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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do? "

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me "
What did you do though?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I have, so I met him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me What did you do though? "

I highly doubt she rejected his advances lol

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By *ubby and naughty wifeCouple
over a year ago

kingswinford.


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me "

Why wouldn’t they? Your a hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times...

One of them is now my OH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me What did you do though?

I highly doubt she rejected his advances lol"

Why would you assume that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

Yep!

Im never one to believe in ‘punching above their weight’ or ‘they’re too good for me’ but it does always baffle me when someone I find fucking gorgeous is attracted to me What did you do though?

I highly doubt she rejected his advances lol"

From the men I could actually potentially meet (only two that were local) I didn’t meet one of them. I felt far too anxious and was scared he wouldn’t like me in person, and I ended up getting really ill anyway so it just never happened. The other one, well, I’m keen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many times...

One of them is now my OH "
Well done you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met him. I assumed he only wanted a social as I'm much older and he's way out of my league.

I was wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do? "

I rejected him...

Im not into the gym fit vacuous airhead types ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but then I put it into context, this isn't like real life where they would see my shyness and my goofyness or my tendancy to go for comfort rather than sex appeal in my clothing.

They're just seeing my most flattering pics and my confident exterior.

Also I realise they're in the same boat and could be just like me. I just go for it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. We met. It was great.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I’m quite confident but also realistic and don’t think anyone is better than me or ‘out of my league’. Those that think they are tend to be thick as horse shit when I talk to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

I rejected him...

Im not into the gym fit vacuous airhead types ... "
yes I've always found the gym a little boring much prefer competitive sport makes you push to be better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do? "
It's difficult to portray personality here I think but does personality or their perceived personality sway you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do? "

What do you mean exactly by who’s more stunning than me? Looks, personality or intelligence? Unfortunately, haven’t met him yet

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An interesting question would be, how did they make you feel this way about them?

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I don’t think anyone is above or out of people’s lesuges. It’s all about confidence for me and if I was attracted to them I’d make the effort to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

What do you mean exactly by who’s more stunning than me? Looks, personality or intelligence? Unfortunately, haven’t met him yet

.

An interesting question would be, how did they make you feel this way about them?"
lol your bum is certainly stunning, I think paying particular attention to the quality of your pics plays a part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

What do you mean exactly by who’s more stunning than me? Looks, personality or intelligence? Unfortunately, haven’t met him yet

.

An interesting question would be, how did they make you feel this way about them?lol your bum is certainly stunning, I think paying particular attention to the quality of your pics plays a part "

So a guy will think I’m more stunning than he is because of my arse? Come on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have I was totally shocked, I managed to fuck it right up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t think anyone is above or out of people’s lesuges. It’s all about confidence for me and if I was attracted to them I’d make the effort to meet "

Absolutely agree with you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have I was totally shocked, I managed to fuck it right up."

What then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

What do you mean exactly by who’s more stunning than me? Looks, personality or intelligence? Unfortunately, haven’t met him yet

.

An interesting question would be, how did they make you feel this way about them?lol your bum is certainly stunning, I think paying particular attention to the quality of your pics plays a part

So a guy will think I’m more stunning than he is because of my arse? Come on..."
No I meant all your pics not just the avatar

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

A meet on fab !!! what is that ? I have given up trying, the last four I arranged never happened, some for good reasons, some just never turned up and never said why !

So never again, but I like posting in forums and chatting in rooms, so fab stays for now xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do?

What do you mean exactly by who’s more stunning than me? Looks, personality or intelligence? Unfortunately, haven’t met him yet

.

An interesting question would be, how did they make you feel this way about them?lol your bum is certainly stunning, I think paying particular attention to the quality of your pics plays a part

So a guy will think I’m more stunning than he is because of my arse? Come on...No I meant all your pics not just the avatar "

Good save

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I have I was totally shocked, I managed to fuck it right up.

What then?"

Moved on and strangely enough just been approached again in last 10 mins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A meet on fab !!! what is that ? I have given up trying, the last four I arranged never happened, some for good reasons, some just never turned up and never said why !

So never again, but I like posting in forums and chatting in rooms, so fab stays for now xxx"
Hey don't give up, loads of lovely women here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup plenty of times. The latest yesterday, he's jaw dropping beautiful he messaged because I've started to meet again and he's apparently been waiting for my profile to change for 3 months.

I declined to meet him, not because of his looks or me thinking he's above my league etc but because I didn't feel we would have anything in common and I could tell after a 5minute chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got contacted by a gorgeous guy on here. After a few weeks of chatting I agreed to meet him. Socially of course. When I saw him in the bar, my jaw nearly dropped. But I played it cool he's a swimming coach and a model. We played a few pool games, then he had to leave do do some training. Later in the evening he came around mine and left a few hours later. I had a smile on my face for a few days

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have turned men down in the past for being too fit/handsome whatever you want to call it, I couldn’t meet anyone who wouldn’t be seen with me socially, I wouldn’t want people looking over wondering why that male model is with the fat bird in the corner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yup plenty of times. The latest yesterday, he's jaw dropping beautiful he messaged because I've started to meet again and he's apparently been waiting for my profile to change for 3 months.

I declined to meet him, not because of his looks or me thinking he's above my league etc but because I didn't feel we would have anything in common and I could tell after a 5minute chat. "
a live 5 minute chat or a text chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ... I can’t say I get that many interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope ... I can’t say I get that many interested "

Really, with those eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup plenty of times. The latest yesterday, he's jaw dropping beautiful he messaged because I've started to meet again and he's apparently been waiting for my profile to change for 3 months.

I declined to meet him, not because of his looks or me thinking he's above my league etc but because I didn't feel we would have anything in common and I could tell after a 5minute chat. "

Needs to be a spark ok...there have been absolutely stunning ladies that l was fortunate that they gave me their time to chat to after sending a message but while in chatting quickly discovered that they were so much all about themselves...instant turn off straight away for me...yes..l know some might say it's just about getting laid here but ladies full of themselves ain't for me ..

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes won't go into details tho. I met him. Actually knew him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes won't go into details tho. I met him. Actually knew him "
really and how did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all know how challenging it can be to get a meet on here, obviously some are gifted and that's not the case but have you ever had someone that approached you that was so absolutely stunning that you were taken aback and what did you do? "

Yep, we flirted on the forums and I made him send the first PM in case his flirting was just for show!

He's now my other half

P

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Yes won't go into details tho. I met him. Actually knew him really and how did it go? "

He left with a smile. I still bump into him now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes won't go into details tho. I met him. Actually knew him really and how did it go?

He left with a smile. I still bump into him now and then "
lol

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