manners achieve the best results, I think you know exactly what I'm saying the 3 veris you have said you were a lovely young man. To be honest I really don't know what my verifications have to do with anything, I have been in and around this scene since I was 18 years old with polaroids in contact magazines, guess what, there were knob pictures in them too.... Likening this to walking up to someone in a bar. Well . If that bar had a woman bent over the table naked showing me her foo, another couple humping on the pool table, a man wrapped in cellophane in the gents, 25 guys lined up by the dart board with their knob out, 3 couples in the garden being arty (only available in black and white) and a general feeling of, "everyone is naked and hungry" then I might just walk into that bar with my knob out..... Friends may message, if you wink at someone, they can message..... the tools exist. And sometimes just sometimes, sending a "Fancy a fuck" with a picture of your knob works, don't ask me how, I have never done it, but I am guessing it's because the people in question thought "Yes, yes I do, nice cock!"" lol well at least you're unequivocal | |||
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"Hey you're a fit looking guy you've got 3 good veris, the percentage you are using isn't measurable by you or me, am I lying when I say this is a major gripe for most women, not all obviously, no I'm not, are you saying you send a cock picture and a smutty message I don't know are you? What I'm saying is many women find it very disrespectful and rightly so, you wouldn’t go up to a woman you had just met in a bar and lop your dick out hi babe fancy a good rogering on the pool table would you, no you wouldn’t so just because the site is advertised as a swingers site it allows people, guys, to be rude to women is that what you advocate, you don't come across as rude to me, you seem very articulate and I'm sure you know what manners are. No offence, this isn't a bar... This is fabswingers. You make a profile, you log in and you are bombarded with all kinds of pictures and opinions and fetishes, kinks etc. If the women of this site truly find getting a cock pic and a "fancy a fuck" message as "rude" then I would question how they managed to last 5 minutes on the site from opening their account. Again the tools are available from the site settings to allow one to choose the way they interact with others. If you allow people to interact with you indiscriminately then, given that this is a website dedicated to finding people to fuck and not a bar (a location dedicated to getting you fucked), one should be prepared for getting those messages. It is far easier to change ones own behaviour to manage a "risk" than to expect the "risk" to manage itself around you...What tools? The only tool available is to block men from messaging it's not about knowing this is a swingers site, it's about manners, it's not about women not being able to tolerate looking at a shrivelled limp hairy dick it's about manners, it's not about reading the line fancy meeting me right now, I know we've never met or chatted, for a good shagging it's about manners. Many don't regard a swingers site as a sex site, swinging is a way of life a lifestyle but good manners achieve the best results, I think you know exactly what I'm saying the 3 veris you have said you were a lovely young man. To be honest I really don't know what my verifications have to do with anything, I have been in and around this scene since I was 18 years old with polaroids in contact magazines, guess what, there were knob pictures in them too.... Likening this to walking up to someone in a bar. Well . If that bar had a woman bent over the table naked showing me her foo, another couple humping on the pool table, a man wrapped in cellophane in the gents, 25 guys lined up by the dart board with their knob out, 3 couples in the garden being arty (only available in black and white) and a general feeling of, "everyone is naked and hungry" then I might just walk into that bar with my knob out..... Friends may message, if you wink at someone, they can message..... the tools exist. And sometimes just sometimes, sending a "Fancy a fuck" with a picture of your knob works, don't ask me how, I have never done it, but I am guessing it's because the people in question thought "Yes, yes I do, nice cock!"lol well at least you're unequivocal" Why does it bother you so much? | |||
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