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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Personally, I'd get bored and possibly bits of me would start to go numb, but I'm not your target market lol

I'd say variety , different positions,changing pace from frantic to gentle and back again.But discuss with your partner,do they want a quickie,a marathon or something in between?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There is not necessarily any such thing as too long or even too short - it's more a case of finding the right thing for both people involved, and being able to read signals of a partner to mix things up a little - so it may well depend on whether you are doing that.

Have you thought to ask the person concerned what they'd like and taking that on board?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour of penetration would bore me shitless....I'd be dry and sore and done with my magazine by the time it was over and you pulled my nightie down.

I prefer several short sessions with loads of jokes and cuddles and shite chat in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

"

An hour would be too long for me...

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Braintree


"Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

"

depends are you talking about time spent taking a shit or looking at your self in the mirror ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can fuck for hours and I love it!! Different positions, stopping and switching to oral or some rimming!! Maybe a toy or two! Love a good long session! Never dry because it’s just soooo damn gooood!!! Thank goodness OH has the stamina!!

So yeh, never too long for me!! Keep the orgasms cumming!!

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd find an hour too long. I do enjoy a long session every now and then but I couldn't do it all of the time.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

"

Depends what you're doing?

An hour of in and out jack hammer pumping is tedious.

Mix it up and throw in some moves and it can be fun.

Plus plenty of lube

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

A fucking hr seriously is that it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could help you OP but what are you taking too long to do, it doesn’t say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could help you OP but what are you taking too long to do, it doesn’t say?"

When the broccoli turns from a nice vibrant spring green to a dull dark green, that's too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could help you OP but what are you taking too long to do, it doesn’t say?

When the broccoli turns from a nice vibrant spring green to a dull dark green, that's too long"

I wouldn’t know that as I have my servants prepare all my meals for me. Normally it takes them an hour to make my dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I've heard, it's best to do an impression of the character Rimmer from Red Dwarf- make love like a Japanese Banquet. Plenty of small, but satisfying courses!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's about meeting the person you're with. If they're not enjoying anymore, stop.

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By *annyP1987Man
over a year ago

croydon

Completely agree with Minnie the Minx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Which person might be considered ungrateful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From another thread...

I was joking about the all night long bit, especially not these days

I can still find the right spot

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You need to communicate with your partners, se

O you can share what your expectations and needs are.

If past sessions suggested too long, did it mean less interesting than they'd prefer, so an alternative might. Improve it, or would better communication all the way through, have resulted in a more matched ending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am surprised by this. So how long is a good session?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

"
to long to cum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could help you OP but what are you taking too long to do, it doesn’t say?

When the broccoli turns from a nice vibrant spring green to a dull dark green, that's too long

I wouldn’t know that as I have my servants prepare all my meals for me. Normally it takes them an hour to make my dinner "
so you go from peckish to starving then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I cum at the first pene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there complaining you need to look at yourself to make the time more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OP I like long sessions and an hour sounds OK as long as you’re paying attention to me for that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am similar, particularly after a couple of ciders...i cant cum.

But mixing it up stops the repetitiveness of it and stops my mind from being elsewhere.

Nothing a clit nibble in the middle cant relax

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"We can fuck for hours and I love it!! Different positions, stopping and switching to oral or some rimming!! Maybe a toy or two! Love a good long session! Never dry because it’s just soooo damn gooood!!! Thank goodness OH has the stamina!!

So yeh, never too long for me!! Keep the orgasms cumming!!

x"

We're very much like you here. We will normally spend about two hours when we have sex and there plenty of touching, squeezing, kissing, showering, licking, oral, penetration, toys and everything at our disposal. We have gone up to five hours.

One day we spent four hours just on a blanket in the woods. Luverly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It Can never be too long

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"It Can never be too long "

You’ve been gone too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It Can never be too long

You’ve been gone too long "

Couple of weeks. Aw did you miss me

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"It Can never be too long

You’ve been gone too long

Couple of weeks. Aw did you miss me "

Of course! This home security system that watches for stalkers in the bushes at night has got cobwebs on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh it takes about a hour to cum......

I wouldn’t be able to maintain just pile driving for that long! Far too boring, I mix it up, go down in between swapping positions, I love the taste of a wet vaaaaaajayjay, I’d even have a lil smoke and a cuddle, sensual to rampant and right back again

It’s just Ive been getting told to stop before I have time to finish...... I finally understand how some of you women feel now :L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It Can never be too long

You’ve been gone too long

Couple of weeks. Aw did you miss me

Of course! This home security system that watches for stalkers in the bushes at night has got cobwebs on it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first full swap type meet before joining Fab it was something like 3 hours plus an hour of talking/drinks first. Too long?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most know what I'm going to say I've mentioned it that much... Let's see who gets it first or knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most know what I'm going to say I've mentioned it that much... Let's see who gets it first or knows? "

6 hours!!

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Recently I have been receiving a lot of grief for ‘taking to long’

I’m talking about a hour..... ish give or take

Would the individual involved be considered ungrateful or what?

How long is too long?

"

Its too long to spend on the toilet.The person on the other side of the door needs to use it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most know what I'm going to say I've mentioned it that much... Let's see who gets it first or knows?

6 hours!!"
yay ... I envy those that are quick ... 6hours is too long ...

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