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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should anyone have to prove who they are to a stranger on a swinging site?

I’ve been asked plenty of times to prove I’m not fake.

Prove I am fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??"

Its like if someone asked me to talk on the phone to prove I'm a woman... its not happening pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

parts of me are fake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"parts of me are fake "

Nothing wrong with parts being fake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x"

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x"

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same "

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x"

I would never have asked for that when I was meeting and certainly would not have indulged a request like that. Perhaps they are not fake, just not willing to pander to that type of demand.

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x

I would never have asked for that when I was meeting and certainly would not have indulged a request like that. Perhaps they are not fake, just not willing to pander to that type of demand.

Holly"

Me either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly"

Go on cam chat on phone if they are asking you to send more pics you want to make sure they arnt just after your pics or not the sex they say they are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly

Go on cam chat on phone if they are asking you to send more pics you want to make sure they arnt just after your pics or not the sex they say they are x"

I just wouldn’t send them pics. Some folk are just after a quick wank, if they kept asking for pics I wouldn’t bother with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to

meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x

I would never have asked for that when I was meeting and certainly would not have indulged a request like that. Perhaps they are not fake, just not willing to pander to that type of demand.

Holly"

But then how do you know the person you are taking to us that person

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly

Go on cam chat on phone if they are asking you to send more pics you want to make sure they arnt just after your pics or not the sex they say they are x"

Absolutely no chance we would go on cam or chat on phone to prove we are genuine. If people can't work out we are genuine from our profile and veris that's tough.

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire


"Why should anyone have to prove who they are to a stranger on a swinging site?

I’ve been asked plenty of times to prove I’m not fake.

Prove I am fake. "

Good point

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x"

As soon as anyone asked this of me I would instantly become highly suspicious. Are you a catfish OP?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I wouldn’t do your pic request

If your not comfortable sending more pics don’t, just let the conversation flow naturally and see where it leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly

Go on cam chat on phone if they are asking you to send more pics you want to make sure they arnt just after your pics or not the sex they say they are x"

I just never sent more pics. Those I met, I got to know first. Sex chat was not on the cards. You soon find out if someone is genuine then. Sometimes I'd face time, but it was always to chat and see the animated them, rather than confirmation of who they are . I'm not saying yours is the wrong way, it just doesn't make them fake if they choose not to aquiese your request

Holly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's something I might have done early on.

At this stage, the odds of my profile being fake are tiny. Anything can be faked, yes, but the more evidence that builds the less likely that is. At 50+ verifications, most published, from lots of different people some of whom are extremely well verified... I am who I say I am, and you can take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

Out of curiosity, what proof are you looking for?

Holly

Go on cam chat on phone if they are asking you to send more pics you want to make sure they arnt just after your pics or not the sex they say they are x

I just never sent more pics. Those I met, I got to know first. Sex chat was not on the cards. You soon find out if someone is genuine then. Sometimes I'd face time, but it was always to chat and see the animated them, rather than confirmation of who they are . I'm not saying yours is the wrong way, it just doesn't make them fake if they choose not to aquiese your request

Holly"

I understand what you are saying x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's something I might have done early on.

At this stage, the odds of my profile being fake are tiny. Anything can be faked, yes, but the more evidence that builds the less likely that is. At 50+ verifications, most published, from lots of different people some of whom are extremely well verified... I am who I say I am, and you can take it or leave it. "

I guess what you are saying is don't meet with someone who isn't verified x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's something I might have done early on.

At this stage, the odds of my profile being fake are tiny. Anything can be faked, yes, but the more evidence that builds the less likely that is. At 50+ verifications, most published, from lots of different people some of whom are extremely well verified... I am who I say I am, and you can take it or leave it.

I guess what you are saying is don't meet with someone who isn't verified x"

No. I'm saying that the less evidence there is, the more it's worth questioning.

In my case there's lots of evidence, so what you're asking is over the top.

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By *ardy279Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I seem to find them. Usely just stay away from ones who ain’t verified

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"It's something I might have done early on.

At this stage, the odds of my profile being fake are tiny. Anything can be faked, yes, but the more evidence that builds the less likely that is. At 50+ verifications, most published, from lots of different people some of whom are extremely well verified... I am who I say I am, and you can take it or leave it.

I guess what you are saying is don't meet with someone who isn't verified x

No. I'm saying that the less evidence there is, the more it's worth questioning.

