FabSwingers.com forum: Gangbang- acceptable proposal

By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you word it. A lot of us dont play well with others, so don't be surprised, or take it personally if a few of them politely decline.

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Depends on how you word it. A lot of us dont play well with others, so don't be surprised, or take it personally if a few of them politely decline. "

Good advice, thank you. With your answer in mind I’m already thinking two won’t play...boo

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ? "

I’m concerned about offending them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they into gangbangs?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If you don't ask you won't know,go for it.

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?

I’m concerned about offending them. "

O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind

I wouldn’t

Unless of course they thought it was more

Good luck mind

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?

I’m concerned about offending them.

O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind

I wouldn’t

Unless of course they thought it was more

Good luck mind "

No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Simple, ask them.

If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.

However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?

I’m concerned about offending them.

O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind

I wouldn’t

Unless of course they thought it was more

Good luck mind

No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes

There is a bit of a bargaining chip... Offer to join them in their fantasy if they indulge you in yours.

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Simple, ask them.

If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.

However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved "

Mmm true, timing might be an issue considering two of them live overseas

I like the fantasy/ pillow talk approach

Thanks x

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If they're from the swinging world, I wouldn't worry about offending them. Don't assume that they'll say yes, just say it's something you'd like to do and ask if they'd be interested.

If they're not from the swinging world... there might be a whole other conversation you need to have first.

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Of course, why what are your concerns about asking them ?

I’m concerned about offending them.

O ok I just assumed that if they were casual sex why would they mind

I wouldn’t

Unless of course they thought it was more

Good luck mind

No all casual but still deserve respect. Although that said all bar one of them have asked me to join them in mff threesomes

There is a bit of a bargaining chip... Offer to join them in their fantasy if they indulge you in yours. "

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Simple, ask them.

If you are unsure on how they might respond, bring it up as a role play idea. Gauge the reaction to it that way. At least then you can play it down to pillow talk as such.

However the flip side, it would mean 5 people all coordinating calanders to suit your time frame which might not suit all involved

Mmm true, timing might be an issue considering two of them live overseas

I like the fantasy/ pillow talk approach

Thanks x"

Personally I'd say go with it... Once they see how turned on it gets you it will turn them on to participate more

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"If they're from the swinging world, I wouldn't worry about offending them. Don't assume that they'll say yes, just say it's something you'd like to do and ask if they'd be interested.

If they're not from the swinging world... there might be a whole other conversation you need to have first."

None of them from the swinging world but they know I indulge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget to douche properly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im out

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Don't forget to douche properly x"

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Don't see why not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need 10 men to match me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget to douche properly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have slept with 5 different men on more than one occasion over the past year, and still in regular contact with them. I’m keen to have a gangbang soon and want to keep myself safe. A way I thought I could keep myself safe is by asking people I already know.

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? "
yes but don't tell the others you slept with them

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

Of course it ok, all 5 will agree and least 4 won’t go through with it..

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Im out

Err don’t recall you being in

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Of course it ok, all 5 will agree and least 4 won’t go through with it.. "

That sounds about right

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them

I don’t tell lies

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Don't see why not really "

Yeah, worst that can happen is they say no.

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Need 10 men to match me anyway

I only have 3 holes and two hands. I have a lot of stamina (which is why I want 5) but even I couldn’t handle 10

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Are they into gangbangs?"

One of them talks about it while we’re fucking but not sure about the others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them

I don’t tell lies

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you invite each individually and say you're inviting 4 others but don't mention you've had the others do it on a need to know basis, more chance of it happening then

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? yes but don't tell the others you slept with them

I don’t tell lies

you invite each individually and say you're inviting 4 others but don't mention you've had the others do it on a need to know basis, more chance of it happening then

Sorry I disagree, I think that could turn out horribly wrong x

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other

They’re all pretty similar (funnily enough) so yeah they probably won’t get on haha.

I don’t think I would mind meeting others meets though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other

They’re all pretty similar (funnily enough) so yeah they probably won’t get on haha.

I don’t think I would mind meeting others meets though

x"
and like somebody else said quite often people don't turn up for these things invite more than you need lol

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By *etAnotherDomMan
over a year ago

london

Say you are exploring your fantasies and ask them what their humansexmap is...then see if any put a pin in gangbangs

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Say you are exploring your fantasies and ask them what their humansexmap is...then see if any put a pin in gangbangs"

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"I never have serious opinions but this is a big no. Every meet is different. Would they be comparing themselves. I wouldn't want my meets to know each other

They’re all pretty similar (funnily enough) so yeah they probably won’t get on haha.

I don’t think I would mind meeting others meets though

xand like somebody else said quite often people don't turn up for these things invite more than you need lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you are exploring your fantasies and ask them what their humansexmap is...then see if any put a pin in gangbangs

Or mojo upgrade

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Good luck

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By *iolet82 OP Woman
over a year ago

strathaven

"Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you get no joy with your friends. There is always the option of going to a swingers club to indulge your fantasy. Many of them do "Greedy girls" Events from what I've heard.

Even though I'm on here, even though I'm a raging bisexual, even though I indulge in threesomes.. I've zero interest in being part of a gangbang. Partly because I get a little overwhelmed sometimes. Too much new stuff happening at once, I overthink things. I try to read between the lines and I can't help it. Hence the line in my profile.. "First meets being relatively vanilla affairs".

Would I be offended at being asked to partake by a friend I've already played with? Not on your life. I'd be flattered, not offended, though I'd still politely decline.

I think your best option is pillow talk.. it's one of the nicer parts to sexual meets I think. Exploring and learning more about someone. You seem like a very honest and intelligent woman. I wouldn't worry too much about offending others. You dont seem like the type to deliberately antagonize and offend. IF they do get offended, I hope you tell them where to go.. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question; would it be acceptable to ask the 5 formentioned men if they would all like to gangbang me? "

Do bears shit in the forest

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