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What problems have you developed as you got older (sexually)

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

I dont cum easy anymore and not a heavy or repeat cummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from being very particular about how my after sex tea is made I haven't developed any sexual issues.

Now I've said that my cock will turn into something that resembles a cauliflower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None as yet.

Oh! Actually, I can't quite get my feet behind my neck anymore, but that hasn't really been an issue.

I'm only 30 though, I'm told it's all downhill from here

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"None as yet.

Oh! Actually, I can't quite get my feet behind my neck anymore, but that hasn't really been an issue.

I'm only 30 though, I'm told it's all downhill from here "

Sssshh, don't say that! It has to get better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as yet.

Oh! Actually, I can't quite get my feet behind my neck anymore, but that hasn't really been an issue.

I'm only 30 though, I'm told it's all downhill from here

Sssshh, don't say that! It has to get better. "

Well, I'm only 4 months in and I've had one night of passion...that was epic! So fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant get any sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very very picky

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I take aggggggeeeeeessssss to cum!

Most men get lockjaw!

I've never been able to cum through penetration...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as yet.

Oh! Actually, I can't quite get my feet behind my neck anymore, but that hasn't really been an issue.

I'm only 30 though, I'm told it's all downhill from here "

If you want you can try and put your feet behind my neck. I more than happy to give it a whirl.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

None what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None as yet.

Oh! Actually, I can't quite get my feet behind my neck anymore, but that hasn't really been an issue.

I'm only 30 though, I'm told it's all downhill from here

If you want you can try and put your feet behind my neck. I more than happy to give it a whirl."

Ha! No need to be trying things out...I can still do the splits, that's quite bendy enough for a fat bird in her 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive has all but vanished

Like literally zero interest in sex

I'm not pushing it though

I know it is mental as opposed to physical, but I don't want to make it an 'issue'

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Little willis ( the one eyed creature of the groin) has sustained an injury last year. All good now but point being my mind is evidently more durable than my body lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels too difficult to meet someone anymore

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do? "

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My boobs hang on the floor.

Apart from that i still get wetter than an otter’s pocket so i’m happy (well as happy as you can be with perimenopausal mood swings).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50! "

You have given me some hope!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I sometimes wish I had beer goggles like I had in my twenties, going two years without sex can get frustrating, however, if I am not attracted then nothing is going to happen

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

I found myself in a dress and developing a liking for anal sex x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pendulus Testicles, it's like having maracas in my underwear.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I take aggggggeeeeeessssss to cum!

Most men get lockjaw!

I've never been able to cum through penetration..."

This was me until a year ago.... now, but not every time, it happens

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50! "

Totally agree, it’s like I came alive at 45/46

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've developed the ability to completely fuck things up before they even happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to get erection issues, I still do, but I know what's going on, so it's never really an 'issue'.

It's only on a first sexual meet with someone new.

Performance anxiety + Connection anxiety × Overthinking mind.

Turns a normally confidant man into a bag of nerves, even now, but I'm very good at hiding it. Only.. sometimes my overanalysing may result in a sudden loss of erection at a crucial moment! If my partner isn't the type of person who I think may be understanding about something like that.. laugh, relax me, adorn me a bit, work me up again, talk dirrty in my ear.. then I'd probably freak out.

Thankfully I seem to be getting much better at picking the right kind of person and it's all fading into a kind of non-issue. If anything.. the Overthinking bit is quite a nice string to my bow, now I trust my thinking

Age may bring wisdom, but wisdom isn't all its cracked up to be.. When a sexual goddess is wiggling her white hot, wanton, lusty parts right at you.. and you go from hero to zero

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I take aggggggeeeeeessssss to cum!

Most men get lockjaw!

I've never been able to cum through penetration..."

Ditto !!!!

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do? "

Yup im noticing this aswel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get a semi on I celebrate with a party blowout whistle

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I can't remember what goes where and when!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting sex! Apparently my age means I’m too old for other women to find attractive it’s either that, or I’m just butt ugly x Viv xx

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Aside from being very particular about how my after sex tea is made I haven't developed any sexual issues.

Now I've said that my cock will turn into something that resembles a cauliflower "

Lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am horny all the time! Just as my hubby's stamina and libido are lowering. Bloody typical!

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By *notherGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere

I get pruney fingers.

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By *ve 63Woman
over a year ago

Newbridge

When i divorced at 49 sex drive went through the roof still like it now

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

My body aches for days after fun..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

My sex drive has gone wild since I turned 40...a few people have called me insatiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sex drive has gone wild since I turned 40...a few people have called me insatiable "

I'm the same. Just cant get enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing a bit more practice won’t solve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll come back to this when I’ve had a nibble!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My knees are gone, can't ride like the wind anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wand makes it harder to cum without it

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

At almost 60 I can’t go for hours and hours .... usually helps to share the work load with another fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wand makes it harder to cum without it"

Yep.

Not a flexible as I want to be.

Cramp.

P

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

As i have got older i will only drink coffee out of a cup and not a mug. Hate it when im given a mug of coffee. I now always ask for a cup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm insatiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im post menopausal and my sex drive has gone through the roof!

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Braintree

Wanting more but getting less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got the sex drive that I had when I was younger.

When I was younger and I felt horny I would have to whip it out immediately and sort myself out.. But now when I feel horny, I just pat it through my jeens and forget about it, however since using this site I have ruined quite a few pairs of my pants.

