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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How much effort I go to for meets ...

Why am I doing it? Making all the effort again, just like when I was with my husband. Me making all the effort again! What the actual fuck??

I have just done a night shift, came home and seen what a mess it was left in by my 4 delightful children, massive clean was called for. Shower, shave my whole body it seemed like, douche, exfoliate, moisturize, make-up, do hair and try on loads of lingerie.

Fellas make sure you bring your game when you show up because the likelihood is she has gone to a lot of effort for your meet

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'll wash me cock dont worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll wash me cock dont worry "

Check this try hard out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll wash me cock dont worry "

Much obliged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont we all love if its worth doing its worth doing right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much effort I go to for meets ...

Why am I doing it? Making all the effort again, just like when I was with my husband. Me making all the effort again! What the actual fuck??

I have just done a night shift, came home and seen what a mess it was left in by my 4 delightful children, massive clean was called for. Shower, shave my whole body it seemed like, douche, exfoliate, moisturize, make-up, do hair and try on loads of lingerie.

Fellas make sure you bring your game when you show up because the likelihood is she has gone to a lot of effort for your meet "

I get this totally

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Hahahaha this is sooooooo true OP, most my meets social....never repeated as they turned up like a hobo.....

Sorry guys..........nah not sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my shorts and am always clean and smell nice

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I love my shorts and am always clean and smell nice "

All be it toothless....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much effort I go to for meets ...

Why am I doing it? Making all the effort again, just like when I was with my husband. Me making all the effort again! What the actual fuck??

I have just done a night shift, came home and seen what a mess it was left in by my 4 delightful children, massive clean was called for. Shower, shave my whole body it seemed like, douche, exfoliate, moisturize, make-up, do hair and try on loads of lingerie.

Fellas make sure you bring your game when you show up because the likelihood is she has gone to a lot of effort for your meet "

Just to have them message you with a dumb arse excuse for not being able to make it

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I'll wash me cock dont worry

Much obliged "
Any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not my fault your kids haven't tidied up.

I'll throw a wet wipe under the arm pits and the best you'll get I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How much effort I go to for meets ...

Why am I doing it? Making all the effort again, just like when I was with my husband. Me making all the effort again! What the actual fuck??

I have just done a night shift, came home and seen what a mess it was left in by my 4 delightful children, massive clean was called for. Shower, shave my whole body it seemed like, douche, exfoliate, moisturize, make-up, do hair and try on loads of lingerie.

Fellas make sure you bring your game when you show up because the likelihood is she has gone to a lot of effort for your meet

Just to have them message you with a dumb arse excuse for not being able to make it "

This is why I don't give second chances for no shows because it's soul destroying after so much effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do my best to look presentable , showered , shaved and splendidly dressed x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make the effort.

Meet or no meet.

It's usually No meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much effort I go to for meets ...

Why am I doing it? Making all the effort again, just like when I was with my husband. Me making all the effort again! What the actual fuck??

I have just done a night shift, came home and seen what a mess it was left in by my 4 delightful children, massive clean was called for. Shower, shave my whole body it seemed like, douche, exfoliate, moisturize, make-up, do hair and try on loads of lingerie.

Fellas make sure you bring your game when you show up because the likelihood is she has gone to a lot of effort for your meet

Just to have them message you with a dumb arse excuse for not being able to make it

This is why I don't give second chances for no shows because it's soul destroying after so much effort "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always do my best to look presentable , showered , shaved and splendidly dressed x x"

I wouldn't expect anything less from you Taff xxx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

God I so get it. Ugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny that my routine is similar. Ensure shoes are polished. Trim body hair, chest, back, arse, sometimes legs and arms if a bit overgrown. Shave head, face and pubic area topiary or all off depending on time of year and mood. Trim or pluck ear and nasal hair and eyebrows. Douche if there is any suggestion there may be more than a simple social, otherwise exfoliate and have a deep clean shower. Deep clean teeth. Moisturise. Deodorise and apply after shave of choice. Choose appropriate outfit and underwear if not going commando. Pack toys if appropriate and check battery life. Get dressed, final check and then leave. Send a message to say I’m on my way and then pick up any snacks and drinks we might need if appropriate.

