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50 things for adults to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

"Why as adults have we lost the ability to play, for children it is a necessity, biologically driven and is meant to develop all manner of skills including improving mental health, surely the need to play doesn't dissipate, it should evolve.

I will play, love jumping in puddles, love roley poleying down hills, love the swings, love the slide but got stuck haha. Laying on the grass looking at shapes in clouds is another.

I often think we should develop a challenge, one of 50 things for adults to do daily." - Words from a lovely lady on here on the kite thread.

So what will be your choice of things that adults should do to be happy?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Let go

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Run naked into the sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Climb a tree

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Run naked into the sea"

Do you mind if we join you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build a camp

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Find things that give you joy and you don't feel self conscious about. Those are playing.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Water gun fights or water balloon catch. We do this everytime we go camping x

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Build a den

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dance whenever the mood takes you.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Get the skipping rope out, on your own or a massive one and gather all the other adults in your street to join in. We used to do that as kids, it was fun, can't remember the song that went with it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh yes, singing. Songs from growing up. Go where no one can hear you. Belt it out.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Build a den"

Or a wigwam

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Play hide and seek as adults

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Play hide and seek as adults"

Or sardines!

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By *hris196750Man
over a year ago

northallerton

Masterbate in front of the mirror if that counts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find things that give you joy and you don't feel self conscious about. Those are playing. "

I do this. People think I'm insane.

It's incredibly freeing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the skipping rope out, on your own or a massive one and gather all the other adults in your street to join in. We used to do that as kids, it was fun, can't remember the song that went with it "

Oh crikey how much fun would that be?! A street party.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Get the skipping rope out, on your own or a massive one and gather all the other adults in your street to join in. We used to do that as kids, it was fun, can't remember the song that went with it

Oh crikey how much fun would that be?! A street party. "

I can remember about 10 of us all skipping in one big rope at the same time, then one would leave, everyone would move up then that person would jump in at the back. It's bugging me that I can't think of the song. If you were the one that messed up you were out. We done this on our road.....ahhhhh, those were the days!!! Happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get the skipping rope out, on your own or a massive one and gather all the other adults in your street to join in. We used to do that as kids, it was fun, can't remember the song that went with it

Oh crikey how much fun would that be?! A street party.

I can remember about 10 of us all skipping in one big rope at the same time, then one would leave, everyone would move up then that person would jump in at the back. It's bugging me that I can't think of the song. If you were the one that messed up you were out. We done this on our road.....ahhhhh, those were the days!!! Happy days "

Double dutch? I was shit at skipping, I could jump once then tripped.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beachcombing for shells and building sandcastles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shopping trolley racing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run naked into the sea"

Did that yesterday! Woohoo

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent


" love the swings

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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FfQ9eIsgqvE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run round in your Mums high heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run round in your Mums high heels "

Mind you it's not the same in a sensible pair of Pavers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a shit in the woods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run round in your Mums high heels

Mind you it's not the same in a sensible pair of Pavers"

So I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Build a campfire and roast marshmallows over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play knock-a-door run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play kerby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use jumpers for goalposts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go fishing in the canal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go tadpoling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have all your mates in and get pissed on whisky whilst your parents are at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nick random shit for bonfires - break into a building site for wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Why as adults have we lost the ability to play, for children it is a necessity, biologically driven and is meant to develop all manner of skills including improving mental health, surely the need to play doesn't dissipate, it should evolve.

I will play, love jumping in puddles, love roley poleying down hills, love the swings, love the slide but got stuck haha. Laying on the grass looking at shapes in clouds is another.

I often think we should develop a challenge, one of 50 things for adults to do daily." - Words from a lovely lady on here on the kite thread.

So what will be your choice of things that adults should do to be happy?

"
rummycup it's competitive and requires a quick mind

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Fly a kite

Play frisbee

Hoola hoop

Take dancing lessons. I went back to tap dancing

Let your hair down

Do something new

Take a train journey to somewhere new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go out with your mates at 9am and don't come back til after dark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to love playing knocky knocky hido

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play war with invisible guns

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Fly a kite

Play frisbee

Hoola hoop

Take dancing lessons. I went back to tap dancing

Let your hair down

Do something new

Take a train journey to somewhere new"

I flew a kite for the first time recently, I couldn’t believe how much fun it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fly a kite

Play frisbee

Hoola hoop

Take dancing lessons. I went back to tap dancing

Let your hair down

Do something new

Take a train journey to somewhere new"
I do the train journey thing

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Dance whenever the mood takes you. "

Always do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dance whenever the mood takes you.