If sites were around like this when I was younger, I would probably be the biggest perv in the world.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"The wand makes it harder to cum without it

Yep.

Not a flexible as I want to be.

Cramp.

P"

Must admit theres one postion i always seem to get cramp . Prob is i cant remember which postion it is until it happens ...oops

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

My mind works faster than my body does meaning I need to plan my meets more, cannot be totally impulsive!

The ageing arthritic knees get in the way sometimes too, but I work around that.

Errrm, what was the original question?

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By *sgigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent


"Pendulus Testicles, it's like having maracas in my underwear. "

My boobs could tuck into my underwear & do the same! must be a 40 thing

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

All the women at the bingo proposition me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The zimmer gets in the way on standing reverse cowgirl

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

I’m a lot louder in the bedroom

Don’t cum for ages which pleases some women, while my ability to breathe without removing my tongue from her nether regions deals with the others but usually means I miss the last bus home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've find myself getting Hornier and hornier

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

A comforting thought.

Old age ain't for wimps.

Best enjoy what we can when we can I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive is a lot higher the older I get.

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By *museBouche31Woman
over a year ago

Reigate


"My sex drive has gone wild since I turned 40...a few people have called me insatiable

I'm the same. Just cant get enough "

This!

Love group sex as there’s more men to share the work of pleasing me.

Only downside - more ‘vigorous’ Sex means I’m more prone to cystitis. Which then puts paid to any naughty fun for a week or two. . . And then the sexual frustration starts. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My sex drive has gone wild since I turned 40...a few people have called me insatiable

I'm the same. Just cant get enough

This!

Love group sex as there’s more men to share the work of pleasing me.

Only downside - more ‘vigorous’ Sex means I’m more prone to cystitis. Which then puts paid to any naughty fun for a week or two. . . And then the sexual frustration starts. . . "

Cranberry tablets! I swear by them. I take one a day and never suffer with cystitis anymore.

V x

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By *museBouche31Woman
over a year ago

Reigate


"My sex drive has gone wild since I turned 40...a few people have called me insatiable

I'm the same. Just cant get enough

This!

Love group sex as there’s more men to share the work of pleasing me.

Only downside - more ‘vigorous’ Sex means I’m more prone to cystitis. Which then puts paid to any naughty fun for a week or two. . . And then the sexual frustration starts. . .

Cranberry tablets! I swear by them. I take one a day and never suffer with cystitis anymore.

V x"

Thanks

I’ll give anything a try to keep me off the sick list and in action!!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m so much more hornier!!!! Can’t get enough!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I figured out what my sexuality is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I dont crave it as much anymore.

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By *arcuszMan
over a year ago

Billingshurst

My mind will wonder more during it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50! "

Way to go Jools...way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see bullshit and cant be arsed to play the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't got the sex drive that I had when I was younger.

When I was younger and I felt horny I would have to whip it out immediately and sort myself out.. But now when I feel horny, I just pat it through my jeens and forget about it, however since using this site I have ruined quite a few pairs of my pants.

If sites were around like this when I was younger, I would probably be the biggest perv in the world. "

..the second biggest you mean .lol..

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

I can go all night more controlled so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest problem I have encountered with getting older, is I can’t get enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice everything. ...... So annoying

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50!

Totally agree, it’s like I came alive at 45/46 "

Hormones are funny old things....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want sex far more often than I can have it!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Match of the day sometimes seems more interesting

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do?

I've just hit 50 and my mojo has rocketed! Life begins at 50!

Way to go Jools...way to go "

I think I have a cock problem..... I can't get enough!

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By *inkyfun2013Couple
over a year ago

lewisham

Such inhibitions as I used to have seem to fade progressively. Fuck knows what I'll be into by the time I'm 65.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since my bike accident I stopped craving anal sex with people who don't douche properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't cum so quick anymore but the old cock is still as hard as a randy teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since my bike accident I stopped craving anal sex with people who don't douche properly "
why did saddle come off and you got the chrome shaft........... Ooooooft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Such inhibitions as I used to have seem to fade progressively. Fuck knows what I'll be into by the time I'm 65. "

That's good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just keep waking up with stiffiies these days due to a healthy diet, stopping smoking, reducing alcohol intake. That's the trouble with all this healthy lifestyle it just leads to more wholesome recreational deviant sex.

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By *angtidy42Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

Have to plan when we are going to play with each other now. And know I cant go for hours like I use to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cramp omg in my foot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None yet x"
you're still young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None yet xyou're still young "

I'm 36 in a week. I fear middle age is approaching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None yet xyou're still young

I'm 36 in a week. I fear middle age is approaching "
really hey you've got another 70 years at least in you, I can see you with your zimmer 106

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M E N O P A U S E is a Bitch.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"None yet xyou're still young

I'm 36 in a week. I fear middle age is approaching "

Oh to be 36 again and know what I know now...that's a great age

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"M E N O P A U S E is a Bitch. "

It really is a bitch..fuck it I'm going ride that bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got better so win win here

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I’m very very picky

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I've always been that way.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"It seem hitting 40, my mojo is getting lower each year, a bit depressing really but what can you do? "

I was feeling like that, worked out more by accident than anything that I could use some extra magnesium so started a magnesium supplement and now I feel about the same if not better than I did at 30!

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