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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not invisible at all. I've noticed you several times, posting on similar threads as I do.

But we all go through days like this. Don't worry - the people that should notice you, will do. Chin up!

xx N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what the subject of this thread is, but I know I haven't seen Meli around for a while.

Anyone heard from her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who said that?

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

You look really nice! we would be interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone say something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now now, ladies and gents!

x Niki

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Your Cloak of Invisibility isn't working very well OP

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Big hug Op, always see you gorgeous face.....and if I was tht way inclined I definitely would ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could you think that? You're forum royalty!

Your pics are some of the most teasingly tantalising on the site, they give me fanny flutters whenever I take a peek.

I love when you join in, your posts are always so enlightening and/or funny.

You're my fave and definitely not invisible to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."
I get ignored all the time it's part of life in the forums, the important thing is people like you, so from my perspective you come across well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Echo echo cho cho ho ho o o o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" fanny flutters"

???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

If you feel invisible due to not being noticed in forums and no one reinforcing your good looks, I think most users on here will feel like they’re non existent!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I get it all the time. You are6nt invisible or unattractive but it's hard to convince your brain of the reality sometimes. If you want we can start a sad losers club together if it would help you feel better?

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I can imagine everbody feels a little invisable at times on here. But you can't miss that smile , or your posts.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

We all have days like that - or times when we post and no-one responds or send messages that go unanswered - sometimes it will just be because nothing needs to be added to what was said, sometimes because a thread has taken a tangent and it's no longer relevant, or someone said a similar thing already or any number of reasons.

Doesn't necessarily mean we're invisible or haven't been noticed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have these days, normally if I'm feeling blue but haven't actually noticed I'm feeling blue if that makes sense.

You are far from invisible you beautiful woman (insides too)

Adore you

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Anyone else now got Alison Moyet earworm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meli, I reckon you change your location to:

Forum Royalty Club... Sounds like you've earnt it, doll!

xx N

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I know how you feel. It extends beyond fab though, in fact fab currently feels less so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice you all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

If it's views your worried about, a lot of people browse on ninja mode. I do see your comments on forum posts and there always well thought out and I always think you seem lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meli, I reckon you change your location to:

Forum Royalty Club... Sounds like you've earnt it, doll!

xx N"

Awh that's a lovely thing to say! I agree, +1

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

What?? Who was that? I heard something.... but where did it come from????

Seriously - you are one hot lady and very visible!!!

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Soooooo needy

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

'The more often we see the things around us - even the beautiful and wonderful things - the more they become invisible to us. That is why we often take for granted the beauty of this world; the flowers, the trees, the birds, the clouds - even those we love. Because we see things so often, we see them less and less'.

Chin up gorgeous Meli x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach Meli, this is a little surprising seeing as how often and how much you were commented on over the weekend.

I get that brains don't work like that at times but you are one of the most popular forumites and are much admired and loved.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

Not from the area ,but op you look amazing ,usually don't comment here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah but do ya tits hang low?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you're saying but it's not that deep really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your bum getting sore from all the kissing?

How wet is your lamppost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

Meli, I am sure you get attention but not as much attention as people who are meeting. I have read you profile ( shocking I know ) and I feel people are less likely not to interact with you because you have chosen no longer to meet.

On the bright side I have noticed you in the chat forums and responded to your posts, you make me laugh so you must have a wonderful personality, also you personality comes through I’m so many different ways...... right now you may be feeling a little low, I get that as so many of us on here have a our demons to contend with. I shall share a little advice a good friend gave me, “ when you are low and at the bottom you can’t go any further there is only one way you can go, and the only way is up and you will get better”.

Something to think about OP, sending big love your way

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I know how you feel.

Just remember it’s not real life.

I keep getting ignored lately.

I’m sure your not though. I had someone else say this to me today. I just don’t feel it’s that busy at the moment.

Your a popular poster and everyone’s friend x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Same here _eli ..I can imagine you disappearing to just your smile . like the Cheshire cat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is all very awkward!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure what the subject of this thread is, but I know I haven't seen Meli around for a while.

Anyone heard from her?"

Who is that?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Same here _eli ..I can imagine you disappearing to just your smile . like the Cheshire cat..."

And I looked at you .. not in stealth mode..and fabbed you..but I think I have done that already

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I hope you don't think that of everybody. You know I think you are not just another Fabber. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure what the subject of this thread is, but I know I haven't seen Meli around for a while.

Anyone heard from her?

Who is that?"
the Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh invisibility is a good one....I would prefer to be able to read minds or fly for my power!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

I think you are wonderful ..so clever witty and articulate..I think you could be the love I'm looking for

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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To those who asked who I was - . Fuck you, I know you adore me.

Thanks for all your lovely words, it was a tongue in cheek thread for a game so not serious.

Being truthful - sometimes I do feel invisible on here. And not attractive. If nothing else this thread has shown me I'm not alone in feeling that and people, for all their follies are actually wonderful and supportive.