I dare say other guys might do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite enjoy the prep part, doing it for a reason is way better than doing it purely so you don't get mistaken for a hobbit day to day.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Funny that my routine is similar. Ensure shoes are polished. Trim body hair, chest, back, arse, sometimes legs and arms if a bit overgrown. Shave head, face and pubic area topiary or all off depending on time of year and mood. Trim or pluck ear and nasal hair and eyebrows. Douche if there is any suggestion there may be more than a simple social, otherwise exfoliate and have a deep clean shower. Deep clean teeth. Moisturise. Deodorise and apply after shave of choice. Choose appropriate outfit and underwear if not going commando. Pack toys if appropriate and check battery life. Get dressed, final check and then leave. Send a message to say I’m on my way and then pick up any snacks and drinks we might need if appropriate.

I dare say other guys might do the same."

I think this is at the moderate effort level for women and the high effort level for men tbh.

The amount of "I know what soap is" around here is unreal. Very clever, come back in 15 years when you're old enough for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny that my routine is similar. Ensure shoes are polished. Trim body hair, chest, back, arse, sometimes legs and arms if a bit overgrown. Shave head, face and pubic area topiary or all off depending on time of year and mood. Trim or pluck ear and nasal hair and eyebrows. Douche if there is any suggestion there may be more than a simple social, otherwise exfoliate and have a deep clean shower. Deep clean teeth. Moisturise. Deodorise and apply after shave of choice. Choose appropriate outfit and underwear if not going commando. Pack toys if appropriate and check battery life. Get dressed, final check and then leave. Send a message to say I’m on my way and then pick up any snacks and drinks we might need if appropriate.

I dare say other guys might do the same.

I think this is at the moderate effort level for women and the high effort level for men tbh.

The amount of "I know what soap is" around here is unreal. Very clever, come back in 15 years when you're old enough for sex. "

I can imagine unfortunately. However I think more guys put considerable effort in than may be given appreciation. I’ve seen some of that effort going on in the changing rooms of the local gym after a workout. I don’t know if they are meeting anyone but they take considerable care about their grooming. My son's grooming regime is as rigorous as mine. He’s only 19.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I quite enjoy the prep part, doing it for a reason is way better than doing it purely so you don't get mistaken for a hobbit day to day. "

I quite enjoy putting on music and getting in the mood - it doesn't really feel like effort for me (although I don't wear make up), it's almost ritualistic.

I think I've been quite lucky as the men I've met make an "effort" as well.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The prep stresses me out haha. I do it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The prep stresses me out haha. I do it anyway. "

If I haven’t given myself enough time - me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well it was worth it big smiles

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well it was worth it big smiles "

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Well it was worth it big smiles "

Yay!!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I love getting ready..... music on, I love doing my make up and deciding on what to wear.

Walking out the door feeling my best.

Nothing better than walking into a bar/pub/hotel to meet someone for the first time.

Excited nerves.

I love seeing their face when they see I’m real and no nasty surprises.

I’m excited for tonight now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my shorts and am always clean and smell nice

All be it toothless.... "
lol but I wasn't until that fatal day I got run over by a female motorbike rider....... Vroooooom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soul destroying"

"Second chances"

???????????????

At the end of the day (or night) it's only swinging sex. It's transitory, it's ephemeral.

And, ultimately, not worth too much emotional investment...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love getting ready..... music on, I love doing my make up and deciding on what to wear.

Walking out the door feeling my best.

Nothing better than walking into a bar/pub/hotel to meet someone for the first time.

Excited nerves.

I love seeing their face when they see I’m real and no nasty surprises.

I’m excited for tonight now "

Admittedly I used to get more excited than I do, 2 years and it does feel like more of an effort than it used to. All pays off when you can feel some kind of sexual connection and you see that satisfied look on his face would be nice to have someone make an effort for me like I do one time though, and I don't just mean washing their cock and a wet wipe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Soul destroying"

"Second chances"

???????????????

At the end of the day (or night) it's only swinging sex. It's transitory, it's ephemeral.

And, ultimately, not worth too much emotional investment..."

It isn't the swinging that's soul destroying it's cleaning up after a night shift after 4 mini human hooligans that I created myself made a mess that could only resemble a bomb going off

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Well it was worth it big smiles "

Brilliant to read Op.

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