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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm pretty new to the scene and the site so far upto now I keep getting PMS from tvs or blokes when my profile clearly states I'm looking for women only ,no offence to the guys on here but does no one read peoples profiles before they message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your message filters to stop people you don’t want messaging you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't read,they just look at pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fancy a bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty new to the scene and the site so far upto now I keep getting PMS from tvs or blokes when my profile clearly states I'm looking for women only ,no offence to the guys on here but does no one read peoples profiles before they message "

Maybe if you wasn't wearing hi-viz orange you wouldn't be so noticeable?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times has it happened?

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Braintree


"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"

get ready for Radio silence

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can change your personal settimgs to not get messages from guys and tvs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"

If more people thought like that I'd be very happy. But no. Pretty picture = send stupid messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only people figured out how to use the filters when they first join then they wouldn't have these problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol"

I've been on here about 15 months and in that time I've probably had about 4 messages like this so it's not really an issue for me.

Are you sure you're not giving them some kind of come-on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

17 times since I joined before the last bloke told me to change settings lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Already changed the filters after I turned a TVs down and he told me to change filter lol still not the point though I mean surely you read profile first just so there ain't no hidden surprises lol

I've been on here about 15 months and in that time I've probably had about 4 messages like this so it's not really an issue for me.

Are you sure you're not giving them some kind of come-on?"

1 million percent not whenever I upload a new picture I get blokes messaging me so I remove the picture then few days later put another pic up and bang same again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they just look at photos and message.

It’s annoying that they don’t read the profile.

But you can do this:

Go into account and go into message filters. It does stop ones you don’t want messaging you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say 75% of the people who message us haven't read our profile for sure, a further 20% probably haven't but their first message doesn't reveal that, 4% have read it but fit our criteria but thought they'd message anyway and 1% read it, understood it and fit the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

99% don't read mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont read em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you Dave

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

I'm sick if skinny people contacting me even though I make it clear on my profile I only enjoy the fuller figure.

These 1st world problems really effect us - if only we were lucky enough to only have minor problems such as starvation, NATO bombing our kids for oil or ebola.

I feel so sorry for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people either don't read at all or scan the first couple of paragraphs then hit message.

If you've set your filters, there's not much else you can do - you can't control the behaviour of others! Just delete and focus on the people you are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just trying their luck. There are so many “Fab Straight” guys on here that gives some people the false impression anyone is game.

Take it as a compliment. I’m sure not everyone gets that many message from people thinking they’re fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no gay men in Sunderland op so you are talking shit. And block all men. Typical stupid mackem male.

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