FabSwingers.com forum: is sex or sexual contact better

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or of course just as good, when feelings become involved with someone?

Ive had some pretty hot intense times on here without being emotionally being attatched but does that extra chemistry help??

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

as we only soft play with others we have found contact can be as erotic as sex between ourselves, however, we have NEVER had a bad fuck between us, so the chemistry thing is massive, whereas we can play with others and sometimes it just feels almost mechanical, if you see what i mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so for me...;-)

I must have an emotional attachment with a partner... Even if its only for the time we are together...

Even a one hour fest with a meet is. for me, is infinitely better than a visit to a Belle du Jour....

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont need to have feelings for anyone to enjoy it, most men i have met i havnt even fancyed that much. As long as i fancy them a bit, if i get a good looking one thats a bonus. I dont enjoy having sex with anyone if i take an instant dislike to them because of things they say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know for a lot of people you couldnt sleep with just anyone and there would have to be a degree of chemistry in the first place..

I was more curious about how/if sex changes when more intense feelings are thrown into the mix... ya know that love thing

Any couples on here started off as singles but the attraction drew more. did sex change or was better when you admitted youd fallen for each other or was it just as good before?

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

for me there has to be feelings gotta like the person i am with dosnt mean i want to spend eternity with them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of men that i have seen more than once i dont love them but i like seeing them a lot. I feel the same when i have sex with them as i do when i have sex with my hubby, really good.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nah, just bend em over and do the business....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nah, just bend em over and do the business....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never fallen in love with someone apart from Jay. But there is one or two that have come along that ive had more feelings for than others. Its not whether your in love with them for me, its whether you have a strong connection sexually with them and i think there is a lot of difference as i certainly dont give my heart lightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can have a intense experience with someone if at that given time you feel right and you are on a similar wavelength with their sexual needs. Probably harder if you've only been with that person once or twice..but not impossible.

I also think that the fact that you love someone shows you have a special 'interest' in them and that you are willing to take the time to find out what those needs are and if necessary put them before your own, thus making the experience all the more intense as a whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know for a lot of people you couldnt sleep with just anyone and there would have to be a degree of chemistry in the first place..

I was more curious about how/if sex changes when more intense feelings are thrown into the mix... ya know that love thing

Any couples on here started off as singles but the attraction drew more. did sex change or was better when you admitted youd fallen for each other or was it just as good before?"

That "love" thing is a strange phenomena and, yes, I think it can make sex more satisfying due to the closeness and one ness you obtain with the person you are emotionally embroiled with.

Not to say that "friendly" sex isn't good though, just "different".

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