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Have you ever met someone outside your preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And if so, would you consider meeting someone outside of your preferences again?

The reason I'm asking is because majority of the people I've met, I was outside their preferences, I also get winks from people who judging by their profiles should never wink me.

P.S. don't use this thread as a platform to bypass filters

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Yes, I meet a lot at clubs who are outside of my preferences, I have then gone on to meet them socially outside of the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I play in clubs only and yes many times I've played outside of my preference. Be it age or race. It's different when your in clubs as it's based purely on the connection at the time.

I don't meet privately or anyone from here so no on that side of things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I’ve been outside theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve not met anyone outside mine, but I’ve been outside their preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. Thought I would never go for a much younger guy so originally set filters at 5 years younger. Now down to 15 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I like tall guys but if a shorter guy appeals to me then height isn't the be all and end all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I have. Thought I would never go for a much younger guy so originally set filters at 5 years younger. Now down to 15 years younger "

Are you saying you're really 53 then ?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Clubs for us is about meeting couples we hit it off with, no filter for personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes "

I'm guessing you regret it then?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Yes I have...my preferences are a guideline as to what i'm looking for, but there will always be individuals outside of those parameters that I connect with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No she had a pulse

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It depends on the preference - some are set in stone and I wouldn't step outside of them, others are a little more flexible, for example age preferences whilst I have an age range set that relates to the type of person I would normally get on with and be able to relate to, if I got chatting to someone outside of that and we connected then the age of the person would become immaterial.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Nope. Our preferences have been altered over time due to meeting people that were within them previously

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Not generally met outside my preferences, prob because I dont have a long list of them! ... but met a few ladies where I was outside their preference.. all good mind you.

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I have met someone outside my preferences and was surprised how well it went actually.

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By *utchersDogMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Very rarely.

Social meets are one thing, as are club meets.

But just through im's and the meet system here I tend to stick with what I am specifically after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. A few times.

My age limits were 25-40 when I met my OH, he was 45...almost 4 years later he is still hot as fuck and my upper age limit is 50.

They're more vague guidelines really based on experience. For me anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

I'm guessing you regret it then?"

Not entirely but I learnt from it

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes and no I wouldn’t do it again.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I did, 2 or 3 in 6 years.

And no, I won't again.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Yes and no I wouldn’t do it again. "

Club meets are different to 121 socials though.

I’m still just as fussy but the preferences do alter a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And if so, would you consider meeting someone outside of your preferences again?

The reason I'm asking is because majority of the people I've met, I was outside their preferences, I also get winks from people who judging by their profiles should never wink me.

P.S. don't use this thread as a platform to bypass filters "
of course, rules are meant to be broken, none of us would be here otherwise......... The rule of convention springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I only meet people within my preferences. I won't shag people just for the sake of it.

My profile preferences don't reflect my actual preferences.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Our preferences are only a guide. We'd rather not pin down an exact age after which we wouldn't meet but that's just how things work. We'll happily step outside our stated preferences if there's chemistry there.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, only at clubs and organised socials though.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I have yes because you never know who will ignite that spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have done. If the chemistry is good then I will overlook a few things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have and have been, they're only preferences after all. If there's a spark there I'm not going to ignore that because they're either five years older or five inches taller than what I would normally go for, that's just silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant remember tbh

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

There’s almost always one exception. I have been known to step outside of my usual preferences once in a while. It’s part of expanding your mind

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I have yes because you never know who will ignite that spark "

Handy to know you would knowingly meet an arsonist

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie

So many "straight" guys, probably that's what I get most mail, winks, fabs etc on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play in clubs only and yes many times I've played outside of my preference. Be it age or race. It's different when your in clubs as it's based purely on the connection at the time.

I don't meet privately or anyone from here so no on that side of things."

This

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Yes

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yes we did recently. At a party we played with people who were out of our age preference. Based on the play we upped our upper age limit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences are exactly that - I prefer Pepsi Max but will drink Coke Zero. We have preferences and have met outwith those when we've chosen to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, and yes, but anyone who thinks that means they're in with a chance because I have done, it's probably no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, and yes, but anyone who thinks that means they're in with a chance because I have done, it's probably no. "

I'm guilty of that mentality, with 6ft+ ONLY statement, I've seen that mostnof the guys she met were under 6'. I didn't message her, but I did hotlist her

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