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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too young for what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half my age plus 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've got older I prefer similar age or older. Common interests and maturity are most important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh for fucking?

Anything under 30 tends to be too young for me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Under 35

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

The youngest I've met here was 26, I considered someone younger for a bit but decided against it so I'd say that's probably my lower age limit. Never say never though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing younger than my son

He’s 31

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 has been my youngest here. So far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"36 has been my youngest here. So far..."

So far

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

Depends on the person. A 20 year gap is probably the starting point for me.

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sorry for being young guys lol x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Sorry for being young guys lol x"

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like 35 up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke all my rules recently, he was 21 years younger

in future I'll stick to max 10 years younger/older

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Too young for what?"

Jethro Tull - Too Old To Rock 'n' Roll, Too Young To Die

www.youtube.com/watch?v=MtwMMqRihx0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."

20’s full stop, too young

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By *ondon lad 44Man
over a year ago

swindon


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."

Old or young depends who it is. 30 years old is good wink wink x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why.

Old or young depends who it is. 30 years old is good wink wink x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's it I'm doomed

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!! "

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x"

Awwww thanku....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!! "

I beg to differ.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have no age issues at all, depends on the person, how confident they are, how happy they are in themselves and how they approach me !

I have met some very sexy and great people half my age (or less) and also some older than me.

Age is but a number (okay that's an old overused adage)

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Hmmm, hard to say. If they are young but act naturally then I'd go for that. Well, so long as they were legal of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku.... "

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be quite happy with a woman 18-50... 60 with a few exceptions

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old "

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x"

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha"

What ageist rules?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Some bloody cheeky young people on here …..

unlike us polite and respectful and obedient oldies ! (well two out of three aint bad)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?"

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops "

That isn’t ageist....that’s preferences. But okay

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops "

Hahahaha she,s funny.....

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops "

nearly spat out my haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 30 is too young for me and over 46 is too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^ what she says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How come women are generally the younger one in a relationship? So many couple's on here where the man's is 10+ years older but you rarely see couple's where the woman is the one who's 10+ years older smh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."

Maybe its because your filters start at 29

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops nearly spat out my haribos"

Blame yourselfs and your preferences for missing out on my opral fruit Thais made to make your mouth water....Old people don't have the impeccable manners like my age do....They just exclude our feelings with hurtful comments and there sausage and muffin blocking ways are despicable and uncouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come women are generally the younger one in a relationship? So many couple's on here where the man's is 10+ years older but you rarely see couple's where the woman is the one who's 10+ years older smh. "

There’s plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops nearly spat out my haribos

Blame yourselfs and your preferences for missing out on my opral fruit Thais made to make your mouth water....Old people don't have the impeccable manners like my age do....They just exclude our feelings with hurtful comments and there sausage and muffin blocking ways are despicable and uncouth "

I’m only two years older than you and didn’t understand a word of that. Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops

Hahahaha she,s funny..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops nearly spat out my haribos

Blame yourselfs and your preferences for missing out on my opral fruit Thais made to make your mouth water....Old people don't have the impeccable manners like my age do....They just exclude our feelings with hurtful comments and there sausage and muffin blocking ways are despicable and uncouth

I’m only two years older than you and didn’t understand a word of that. Ah well "

Was you to kool 4 skoool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re open minded when it comes to age and judge individuals on compatibility rather than age.

We’ve always had our age filters set to around 20 but that’s mainly because we couldn’t possibly imagine a young lady of that age finding us attractive enough to wanna get naked together

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By *erfectly Average CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If you click you click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re open minded when it comes to age and judge individuals on compatibility rather than age.

We’ve always had our age filters set to around 20 but that’s mainly because we couldn’t possibly imagine a young lady of that age finding us attractive enough to wanna get naked together "

Late 30's is still young though, you're not 40 yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re open minded when it comes to age and judge individuals on compatibility rather than age.

