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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So in this age of diminishing attention spans, micro-mesaaging and rapid fire social media, what is the ideal length for a profile on here? 3 words to War and Peace - tell me how long it should be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll read any length. Whether it has all the information I deem relevant or not to a swinging profile/ important for me to know, that’s another story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in this age of diminishing attention spans, micro-mesaaging and rapid fire social media, what is the ideal length for a profile on here? 3 words to War and Peace - tell me how long it should be!"
If it's interesting then the length of your phone if it's not and it's basically a rant it doesn't matter because nobody reads it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So does mine provide the relevant detail?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?"

Doesn’t include much to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?

Doesn’t include much to be honest"

So maybe that's where I am going wrong. What else would be of use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?

Doesn’t include much to be honest

So maybe that's where I am going wrong. What else would be of use?"

Take a look at successful male profiles to get an idea from them. I’m awful at giving advice - in my opinion it’s bare and really doesn’t tell me anything at all

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?"

In one particular area it's perfect. Kudos for the honesty but the rest is not worth the effort of reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?"
it needs more of you in it, what you're here for, some personality, the married thing will appeal to some and not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be the same length as the profile owners penis

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street


"It should be the same length as the profile owners penis"

I don't have a penis... should I change it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?"

It just speaks about you, you are married and you use kik..bland too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does mine provide the relevant detail?

Doesn’t include much to be honest

So maybe that's where I am going wrong. What else would be of use?"

you need to make the reader mesmorised!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blimey I never realised so much could be read into a few sentences.

Feeling bruised here, but it goes to prove the old saying....

You never get a second chance to make a first impression!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should be the same length as the profile owners penis

I don't have a penis... should I change it?"

Go by the length of your favourite dildo/vibe, ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So now there is an ideal penis length which I don't have but also a profile lenght?

Thx God I am good at cutting toe nails

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Well done for including you're married

Sell yourself though as it can be tough enough for single men here.

Why should someone choose you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no perfect length

There is no perfect profile

Write what reflects you, what you offer and what you seek

Mirror that with some images and see how you go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is indeed a challenge on here. But I am not a boastful person. Does over confidence really work?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

As the others have already said, respect for the honesty on being married, however that’s all we really know about you

Take a browse at some profiles and get ideas and then build it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My updated one is too long but I can't see how I can cut it down as I want a guy who ticks all the boxes and the type of guy who does would have the attention span to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My updated one is too long but I can't see how I can cut it down as I want a guy who ticks all the boxes and the type of guy who does would have the attention span to read it "

It is too long. I got up to 'anyway happy.... ' then got bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s 6.5 inches long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So in this age of diminishing attention spans, micro-mesaaging and rapid fire social media, what is the ideal length for a profile on here? 3 words to War and Peace - tell me how long it should be!"

How longs a piece of string?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like long ones, I get bored.

I wouldn't bother reading mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you need to scroll down when you start reading the bio its too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if you need to scroll down when you start reading the bio its too long "

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It should be the same length as the profile owners penis

I don't have a penis... should I change it?"
yes in your case a double ended strapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My updated one is too long but I can't see how I can cut it down as I want a guy who ticks all the boxes and the type of guy who does would have the attention span to read it

It is too long. I got up to 'anyway happy.... ' then got bored "

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"So in this age of diminishing attention spans, micro-mesaaging and rapid fire social media, what is the ideal length for a profile on here? 3 words to War and Peace - tell me how long it should be!"

Long enough to satisfy, not so long it hurts , sometimes just long enough to leave them wanting more x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So in this age of diminishing attention spans, micro-mesaaging and rapid fire social media, what is the ideal length for a profile on here? 3 words to War and Peace - tell me how long it should be!

Long enough to satisfy, not so long it hurts , sometimes just long enough to leave them wanting more x"

Well said

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ideal length is enough to whet my appetite, provide a good understanding about you and your interests, leaving m me interested for more.

Depending on each person, what they have to say etc, everyone is unique - how concise they make things etc.

I'm not average, even if attention spans are reducing - I have enough attention for someone who is interesting. Short profiles with little content are the problem.

Let others skim read etc, if they find it too wordy. Assume they are capable of being an adult and so having enough content is important, so they don't just move on to the next person, feeling you've not paid attention to their needs.

A good 4 or 5 paragraphs is probably the minimum I'd like. Avoid much if any stuff that's not likely to be relevant for no strings partners. One large mono-block of text is worse than organised paragraphs with good form.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideal length is enough to whet my appetite, provide a good understanding about you and your interests, leaving m me interested for more.

Depending on each person, what they have to say etc, everyone is unique - how concise they make things etc.

I'm not average, even if attention spans are reducing - I have enough attention for someone who is interesting. Short profiles with little content are the problem.

Let others skim read etc, if they find it too wordy. Assume they are capable of being an adult and so having enough content is important, so they don't just move on to the next person, feeling you've not paid attention to their needs.

A good 4 or 5 paragraphs is probably the minimum I'd like. Avoid much if any stuff that's not likely to be relevant for no strings partners. One large mono-block of text is worse than organised paragraphs with good form."
paragraphs here lol don't think they matter too much

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