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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Take a break......I do frequently, really does do you the world of good.....a week or so without fab...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take a break......I do frequently, really does do you the world of good.....a week or so without fab...

"

Yeah that could work... I feel its just gone really stale on me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You met somebody three weeks ago according to your summary.

But if you're not enjoying it, take a break then come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure. "

What did you initially want?

Be honest now

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm just here for the forums now. I gave up a while ago of finding a meet.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Take a break see how you feel after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure. "

should I stay or should I go, if your here for meets meet don't waste time ask them to meet for a social they love a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You met somebody three weeks ago according to your summary.

But if you're not enjoying it, take a break then come back. "

Yeah I met someone but clearly we both wanted different things despite me being upfront before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just here for the forums now. I gave up a while ago of finding a meet."
awwww doc

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Think it’s time now. O I don’t know. I only come in to keep in touch with you mad lot and have a laugh on here. My relationship status has changed also and been a man! I is been true and yes she knows

So the question I ask everyday is should I stay or should I go

O I hate decisions

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Take a break......I do frequently, really does do you the world of good.....a week or so without fab...

"

This... just hide your profile and don't think about it

Too many people petulantly delete their profiles only to return again

Gets very wearing

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I'm just here for the forums now. I gave up a while ago of finding a meet.awwww doc "

Meh *shrugs shoulders*

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Take a break......I do frequently, really does do you the world of good.....a week or so without fab...

This... just hide your profile and don't think about it

Too many people petulantly delete their profiles only to return again

Gets very wearing"

This you endlessly see it, ‘back couldn’t stay away’ ‘wish I hadn’t deleted my previous profile’ etc...

The site gives you the option to hide, use it and if in the future you know you’ll not come back delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it is fab is a bit of fun, an alongside to life. You don't NEED to be here so if it's making you unhappy or unfulfilled why do it?

You don't need to delete but you don't need to log in either.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure. "

You call it a day

Definition of stupidity

Doing same thing expecting different results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are your alternatives OP? How else are you going to meet people and identity what you want?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

When you start to wonder if it’s time, then it usually is.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure. should I stay or should I go, if your here for meets meet don't waste time ask them to meet for a social they love a social "

And add they’ll be cake..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are reflective times I wonder what I'm doing here, whether Fab is really filling my needs, and indeed whether it's actually healthy for me to be here, and then something will happen or someone will come along that flips those thoughts on their head and makes me see the positive side of Fab again.

Only you can know if it's good for you, and worth sticking with though OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wanna chat now and again on the forums but so far no response

Maybe it’s because my profile is hidden ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanna chat now and again on the forums but so far no response

Maybe it’s because my profile is hidden ?? "

Well yes that and your age filters

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Fab is meant to be fun, if it isn't take a break. As someone said earlier I've given up looking for a meet, I browse forums and hot pics and accept it for what it is.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I'm just here for the forums now. I gave up a while ago of finding a meet."

Pretty much the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wanna chat now and again on the forums but so far no response

Maybe it’s because my profile is hidden ?? Well yes that and your age filters "

Ohh I see

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I just wanna chat now and again on the forums but so far no response

Maybe it’s because my profile is hidden ?? Well yes that and your age filters

Ohh I see "

Wonder what the actual meet up ratio is? Seems to be a few ladies or couples meeting up with the gym lads

Dunno ?

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By *at4fun888Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire

You probably shouldn’t make a decision until you’ve put up the mandatory “Leaving here, this site is full of fakes” status update......

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"You probably shouldn’t make a decision until you’ve put up the mandatory “Leaving here, this site is full of fakes” status update......"

Haha yes to bring forth all the secret admirers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do you think... Its time to leave this site.

I've spoken with some really nice people on here but I've come to realise I'm not actually getting what I initially wanted from this site.

It's all good and well having messages with people but nothing actually is coming of any messages.

Do I keep on going or just call it a day, I'm really unsure. "

I have noticed things have changed of late, on a few sites (not just here) and as much you may be a great, honest, single*, genuine male , many others are as well.

Its not just about the photos, the profile, the verification's and the conversing, Its all that what makes a meet or for someone to say no, or just delete messages

Why clubs, big organised socials work (FFF at Xtasia 276/27th July) for example. this day in age you need to put in what you want out of life and here.

If you feel you arent getting anywhere, then maybe hide your profile and take a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You probably shouldn’t make a decision until you’ve put up the mandatory “Leaving here, this site is full of fakes” status update......

Haha yes to bring forth all the secret admirers."

fuck no! that never will get you far on here just "talk the talk but not walk the walk"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You met somebody three weeks ago according to your summary.

But if you're not enjoying it, take a break then come back. "

We boys are allowed to be greedy to ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you start to wonder if it’s time, then it usually is."

It's not usually. Just sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You met somebody three weeks ago according to your summary.

But if you're not enjoying it, take a break then come back.

We boys are allowed to be greedy to ya know "

totally

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m not ready to have a break from the site. But maybe the forums. It gets so cliquey.

The site itself I’m having great fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not ready to have a break from the site. But maybe the forums. It gets so cliquey.

The site itself I’m having great fun. "

im the other way round. some messages are samey, the forum and chatrooms are fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You met somebody three weeks ago according to your summary.

But if you're not enjoying it, take a break then come back.

We boys are allowed to be greedy to ya know

totally "

Sorry OP I don't feel your pain. Feeling contentment

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I’m not ready to have a break from the site. But maybe the forums. It gets so cliquey.

The site itself I’m having great fun.

im the other way round. some messages are samey, the forum and chatrooms are fine"

I think I need to explore the chat rooms a little more.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I’m not ready to have a break from the site. But maybe the forums. It gets so cliquey.

The site itself I’m having great fun.

im the other way round. some messages are samey, the forum and chatrooms are fine

I think I need to explore the chat rooms a little more. "

With me you do

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