We’ve always had our age filters set to around 20 but that’s mainly because we couldn’t possibly imagine a young lady of that age finding us attractive enough to wanna get naked together

Late 30's is still young though, you're not 40 yet "

Clinging on by our fingernails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer people over 40 as we have adult children and it doesn’t feel right any younger x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There's not a specific cut-off, except where they're clearly highly immature, clueless, didn't learn to read and write - perhaps didn't reach that level in education yet and I feel that they have mastered telling the time skills, so they won't be late, then I'll evaluate them on their unique credentials of being worthwhile to fuck. I spend most of my time with people 18 to early 20's, so I relate well with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you click you click"

True.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I sampled the delights of a very much younger person on joining...we had a good time. But now mid thirties for me.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"If you click you click"

At 57, that's what I'm thinking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."
me neither you're only 30 yourself

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"If you click you click

At 57, that's what I'm thinking too "

Hahahahaha.....crying

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

25 is too young for me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"If you click you click

At 57, that's what I'm thinking too

Hahahahaha.....crying "

If you carry on like this, it will be spanky bum time for you young lady

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

I suppose if you hit the notes together then age isn’t such a big thing having said that someone can be too young , never feel comfy when I see a much older person with like a teenager that’s just a bit wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends on the person. There are very very few young women who are remotely interested in me anyway.so it’s not something I’ve had to consider more than once.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"If you click you click

At 57, that's what I'm thinking too

Hahahahaha.....crying "

I’m crying too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half my age plus 7 years.

"

This

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"Half my age plus 7 years.

This "

Yes this is about right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Half my age plus 7 years.

This

Yes this is about right "

Love the boxers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You suck Jen !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You suck Jen ! "

I sure do and very well I'll have you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops "

Oh I like you

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By *LxxxhMan
over a year ago

Rochdale


"If you click you click"

This is the one. I’ve had women up to 50 so far on here in person and I clicked as well with her than I have with anyone else on here 1 to 1

It might be just I don’t act my age but I don’t really see it an issue if you really click and get on with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops

Oh I like you "

Oh I like you too....A lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry for being young guys lol x

Yes how dare you be young and beautiful!!!!

For what it’s worth you’re beautiful x

Awwww thanku....

We can't help being young....Like they can't help being really really old

Stand up for the 90s kids lol x

Wohoooooooo high five lol and I only just made it into the 90s....I was nearly a naughty lol....So in your face old people and your ageist rules hahaha

What ageist rules?

Ok your ageist views that exclude our sex from your lives....It makes me drip my tears into my rainbow drops

Oh I like you

Oh I like you too....A lot "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird "
. Neber thought if that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way "
I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've reached that magic age where I'm out of most people's reach criteria and it's quite liberating.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I've reached that magic age where I'm out of most people's reach criteria and it's quite liberating.

"

I like the idea of being liberated...I'm right behind you

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I wasn’t sure it mattered that much but bizarrely I’ve discovered tonight that someone is 24, a couple of yrs younger than I thought and it’s thrown me.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why exactly "

Why what?

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"Why exactly

Why what?"

I totally get the same name thing! Like it's just wrong if it's same as a close family members name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn’t sure it mattered that much but bizarrely I’ve discovered tonight that someone is 24, a couple of yrs younger than I thought and it’s thrown me.

Lex"

Who

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Why?"

Can you imagine calling your lover by your mom's or dads name? I can't

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Why?

Can you imagine calling your lover by your mom's or dads name? I can't "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's about personality rather than age, I'm not going to let a number get in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member "

Huh? Why? I married someone with the same name as my brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've reached that magic age where I'm out of most people's reach criteria and it's quite liberating.

I like the idea of being liberated...I'm right behind you "

hurrah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Huh? Why? I married someone with the same name as my brother! "

Personal preference

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have younger guys more than 20 years my junior contacting me, but there is not a chance in hell I could go there!

I think approx 10 years younger is my max limit, though I don't think I could go 10 above my age, unless he was pretty spectacular!

I know some might think that is double standards of some sort, but seeing as most men lie about their age, it usually means they are really 49/50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had this discussion in a none fab way with a friend who has just started dated again

Loads were saying 10yrs younger should be a limit I used to agree but then I met my partner who's 12yrs younger than me and been together 4yrs now it was purely a FWB relationship to start with but then feels came along lol, now live together kid ect ect so I would say don't stick a limit as a strict rule as you could close yourself off to something amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Huh? Why? I married someone with the same name as my brother!

Personal preference "

Ok fair enough but wait I can’t leave this here lol.

So you fall in love with someone and you can’t marry them because they have the same name as someone in your family? Is that what you’re saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Huh? Why? I married someone with the same name as my brother!

Personal preference

Ok fair enough but wait I can’t leave this here lol.

So you fall in love with someone and you can’t marry them because they have the same name as someone in your family? Is that what you’re saying?"

The chance of that happening is near non existent.

I'm foreign so living abroad greatly reduces the chances of that ever happening.

