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"Oh lord. I'd love the secret too. I'm not even good at it on Fab " Well, hopefully we gain some advice from this thread I’m beyond useless | |||
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"Ah, the coffee guy... Ok, pervmigos, I need your help/advice. So for the past 2/3 months I’ve been grabbing a coffee in the morning in a little place near my house. There’s a barista and he’s fucking delicious. Like, 11/10 and way out of my league He’s (I’m fairly shit with guessing ages!) around 29-32, I reckon. He’s flirty with me, but not overly so. Like, not in your face about it.l but definitely something. I’ve watched him with others, he doesn’t flirt but is naturally chatty(or maybe I’m just blinded by my ladyboner for him?!) Anywho....(thanks if you’ve gotten this far x) I really, really wanna bang him. Really! How the fuck do I go about finding out without looking like a total moron? Could I casually give my number? What, TELL ME? Many thanks in advance Ps, I’m not very confident about putting myself out there in real life. Fab shit is easier! Over and out! X" leave an old handbag on the counter with a card inside with your number get a coffee to go and leave handbag making sure he knows it's yours......... Eg wave it while your deliberating which coffee to have in a to go cup and when he rings say to him you're in the bath can he bring it round as a big favour to you it's got sentimental value it was your mother's brothers sisters | |||
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"Flirt back. Go on when it's really quiet so you can strike up a conversation. Or do what I would probably do, nothing " awwww I flirt with almost every woman lol | |||
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"Boldy, go for it. In real life it's far easier than on here for me anyway. Ask him if he'd like to go for a non-caffeinated drink on his day off. If words will get swallowed up by your blushing, give him your number on the way out. Worst that can happen is you need to find a new coffee place. " Exactly this! | |||
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"Flirt back. Go on when it's really quiet so you can strike up a conversation. Or do what I would probably do, nothing awwww I flirt with almost every woman lol" Yeah this is the problem with flirting or friendliness. I'm friendly with men and women but it sometimes gets misinterpreted although not so much now I'm older. In situations like this it can be difficult to infer intent | |||
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"Flirt back. Go on when it's really quiet so you can strike up a conversation. Or do what I would probably do, nothing awwww I flirt with almost every woman lol Yeah this is the problem with flirting or friendliness. I'm friendly with men and women but it sometimes gets misinterpreted although not so much now I'm older. In situations like this it can be difficult to infer intent" naaaa a pretty woman and the Op looks pretty can do wonders with the flutter of her eyelashes and a telephone number | |||
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"Coffee Give up, find a tea guy." Get off my hotlist! Who even are you?! | |||
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"Boldy, go for it. In real life it's far easier than on here for me anyway. Ask him if he'd like to go for a non-caffeinated drink on his day off. If words will get swallowed up by your blushing, give him your number on the way out. Worst that can happen is you need to find a new coffee place. " I wish I had more balls and 8am is too early for a Dutch courage beverage! I’ll try enlarge my balls by Tuesday morning. #prayforboldy | |||
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"Thanks everyone for your input x" but you're not gonna use any of our seriously well thought out ideas | |||
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"Boldy, go for it. In real life it's far easier than on here for me anyway. Ask him if he'd like to go for a non-caffeinated drink on his day off. If words will get swallowed up by your blushing, give him your number on the way out. Worst that can happen is you need to find a new coffee place. Exactly this! " Yup! This | |||
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"Guys, I’m reading all these. I will do something on Tuesday. Dunno what yet, but some great suggestions. Hopefully I don’t nervously pee, or fall. " Just ask him if he would like to grab a coffee sometime. What have you got to lose? That being said, I flirt with every woman at work, but do not flirt with someone I fancy. So it's a hard one. Be bold, see what happens and you can move forward if the feeling isn't mutual. Best of luck | |||
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"If he likes you he will ask you out. I wouldn't do anything. " Possibly not. He may be having similar reservations. Which gets nobody anywhere. If you like something, go for it. People need to be more honest and not scared of asking for something or letting intentions be known. | |||
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"Send a picture of your gapping anus while asking him how deep he thinks his dick could dig the chocolate gold? " Now that's just stupid....At least my idea was subtle | |||
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"Send a picture of your gapping anus while asking him how deep he thinks his dick could dig the chocolate gold? " This near made me pee laughing. Cool and understated, I like it! | |||
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"Send a picture of your gapping anus while asking him how deep he thinks his dick could dig the chocolate gold? Now that's just stupid....At least my idea was subtle " None of my ideas are stupid expect if you read them backward | |||
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"Send a picture of your gapping anus while asking him how deep he thinks his dick could dig the chocolate gold? " chocolate gold omg that's a first lol back in a minute darling just gonna flush some gold | |||
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"Ask for chocolate sprinkles on your marshmallows" or squirt some of his cream on them | |||
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"Good luck op x some good ideas suggested " Thanks, and yes there is. Fingers crossed x | |||
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"Write down your number on a piece of paper and when you go to pay give it to him and say call me, then walk out without saying anything else. Mr2 " This is so cool. Oh I wish it would happen to me lol. | |||
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"Write down your number on a piece of paper and when you go to pay give it to him and say call me, then walk out without saying anything else. Mr2 This is so cool. Oh I wish it would happen to me lol. " This is what I would do...good luck OP hope all goes well | |||