Always do this "
me to

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Run naked into the sea"

I highly recommend this one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Run naked into the sea

I highly recommend this one!!!"
did it today several times lol

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I do most of these things on this thread when the mood takes me, not sure if that's good or bad.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Run naked into the sea

Do you mind if we join you? "

The more the merrier

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Roll down a hill and make wheeee noises. I did it last week and was such in a happy mood after.

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Roll down a hill and make wheeee noises. I did it last week and was such in a happy mood after. "

Watch out for dog shit

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Roll down a hill and make wheeee noises. I did it last week and was such in a happy mood after. "

I did exactly this at Princes St Gardens in Edinburgh after the Pride parade. It was the best moment of my summer so far!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Have mystery trips and events with your friends, rotating who organises them. Absolutely anything is permitted.

Every time a voice in your head says you can't, shouldn't etc, consider if it's legal etc and wouldn't hurt anyone and then enjoy doing it. Break some rules.

Have picnics in nature or wonderful places

Vary your tempo often

I agree op, we as adults must play - it's unnatural not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sing really loudly and out of tune.

To walk a cat on a leash and, give zero f*cks.

To admit to being a connoisseur of your own farts.

Dancing naked whilst attempting to replicate meat spin.

Playing on a child’s swing set.

Laughing at funny jokes (without caring about political correctness?)

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Play hide and seek as adults"

Tag, you're it.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Run thru the water sprinklers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide behind doors and jump out at people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it a shock and kind of sad that people don't do these things tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've found it a shock and kind of sad that people don't do these things tbh "
I do them and archery, I'm buying a kayak next week so I can see ' old Harry ' up close and personal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Run round in your Mums high heels

Mind you it's not the same in a sensible pair of Pavers"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Build a campfire and roast marshmallows over it"

I light the bbq just for this reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to love playing knocky knocky hido "

What is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have mystery trips and events with your friends, rotating who organises them. Absolutely anything is permitted.

Every time a voice in your head says you can't, shouldn't etc, consider if it's legal etc and wouldn't hurt anyone and then enjoy doing it. Break some rules.

Have picnics in nature or wonderful places

Vary your tempo often

I agree op, we as adults must play - it's unnatural not to

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I like the mystery trip idea.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found it a shock and kind of sad that people don't do these things tbh "

They'd probably get arrested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hilarious when you shuffle across the office nylon carpet like James Brown, carefully working your way behind your boss and then touching him on the back of the ear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Why as adults have we lost the ability to play, for children it is a necessity, biologically driven and is meant to develop all manner of skills including improving mental health, surely the need to play doesn't dissipate, it should evolve.

I will play, love jumping in puddles, love roley poleying down hills, love the swings, love the slide but got stuck haha. Laying on the grass looking at shapes in clouds is another.

I often think we should develop a challenge, one of 50 things for adults to do daily." - Words from a lovely lady on here on the kite thread.

So what will be your choice of things that adults should do to be happy?

"

Thank you so much for posting! Loving reading the replies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Find things that give you joy and you don't feel self conscious about. Those are playing.

I do this. People think I'm insane.

It's incredibly freeing. "

Dear OP

If i give you my mums mobi can u please tell her im not mad when i skip down the road or hear a song and bust out some moves in the lift in JOHN LEWIS .. or pull tongues at kids in car or adults come to think about it.

Thanks

My body might be registered in the 1960ies but my heart and mind are in the 1980ies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cycled along beach this morning tide out no hands can still do it even on a mountain bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eating a whole wagon wheel in one go.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Hop. Or skip.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Find things that give you joy and you don't feel self conscious about. Those are playing.

I do this. People think I'm insane.

It's incredibly freeing.

Dear OP

If i give you my mums mobi can u please tell her im not mad when i skip down the road or hear a song and bust out some moves in the lift in JOHN LEWIS .. or pull tongues at kids in car or adults come to think about it.

Thanks

My body might be registered in the 1960ies but my heart and mind are in the 1980ies. "

Yeah course I would.

Thing is, they don't know you. You'll probably never see them again. Even if you do, so what if they think you're mad.

No matter what we do in life, some will approve and some won't. We're not killing anyone, we are looking after ourselves and being happy. I could be run over by a bus tomorrow so today I'll have fun.

Serious bit over, back to jumping in puddles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Why as adults have we lost the ability to play, for children it is a necessity, biologically driven and is meant to develop all manner of skills including improving mental health, surely the need to play doesn't dissipate, it should evolve.

I will play, love jumping in puddles, love roley poleying down hills, love the swings, love the slide but got stuck haha. Laying on the grass looking at shapes in clouds is another.

I often think we should develop a challenge, one of 50 things for adults to do daily." - Words from a lovely lady on here on the kite thread.

So what will be your choice of things that adults should do to be happy?

Thank you so much for posting! Loving reading the replies xx "

x

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