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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A day do you get on here?

On average fuck all, but rarely send any.

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 a month from non forums

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

To be fair as single guy I don’t do too bad, I get a few each day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A day do you get on here?

On average fuck all, but rarely send any.

How about you? "
30ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Bout 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Between 5-10 on a good day when we're not advertising a meet. When advertising, 10-20 depending on whether it's a hotel, club etc.

Tbh, we delete most without reading if it's from a single white guy, always answer couples and respond to most of the messages from black guys, dependent on where they live.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It depends on what I post. The past three days I've been more proactive and posting and enjoying so I've had quite a few messages from people enjoying my posts etc. Around 10-20 if filtered up and lurking, 50+ if not.

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

All about the quality, not the quantity

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By *uttyjonnMan
over a year ago

SEA

On a bad day zero, on a good day zero

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Some of them are ongoing conversations! Not 50 new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me."

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread "

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Not very many 3 to 10 maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None unless I send messages and then it's one or two if I'm lucky.

I had a few yesterday though

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm something like 0 + 0 = 0 which means sweet F A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more."

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Between 30-50 depends....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsolicited I normally get 0 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe 10-15 a day Monday to Thursday rising to 50+ on a Fri, Sat and Sun. If we put out a event meet or a status requesting a meet then easy 100+.

KJ x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generally 30-150. Probably 50 is a good guess most days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me "

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 today. No pics, shite profile.

But they want to fuck me so my ego is bulging.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

About between 5-10, nothing like to 100's some women say they receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"About between 5-10, nothing like to 100's some women say they receive "
this

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Probably about 15-20 a day,(if we count a conversation as one message) but many are from regular correspondents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies depending on how active I've been, any new pics, meet posts, statuses. Some days 10, some days 150.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send out ten, get at least two replies. It’s a mine field on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one."

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I have a pic in hot pics.... Anything from 20-a couple of hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages "

Oh fuck, 99 goes to Smiths Wood, it's Chelmsley Wood's naughtier little brother. Don't go alone, don't sit upstairs, don't go into any of the pubs.

(I don't even think there's and pubs left in Smiths Wood)

Send another one, man. Although in truth you probably should have stopped at 37 and got off at Solihull.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not many actually 3-4 on a good day now.

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By *liver KloosoffMan
over a year ago

I dont live in a town

i get the odd one now and then containing the words "i'll suck you now" ........mostly from men...... i say mostly, i mean all

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About 15 new messages today and a few others that are chats I've been having.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages

Oh fuck, 99 goes to Smiths Wood, it's Chelmsley Wood's naughtier little brother. Don't go alone, don't sit upstairs, don't go into any of the pubs.

(I don't even think there's and pubs left in Smiths Wood)

Send another one, man. Although in truth you probably should have stopped at 37 and got off at Solihull.

"

I knew 99 was gonna be bad news so I sent 2 ... How about the 100 ?

By the sounds of it deleting messages back to 37 sounds a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average- 90-100 a day. Do I feel loved? No. Do I feel wanted? No. How many do I delete before even opening? 95%.

I would much rather prefer one excellent one per day..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 300 a day on average

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"On average- 90-100 a day. Do I feel loved? No. Do I feel wanted? No. How many do I delete before even opening? 95%.

I would much rather prefer one excellent one per day..,"

Haha. Oh yeah. So much.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Between 25 to 40 depending if I'm uploading new pics, mostly from straight guys , lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just checked and there's 365 waiting for me to read today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now I don't really put up photos or updates and my profile is saying I'm not meeting about 2-10 plus on going chats. Before it was 50+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From strangers about 2 or 3 per week

From established friends we chat all day long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages

Oh fuck, 99 goes to Smiths Wood, it's Chelmsley Wood's naughtier little brother. Don't go alone, don't sit upstairs, don't go into any of the pubs.

(I don't even think there's and pubs left in Smiths Wood)

Send another one, man. Although in truth you probably should have stopped at 37 and got off at Solihull.

I knew 99 was gonna be bad news so I sent 2 ... How about the 100 ?

By the sounds of it deleting messages back to 37 sounds a good idea "

There's no 100, 101 goes to Winson Green, where the prison is and also where Channel 4 filmed 'Benefit Street'. Smiths Wood has just started to look quaint. Let's fact it, you started off in a hole and you've dug yourself down a mine.

Delete back to 50 and go to Moseley. It's Brum's bohemia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 0.1 per day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages

Oh fuck, 99 goes to Smiths Wood, it's Chelmsley Wood's naughtier little brother. Don't go alone, don't sit upstairs, don't go into any of the pubs.

(I don't even think there's and pubs left in Smiths Wood)

Send another one, man. Although in truth you probably should have stopped at 37 and got off at Solihull.

I knew 99 was gonna be bad news so I sent 2 ... How about the 100 ?

By the sounds of it deleting messages back to 37 sounds a good idea

There's no 100, 101 goes to Winson Green, where the prison is and also where Channel 4 filmed 'Benefit Street'. Smiths Wood has just started to look quaint. Let's fact it, you started off in a hole and you've dug yourself down a mine.

Delete back to 50 and go to Moseley. It's Brum's bohemia."

Bohemia, isn't that supposed to be Czech. I don't speak the language.

Deleting messages.

Damn I hope I don't delete the one that was gonna make her go all soft at the knees for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I’ve had about 400, but usually about 5-10 a day. It’s the 17,000 views I’ve had today, that’s blown my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cleared out my mailbox last night. I currently have 327 unread messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On average 5 a week but then I rarely send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if I post pics. The first message at the bottom of my in box is 20 hours ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on if I post pics. The first message at the bottom of my in box is 20 hours ago "

1 week ago here

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"About between 5-10, nothing like to 100's some women say they receive "

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky if I get 2

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By *aimtoplease69Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me

Had to Google it but it goes past the old Rover factory at Longbridge. Thousands of people worked at Rover ..and that's just the people who used to glue the rust patches on. It's a retail park now, employing about 104 people on zero hours contracts.

It's a depressing route man, send another one.

Sent 2 ... The 99 route just sounds dangerous

Will she ever open 1 of these polite, respectful fancy a fuck messages "

That's a shame.. The 99 stops outside my house (it seriously does ??) you could have come and see me ??

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By *orianGrey200Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I'm restricted by my age, not many women on here accept mail from over 60s but little do they know how much i can still offer in life. Everything's so media driven. Black mirror springs to mind.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If you exclude messages from friends wanting to chat then maybe it averages 3 per week. Sometimes people message privately about a forum post and you can get into a discussion . I get random messages from men for some reason so it's nice to open an unsolicited message from a woman occassionally.

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

1 or 2 mainly not counting forum post messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped counting long time ago. I mainly delete them. Unless I chat to my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday I sent out 107 messages.

Today she's blocked me.

Feck, I have sent 97 and they still unread

It's not a good number. In Birmingham the No 97 terminates at a place called Chelmsley Wood. You don't wanna ride that bus, man. Send one more.

Sent.. Where does the 98 take me "
where you wanna be

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