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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

So last night I popped to the pub for a drink and chat with friends and heard an interesting argument/discussion between two women on the table next door(to be fair the whole pub heard it) !

One woman was saying that she was going to treat her husband to sex because he'd spent all of Sunday doing jobs around the house.

The other woman was annoyed with her and was saying sex should always and only be when she wanted it and not used as a thank you.

I never heard the outcome as we moved to the pub garden but what are your thoughts ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Sex shouldn't be a reward or because only one person wants it so they were both wrong.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Does the lady want some shelves putting up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both sound like twats if I'm honest....

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Both sound like twats if I'm honest.... "

It was funny though

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

Both are right, we all need a bit of give and take

Sex is a brilliant reward, and I’m sure her man will do it again and again

Don’t we all have our little pleasures this is most likely suiting them both equally

And yes you should only have sex when you desire it, but can you all honestly say both partners are only having sex when you are both in the mood at the same time? One will more likely want it more than the other but you then need to use the love making skills to arouse your partner so you both do

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet


"Both sound like twats if I'm honest.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess each to their own but I'd be pretty upset if my partner only wanted sex with me because I'd cleaned the house

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Rough pub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be pretty chuffed if I got sex each time I cleaned the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glass over back of head

Settled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hazzard a guess that if sex was offered as a reward, whoever is offering wants to fuck them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex shouldn't be a reward or because only one person wants it so they were both wrong."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What reward does she get when she maintains her own house? I know a guy who refers to looking after his own children as baby sitting .

I think they're both right because people do use sex in different ways, if it works for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.

There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment

P

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Well, when I've done any housework, I do generally have a little wank afterwards...who knew I was actually having thank you sex with myself!

Things you learn on a Monday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex shouldn't be a reward or because only one person wants it so they were both wrong."

This.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.

There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment

P"

That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.

But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.

There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment

P

That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.

But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up "

I know, somethings happening to my sarcastic side.... I think I may be softening.

Or maybe I'm just gutted I was too late to the thread and the shelves comment had already been made

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Maybe him sorting the house made her feel respected and appreciated, and this in turn helped with her feeling in the mood so to speak.

There are many ways to make gestures that remind us we are loved and thought about, sex may not necessarily be a reward, yet something that happens naturally once we're feeling that love/appreciation/contentment

P

That’s a very sensible thing to say, and beautifully put, too. You’re absolutely right.

But not as funny as the earlier post asking if she wanted some shelves putting up

I know, somethings happening to my sarcastic side.... I think I may be softening.

Or maybe I'm just gutted I was too late to the thread and the shelves comment had already been made

P"

I couldn’t possibly love you any more

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Maybe it made her horny at the thought that he did all the jobs and she doesn't have to ask anymore....whatever it is if it suits them what's the harm. I can't say we have ever used bribery for having sex though.

Who knows , after doing all those jobs he may be asleep when she got home and she would have to diddle herself instead

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Does the lady want some shelves putting up ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Maybe it made her horny at the thought that he did all the jobs and she doesn't have to ask anymore....whatever it is if it suits them what's the harm. I can't say we have ever used bribery for having sex though.

Who knows , after doing all those jobs he may be asleep when she got home and she would have to diddle herself instead"

Opps it wasn't bribery but a reward. I can't say I have ever thought that either, we either want sex or we don't...but still, if it floats her boat whats the harm

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"Does the lady want some shelves putting up ?

"

Never mind shelves I've inadvertently offered to build her a conservatory

#bloodyalcohol

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