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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long does it take you to cum?

It takes me ages and I don't understand it. Probably too much wanking actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I'm having sex with...

If it's my OH, sometimes minutes, sometimes seconds

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

A couple of minutes usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who I'm having sex with...

If it's my OH, sometimes minutes, sometimes seconds "

same as above with her husband (with mine obvs)

And yeah if you wank too much that’ll happen OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m opposite, generally much faster than I would like.

Usually around 3-5 min max

I do however repeat and prefer oral so my partners usually don’t complain too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep too much self-loving.

Really desensitises the ol' chap.

I didnt cum till I was 26 with a woman due to over selfindulgence.

Cut back and I found exercise helped.

Also bombarding the ol noggin with porn can desensitive that as well so double cut back.

Takes about 2-3months to get sensitvity back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t

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You mean you can't cum from penetration?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A couple of minutes usually "

That's surprisingly a short period of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who I'm having sex with...

If it's my OH, sometimes minutes, sometimes seconds

same as above with her husband (with mine obvs)

And yeah if you wank too much that’ll happen OP"

I share if you wanna try him out

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends how turned on I am tbh. Or how long it's been since I've had sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep too much self-loving.

Really desensitises the ol' chap.

I didnt cum till I was 26 with a woman due to over selfindulgence.

Cut back and I found exercise helped.

Also bombarding the ol noggin with porn can desensitive that as well so double cut back.

Takes about 2-3months to get sensitvity back."

Cheers for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too long for the first time I cum (about 5 minutes) but I remain hard and the second or third time cumming can take quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of minutes usually "

That's my sex life summed up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not how quickly I cum but how often...

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

For Red ... not long ... she's hyper sensitive and think she has superorgasms (there was a thread on these a few days ago)

For Monkey... I think they change as you age for a man .. and you learn how to control them ... self edging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not how quickly I cum but how often... "

Surely it's quality not quantity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not how quickly I cum but how often... "

It's all in the touch and how you touch it

Or in the thrust and how you thrust it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does it take you to cum?

It takes me ages and I don't understand it. Probably too much wanking actually "

Lay off it then

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"How long does it take you to cum?

It takes me ages and I don't understand it. Probably too much wanking actually

Lay off it then "

This ... if it's the wanking ... denying yourself can bring the sensitivity back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long does it take you to cum?

It takes me ages and I don't understand it. Probably too much wanking actually

Lay off it then

This ... if it's the wanking ... denying yourself can bring the sensitivity back"

It's easier said than done though. I don't want to go back to the adolescent stage where you end up getting a hardon randomly while minding your own business out and about. If you know what I mean.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"How long does it take you to cum?

It takes me ages and I don't understand it. Probably too much wanking actually

Lay off it then

This ... if it's the wanking ... denying yourself can bring the sensitivity back

It's easier said than done though. I don't want to go back to the adolescent stage where you end up getting a hardon randomly while minding your own business out and about. If you know what I mean."

Yes ... but you can find a happy medium with your happy endings

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It takes however long I decide I want it to take, I'm controlled like that.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weeks

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