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How Many Men Don't Send A Message?

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By *Man1263 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Following on from the many threads, but with a slightly different slant (but probably been done to death before)

How many men just don't send new message's? (By that, I mean sending to people you havnt sent to before).

Just here for the forum and natter with the same people via the message system?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never sent a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely do send a message except when I am bored and I send bulk messages that compliment the rectum of women.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In three years, I've sent the sum total of 6 "cold" messages to people I've not interacted with in some way (e.g. on the forums) and those were all probably I'm the first 6 months or so of signing up.

It's just not me to do so.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"ive never sent a message "

Not even to your sexy wife

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

It is very unusual for me to initiate contact. Strangely I have done so today which is the first time I have done so in many months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive never sent a message

Not even to your sexy wife "

shes usually in the same room as me, no need *ninja face*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Owing to the plethora of complaints from the ladies about how they're continually inundated with unsolicited messages from us men i decided to take the radical approach of not sending any some time ago.

I hope you're all appreciative of this selfless act of sacrifice.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I rarely do send a message except when I am bored and I send bulk messages that compliment the rectum of women. "

A true gentleman lol

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Braintree

After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t send first messages very often but I do respond to winks and others who message me if they put a modicum of effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read "

so let me get this right?

You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?

Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?

Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please

Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Well I generally only get messaged because of the forum games, and even then I'm usually the instigator. Past that I dont really send any.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read

so let me get this right?

You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?

Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?

Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please

Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own!"

Well it's happened to me before, but I read all of my messages and I only stop responding when I feel that I'm just annoying the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send as many as when I started using this site.

I feel like I am hassling ladies.

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Braintree


"After being here and reading the forum's it sound like a pointless task sending messages as a single guy so kinda feel its not worth sending one just to have it deleted without even being read

so let me get this right?

You get a message from a lady and you ignore it...and you think that we all delete them and we never read them?

Who else gets a message does not read it and deletes it on here, male form?

Or thinks that sending a message is not worth it because we do not read it and we just delete it, males to answer please

Sounds a little to harsh on yourself still each to their own!"

I would reply to a message but see little point in being the first to send one as seems like woman on here just mass delete them I can u understand why they do it 30+ messages a minute must be a pain to deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up. No one replies. There’s no point. This website is merely for the forums now, at least in my case.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I gave up. No one replies. There’s no point. This website is merely for the forums now, at least in my case. "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely do send a message except when I am bored and I send bulk messages that compliment the rectum of women.

A true gentleman lol"

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't recall sending a first message to anybody, other than a quick one-liner when somebody has posted something exceptionally funny and original in the forums.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

When am bored, so brave your self ladies I’m putting on the joggers with a take away ready to message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't anymore. Effort. I just flip my hair and wait for them to come to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only ones I send are on the back of forum games. I ventured out into the wilds of Fab when I decided to start meeting again in January. It was cold out there, so I retreated to the warmth of the Lounge pretty quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send random messages, don't expect any back though.

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Before I was in a couple I very rarely ever messaged women first, I found better ways to garner interest which led to meets.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Following on from the many threads, but with a slightly different slant (but probably been done to death before)

How many men just don't send new message's? (By that, I mean sending to people you havnt sent to before).

Just here for the forum and natter with the same people via the message system?

"

I gave up sending intro messages a couple of years ago.

Purely as an experiment about 6 months ago I sent 5 in an afternoon.

Made sure i matched what they were looking for, made sure we were looking for the same things.

Tailored the message to the profile, and wrote a friend non demanding non sexual opening message, included a face pic and definitely no dick pic.

One reply saying no thanks.

No replies from any of the other 4.

Just served as a reminder why I shouldn't bother wasting my time.

I use the forums for the chats and laughs and group socials.

I use clubs for more intimate encounters.

Works for me.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Owing to the plethora of complaints from the ladies about how they're continually inundated with unsolicited messages from us men i decided to take the radical approach of not sending any some time ago.

I hope you're all appreciative of this selfless act of sacrifice. "

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