I've swiped left on attractive women before simply because they shared the name of my mom or sister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Below 22 is probably too young, simply because my younger sister is that age and it would make me feel weird . Neber thought if that way I have, I also wouldn't meet anyone sharing the same name as a family member

Huh? Why? I married someone with the same name as my brother!

Personal preference

Ok fair enough but wait I can’t leave this here lol.

So you fall in love with someone and you can’t marry them because they have the same name as someone in your family? Is that what you’re saying?"

Oh and I'm never getting married, firstly because I don't believe in the concept of marriage, secondly I have 0 luck in love/dating department

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer over 35 - but it's not set in stone

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"I wasn’t sure it mattered that much but bizarrely I’ve discovered tonight that someone is 24, a couple of yrs younger than I thought and it’s thrown me.

Lex

Who "

It’s not someone from the forums.

But now I’m more than twice their age

When I thought they were 26, I wasn’t

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Reading this thread is just showing me how different people on fab are, and how many people have very different ideas.

I don't agree with a lot of the sentiments on this thread; but I DO respect the fact that people are entitled to those opinions.

I just wish some people would remember that because it is what they think it is not right for everyone.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m dreaming if anyone younger than 45 is gonna even look at me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m dreaming if anyone younger than 45 is gonna even look at me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men in their 40s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 is my rough dividing line

Women older, men younger

I wish my likes were more in sync

Makes it tough for meeting bi couples

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

30 is about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."

I was 28 he was 18 so 10 years age gap, I have my age set at 30-50 and I do change it at times. Now it is 20 years age gap to 30 and nothing my side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever been with someone a year beneath me. I’m generally always the youngest in the relationship.

I guess I’d not say no to an 18yo though? I just prefer and place more effort into those that are older than myself

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter."

So your saying age should not matter? Bugger that, that is just as bad as saying we should just fuck anybody because we are meant to be swingers and preferences go out the window! Get a grip!

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter.

So your saying age should not matter? Bugger that, that is just as bad as saying we should just fuck anybody because we are meant to be swingers and preferences go out the window! Get a grip! "

So if you looked at a face pic and it took your fancy, "yeah I'd like to go with him/her" then you found out their age say 20 for arguments sake you would not venture? Or the same again, older that you liked, but body type was not quite right you would turn away even if the personality was attractive. You may have misunderstood what I was saying it's like equality, or any other ism these days it should not matter. Like both you and I said preference is the key.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter."

For some age does come into it. Some don't want to be with someone the same age as their parents or maybe younger siblings

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter."

Myself and B were just discussing this very subject.

I worked in a primary school a fair few years back, my first "leavers" will be 23/24 now.

I cannot comprehend having sex with someone who is that age. For me personally I was in a position where I was to protect those from harm, to nurture them, to parent and teach away from home. It would feel like I was taking advantage of a young person. I'm not saying other people ARE taking advantage or abusing, far from it, but for me that's how I would feel, given the job that I did. I have a son not much younger than that and I'm not going to give his friends an opportunity to get in my knickers just because they're legally ok to.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the swinging lifestyle incorporated all legal ages, people types, and experience. Legal age should not come into or old age for that matter. If people want to be in this lifestyle you have to start somewhere. I get maturity and all that but surely all should have a fair crack. Obviously personal preference is key but on the whole it should not matter.

So your saying age should not matter? Bugger that, that is just as bad as saying we should just fuck anybody because we are meant to be swingers and preferences go out the window! Get a grip! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girl at my muay thai gym liked me aged 19

She's 20 now so I am more open to flirting back.

Sadly not seen her in weeks because I've been so poorly.

Hope she won't loose intrest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the difference between 19 and 20 . ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's the difference between 19 and 20 . ??"

A year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally, my kids ages plus five years is our minimum

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over a year ago


"Generally, my kids ages plus five years is our minimum "

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"What's the difference between 19 and 20 . ??

A year "

19 yrs 364 days 23 hrs and 59 seconds

then I second later 20 yrs ! hmm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men my age or older....youngest i will go is 40 but only if i get on with them

And must admit wouldn't ask in a club how old they are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like men my age or older....youngest i will go is 40 but only if i get on with them

And must admit wouldn't ask in a club how old they are"

I wouldn't think to ask either.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

About 32 for me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why."

Younger than our kids... so 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 35"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How young is to young? For me I find myself ignoring his in their early 20s. I'm not actually sure why.

Younger than our kids... so 25"

Good place to start

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