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"Good luck OP but if it doesn't work out, would you like a cup of tea instead? " I’ll answer that on Tuesday! | |||
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"Write you name and number on the coffee cup. Give it him back, and tell him your missing something with your coffee. Whilst looking at you name and number......... then run really quick and see how excited it makes you feel. " Do this but be prepared to find a new coffee shop if he doesn't ring. Good luck! | |||
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"I’ll do something about it tomorrow. Yikes!!! " Invite him on a rollercoaster ride | |||
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"I’ll do something about it tomorrow. Yikes!!! " Yikes indeed.. After all this effort and worry, I hope he's not gay..!! perhaps you could turn him.. | |||
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"I’ll do something about it tomorrow. Yikes!!! Invite him on a rollercoaster ride " I don’t know, some guys can’t really handle that. *shrugs* | |||
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"Great result but what if he actually asked you to go..I hope you can swim hah. " Well, he’s offered to show me when he gets back. That’s something I can swim, but my balance is pants | |||
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"Write down your number on a piece of paper and when you go to pay give it to him and say call me, then walk out without saying anything else. Mr2 " This! I would be surprised if it wouldn't work! Now you need to let us know how it went! | |||
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" Result!!!! It’s good news people. It was quiet when I went in, got chatting to him for longer than usual. I asked if he’d done anything over the weekend and he explained he spent most of it paddle boarding. I was trying to keep him chatting so I said it’s something I’ve always wanted to try(big fat lie!) but hadn’t got around to it. His response “when I get back from holidays in two weeks, I’ll show you how” I grabbed a pen from the counter and wrote my number on the notepad in his hand and told him not to be afraid to use it. I think I winked, or had some kind of face spasm, told him to enjoy his holiday and walked out. Thank you all! Xxx " | |||
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"Great result but what if he actually asked you to go..I hope you can swim hah. Well, he’s offered to show me when he gets back. That’s something I can swim, but my balance is pants " Good for you OP well done. A perfect date I love it. You'll look sexy in a wetsuit | |||
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"Great result but what if he actually asked you to go..I hope you can swim hah. Well, he’s offered to show me when he gets back. That’s something I can swim, but my balance is pants Good for you OP well done. A perfect date I love it. You'll look sexy in a wetsuit " omg dont get me started on wetsuits lol you could get him to put his number in froth on the top of your coffee too x | |||
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" Result!!!! It’s good news people. It was quiet when I went in, got chatting to him for longer than usual. I asked if he’d done anything over the weekend and he explained he spent most of it paddle boarding. I was trying to keep him chatting so I said it’s something I’ve always wanted to try(big fat lie!) but hadn’t got around to it. His response “when I get back from holidays in two weeks, I’ll show you how” I grabbed a pen from the counter and wrote my number on the notepad in his hand and told him not to be afraid to use it. I think I winked, or had some kind of face spasm, told him to enjoy his holiday and walked out. Thank you all! Xxx " Seeing this has reminded why I stopped reading Mills & Boon. (wipes tear from my eye) | |||
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" Result!!!! It’s good news people. It was quiet when I went in, got chatting to him for longer than usual. I asked if he’d done anything over the weekend and he explained he spent most of it paddle boarding. I was trying to keep him chatting so I said it’s something I’ve always wanted to try(big fat lie!) but hadn’t got around to it. His response “when I get back from holidays in two weeks, I’ll show you how” I grabbed a pen from the counter and wrote my number on the notepad in his hand and told him not to be afraid to use it. I think I winked, or had some kind of face spasm, told him to enjoy his holiday and walked out. Thank you all! Xxx " Good on ya Boldy | |||
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" Result!!!! It’s good news people. It was quiet when I went in, got chatting to him for longer than usual. I asked if he’d done anything over the weekend and he explained he spent most of it paddle boarding. I was trying to keep him chatting so I said it’s something I’ve always wanted to try(big fat lie!) but hadn’t got around to it. His response “when I get back from holidays in two weeks, I’ll show you how” I grabbed a pen from the counter and wrote my number on the notepad in his hand and told him not to be afraid to use it. I think I winked, or had some kind of face spasm, told him to enjoy his holiday and walked out. Thank you all! Xxx " Face spasm Well done | |||
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" Result!!!! It’s good news people. It was quiet when I went in, got chatting to him for longer than usual. I asked if he’d done anything over the weekend and he explained he spent most of it paddle boarding. I was trying to keep him chatting so I said it’s something I’ve always wanted to try(big fat lie!) but hadn’t got around to it. His response “when I get back from holidays in two weeks, I’ll show you how” I grabbed a pen from the counter and wrote my number on the notepad in his hand and told him not to be afraid to use it. I think I winked, or had some kind of face spasm, told him to enjoy his holiday and walked out. Thank you all! Xxx " Brilliant! Well done you | |||
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"Write down your number on a piece of paper and when you go to pay give it to him and say call me, then walk out without saying anything else. Mr2 This! I would be surprised if it wouldn't work! Now you need to let us know how it went! " Read up a few posts | |||
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"Write down your number on a piece of paper and when you go to pay give it to him and say call me, then walk out without saying anything else. Mr2 This! I would be surprised if it wouldn't work! Now you need to let us know how it went! Read up a few posts " Caught up! | |||
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