In my case there's lots of evidence, so what you're asking is over the top. "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"parts of me are fake "
not your penis surely

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By *seeksfunXMan
over a year ago

local

Why can't you just meet in a social setting first. When someone asks me for pics or video I start getting suspicious that they are looking at sextortian. It's a big thing in the military at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I seem to find them. Usely just stay away from ones who ain’t verified "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But if you are meeting someone you want to make sure they are who they say they are and if arnt willing to do so tings alarm bells to me x

How are you asking them to prove it? And do you have any sufficient reason to think they are a fake?

I wouldn’t jump through hoops just to meet someone on fab, I’m assuming lots of people are the same

Asking to go on cam send a pic with date on x"

We don't even send our face pics. There's no way we'd consider jumping through any hoops. Guess we're in the "fakes" pile

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??"

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion."

Yeaaaaaaah I’m skint most of the time and certainly cannot afford a ‘fab phone’. I also wouldn’t get one anyway. I’d give my number after a few meets, no way would I give it straight away. I’d never expect anyone to give me their number

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Iv never asked someone to prove they ain't fake nor have I been asked to do. Yes there are "fake" aka dodgy profiles about but then i tend to stay away from any i feel i need to ask prove they are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I'm not sure exactly your situation and why the profile in question is not willing to prove they're not fake. Have you both said you are wanting to meet?

I personally have sent a direct picture via fab to a lovely (sexy) couple to prove I am who I say I am. I don't see it as jumping through hoops, or an impossible request.

Maybe they could just not be genuine?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion."

Thank you I would be the same and have faced this very thing x

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town


"Why should anyone have to prove who they are to a stranger on a swinging site?

I’ve been asked plenty of times to prove I’m not fake.

Prove I am fake. "

I love it such a great comeback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, I'm not sure exactly your situation and why the profile in question is not willing to prove they're not fake. Have you both said you are wanting to meet?

I personally have sent a direct picture via fab to a lovely (sexy) couple to prove I am who I say I am. I don't see it as jumping through hoops, or an impossible request.

Maybe they could just not be genuine? "

My point exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion.

Yeaaaaaaah I’m skint most of the time and certainly cannot afford a ‘fab phone’. I also wouldn’t get one anyway. I’d give my number after a few meets, no way would I give it straight away. I’d never expect anyone to give me their number "

Talking to the person on the phone was always the next step with us, and in most cases people didn't mind.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion."

Because we arent prepared to be someones wank chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, I'm not sure exactly your situation and why the profile in question is not willing to prove they're not fake. Have you both said you are wanting to meet?

I personally have sent a direct picture via fab to a lovely (sexy) couple to prove I am who I say I am. I don't see it as jumping through hoops, or an impossible request.

Maybe they could just not be genuine?

My point exactly "

Don't loose sleep over it, I would just write off anyone who wouldn't be willing to send a direct photo or have some other contact. I can see why some wouldn't want to exchange numbers or go on cam. I wouldn't either, but there are other ways x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion.

Because we arent prepared to be someones wank chat. "

Surprisingly, most people who have decided to chat with us first have been able to hold a conversation without masturbating or grunting down the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I/we wouldn't cam or video or send additional photos. We would chat on the phone possibly to verify we are a man and woman and not two men. If you are unsure then have a social first. X

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Why do I always seem to find the fakes on here asked to prove they are who they say they are and it's like I have committed murder and get ignored proves my point this is the second time might just leave this site ??

I agree to a point. It always puzzled me when guys approached us on here, and we wold message for some time, building a rapport, but as soon as I suggested we swap mobile phone numbers for a chat, all the barriers would go up. Usually saying they don't give their phone numbers. Why? Mobile phones are cheap enough to buy a very basic one on a pay as you go set up. It is not a valid excuse in my opinion.

Because we arent prepared to be someones wank chat.

Surprisingly, most people who have decided to chat with us first have been able to hold a conversation without masturbating or grunting down the phone."

When I was a single fem and rather naive I believed that. Gave up and wised up. No reason to chat to people on here at all. We meet in clubs and only clubs. As I said if they think we are fake it's easy enough to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt the need to prove I am anything, never demanded proof of identity of another, and never will.

If I'm going to meet another then there are certain things taken on trust, and if you dont trust why get naked with them, and the rest comes from communicating with another as a fellow human being....

Not someone who needs to prove ID, they are " not a fake" or whatever other hoops you feel they need to jump through OP.

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