Thanks for reminding me of that and apologies, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooh invisibility is a good one....I would prefer to be able to read minds or fly for my power! "
lol if you're a friend private her and see how she is

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I fancy the arse off you _eli, you are beautiful and an intelligent young lady and that scares the shit out of me, you have a creative mind where I have creative hands.xx

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Ooo a newbie. Well done on your first post OP!

Enjoy the forums, they can be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've noticed you before Melanie?? How long have you been on the forums? I am a newbie just like you and sometimes it's difficult to stand out because there are so many people on here with strong personalities! My advice is just show your face and join in more then you'll start to get noticed and become popular just like I am X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure what the subject of this thread is, but I know I haven't seen Meli around for a while.

Anyone heard from her?

Who is that?"

You know, shes a woman, used to love her quim, think she was also one of the power rangers but I might have got mixed up with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I've noticed you before Melanie?? How long have you been on the forums? I am a newbie just like you and sometimes it's difficult to stand out because there are so many people on here with strong personalities! My advice is just show your face and join in more then you'll start to get noticed and become popular just like I am X "

Shade thrown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meli beautiful lips, and you look amazing definitely not invisible. Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like this all the time, sometimes I think its more about how I'm feeling about myself at the time.

Sometimes it's because I post on several threads and get completely ignored and then someone prettier or more well none posts something very similar and gets loads of quotes.

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I can't say I've noticed you before Melanie?? How long have you been on the forums? I am a newbie just like you and sometimes it's difficult to stand out because there are so many people on here with strong personalities! My advice is just show your face and join in more then you'll start to get noticed and become popular just like I am X "

Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x"

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x"

I just turned into Muttley

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"I feel like this all the time, sometimes I think its more about how I'm feeling about myself at the time.

Sometimes it's because I post on several threads and get completely ignored and then someone prettier or more well none posts something very similar and gets loads of quotes.

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Snap, chin up sweetheart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem you have when the men outnumber the women is that the good looking women get ignored because the men look for the less attractive ladies thinking they have no chance with the good looking ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x"

Lean into it some more

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

I just turned into Muttley "

Same here. I think my colleagues think I have lost it finally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Meli!

I think most of us have those days/weeks.

I promise you're not invisible, far from it! I for one think you're fucking awesome! And beautiful! And sexy! (I may have mentioned it? )

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

If every single guy started this type of thread the site would face a melt down !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

I just turned into Muttley "
is it a thread dare?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

I just turned into Muttley is it a thread dare? "

No I'm just expressing my true feelings to Melanie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

I just turned into Muttley is it a thread dare? "

Oh bollocks - duped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheer up sausage we all think your rather splendid.

Sending a happy positive Welsh Cwtch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO DONT SAY THAT! Of course you're beautiful and attractive and you're a very smart person I love some of the stuff you post... Also I'm sure there's a cult following for you too on some threads , you are interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Thanks Buttercup. Mwah, x

It's buttercream actually X I think learning to read might help you to stand out on here too x

I just turned into Muttley is it a thread dare?

Oh bollocks - duped "
you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm you have just had a thread dedicated to you, peeps declaring their love on it and shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have days like this xx Big hugs without uninvited gropes for you gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm you have just had a thread dedicated to you, peeps declaring their love on it and shit "

There is even a dual and naked wrestling going on for your affections you lucky lady!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

Is it your first day, luv?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I feel very similar at the moment _eli, I think it's because I'm now single. Confidence has taken a battering. Just need to take a step back and keep your head held high. Much love xxxx

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"Erm you have just had a thread dedicated to you, peeps declaring their love on it and shit

There is even a dual and naked wrestling going on for your affections you lucky lady!!! "

It's not enough. If I could have hourly reminders of my awesomeness, I'd be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm you have just had a thread dedicated to you, peeps declaring their love on it and shit

There is even a dual and naked wrestling going on for your affections you lucky lady!!!

It's not enough. If I could have hourly reminders of my awesomeness, I'd be fine."

I'll set my alarm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been feeling the same for a week or two. I seem to be killing more threads than I used to and if I don't actually kill one my comments don't attract a response.

Meli, you're my favouritest poster and you give me the biggest of fanny gallops x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

Would this mean you have a fragile ego ...

A hug from me

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By *eli OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"I've been feeling the same for a week or two. I seem to be killing more threads than I used to and if I don't actually kill one my comments don't attract a response.

Meli, you're my favouritest poster and you give me the biggest of fanny gallops x"

Oh Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been feeling the same for a week or two. I seem to be killing more threads than I used to and if I don't actually kill one my comments don't attract a response.

Meli, you're my favouritest poster and you give me the biggest of fanny gallops x"
it really is common certain people look out for responses from people they chat to so go there first and overlook yours, of course it also depends what you say, my comments for example above were overlooked it's life in forums, certainly where you're concerned nothing is meant by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome.

Would this mean you have a fragile ego ...

A hug from me "

Who feels invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been invisible on fab but I prefer to be under the radar. Being popular is for the masses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shut it

You're awesome

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I feel like right now I'm kind of invisible on fab, like I'm not noticed by people on the forum and no one finds me attractive or interesting. Does anyone else have these days? Kind words are more than welcome."

I notice you

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