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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

I have browsed and browsed all over this site. Sent appropriate messages, some friend requests sent. Apart from one very nice lady no one seems interested. So my question to all the ladies on here. Would you friend request me after reading my profile, or be interested to meet with a view to broadening the swinging lifestyle? I understand that you ladies are bombarded by friend requests, so I thought I would try a different approach. Happy fabbing people. One can only try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t add random people as friends. I also ignore all friend requests sent to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have some fun conversations OP. Be yourself and don't be pushy. You'll soon make some Fab friends.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Just have some fun conversations OP. Be yourself and don't be pushy. You'll soon make some Fab friends. "

That's just it. I'm not pushy, message appropriately after following advice from others on here. It seems like there is no pleasing some people. Just double standards. No pic no message, but they dont supply pics on their profile, yet I do. Being single does not help issues, but once widowed you cant exactly help it. I want to get into this world of fun, but so many barriers to break!. Thanks for replying.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"No. I don’t add random people as friends. I also ignore all friend requests sent to me. "

I actually understand where you are coming from after looking at your profile and comments over the last few days and respect that. Thank you for responding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean by ladies getting bombarded with mail for friends requests. Its the same for guys too x but the only difference is that guys don't just press the block button.

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By *gentlegiant66Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Feeling your pain my man, send gentle message in the hope of a reply, say more than 'hi' and no reply. Does being a bad boy in messages help ?

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Feeling your pain my man, send gentle message in the hope of a reply, say more than 'hi' and no reply. Does being a bad boy in messages help ? "

Not from what I have been told. I get the ladies are bombarded all the time, but some of us are genuinely interested in the lifestyle. Thanks for your response.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I know what you mean by ladies getting bombarded with mail for friends requests. Its the same for guys too x but the only difference is that guys don't just press the block button. "

I've had no friend requests winks or messages since being on here. Two friends one of which has no response the other a very nice lady, who is great to chat with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women don't friend request anyone.

Don't take it personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friends requests off people I've never met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you mean by ladies getting bombarded with mail for friends requests. Its the same for guys too x but the only difference is that guys don't just press the block button.

I've had no friend requests winks or messages since being on here. Two friends one of which has no response the other a very nice lady, who is great to chat with. "

Well atleast you have a nice lady who is nice to chat with.

Ive only had one or two messages since I've been here and I'm a regular in the forums. And the only winks I had were from men.

I know its easier said than done, but don't take it personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do friends unless meeting them ...never respond to friend requests. Actually says this on my profile but hey ho they still keep sending them!

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I don't do friends unless meeting them ...never respond to friend requests. Actually says this on my profile but hey ho they still keep sending them! "

And that's because they have not read your profile properly and think with their dick! Respect should go a long way if the profile says no then there is no argument. Thank you for replying.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I know what you mean by ladies getting bombarded with mail for friends requests. Its the same for guys too x but the only difference is that guys don't just press the block button.

I've had no friend requests winks or messages since being on here. Two friends one of which has no response the other a very nice lady, who is great to chat with.

Well atleast you have a nice lady who is nice to chat with.

Ive only had one or two messages since I've been here and I'm a regular in the forums. And the only winks I had were from men.

I know its easier said than done, but don't take it personal. "

I wont thanks mate.

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Women don't friend request anyone.

Don't take it personal.

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Lol. Thanks I wont!

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By *oober698 OP   Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goober my man you're better off on tinder, much less competition and the girls ain't stuck up cause it's mainly even

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like friend requests only from people where we've already had some discussion and I perceive we're likely to meet and get on. I prefer to see photos first, rather than a friends request being a mechanism used so we can see each other.

I think some use FR as a useful book mark for people they might chat with in future, similar to a Hot List. It may help them but it clogs my friend list, as I don't use mine for that.

It's frustrating or annoying when people send them and we have no history.

Long explanation for friends request not being determined by a profile but Bu the level of involvement and interest.

You could find a fuck buddy here, meeting for years and not use the friends list at all. It's a feature that's optional, to use as you may want to

Your profile is pleasant and may help to secure chats

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

If somebody sends me a friend request without at least chatting for sometime I'd block them. If I'm wanting someone to be my friend after a while, I'll ask them if they want to add me.

Be polite but do the be desperate

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

Be polite but don't be desperate

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