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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

Well deffo not staying hard long enough

Taking ages to cum ...if at all unless hand assisted

Erm iv got into naughtier fetishes ??

A lady i know says she gushes now more than ever . Yes its a crazy amount i can confirm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well deffo not staying hard long enough

Taking ages to cum ...if at all unless hand assisted

Erm iv got into naughtier fetishes ??

A lady i know says she gushes now more than ever . Yes its a crazy amount i can confirm lol"

I bet she "gushes" more now she's older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well deffo not staying hard long enough

Taking ages to cum ...if at all unless hand assisted

Erm iv got into naughtier fetishes ??

A lady i know says she gushes now more than ever . Yes its a crazy amount i can confirm lol

I bet she "gushes" more now she's older "

Weaker bladder probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say my orgasms are less intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can orgasm where as I couldn't when I was younger. I'm not afraid to express what I want in the bedroom. I'm more kinky

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By *ardy279Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Noticed I love eating arse.

something that probably want out years ago

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I'm not afraid to tell someone when they're going wrong. Not hitting he right spot ect. Used to just put up with shit sex.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m growing bored of wearing women’s underwear. More into housecoats and hair nets

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I know exactly what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want it more and I am not afraid of saying what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I more confident and like to take control.

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By *ardy279Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know exactly what I want

Coffee and a cig will do me right now

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've become "less picky". In other words I have learnt to accept people for who they are and what vibe they give and not just focusing on what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More confident the older I get.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"I’m growing bored of wearing women’s underwear. More into housecoats and hair nets "

That made me laugh...

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By *itkat 300Woman
over a year ago

Bury st edmunds

I know what i like, experiment more and don't put up with shit sex lol

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm more open to what I like and want these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more out of practice but I enjoy more things than I imagined. I was much more limited in what I thought it was about when I was younger and less willing to experiment. I even turned down the possibility of an MFF as a student. Not sure it would have happened but I didn’t even allow the possibility. On the other hand I did some risky things that I’d be much less willing to do now - like sex on the top deck of a bus.

So yeah it’s different, I’m more open-minded, I’m a lot out of practice, but I am aware of many more ways of giving and experiencing pleasure. Also I understand my sexuality now far better, I was not aware of my sexuality then, I assumed despite a number of ‘experimental’ experiences to the contrary that I really was straight. It took me 35 years to finally admit I wasn’t and perhaps 30 to recognise my curiosity. that had been there throughout my life.

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By *ild n NaughtyMan
over a year ago

south Cheshire

"I can orgasm where as I couldn't when I was younger. I'm not afraid to express what I want in the bedroom. I'm more kinky"
I'm definally more open minded an kinky since iv got older

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By *itkat 300Woman
over a year ago

Bury st edmunds

"I’m more out of practice but I enjoy more things than I imagined. I was much more limited in what I thought it was about when I was younger and less willing to experiment. I even turned down the possibility of an MFF as a student. Not sure it would have happened but I didn’t even allow the possibility. On the other hand I did some risky things that I’d be much less willing to do now - like sex on the top deck of a bus.

Love the honesty, I did experiment a bit with woman but as I have got older definitely understand my desires and needs and how to satisfied them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be in love to be able to get it hard at the glory hole

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I don’t feel the need to put on a performance or fake it to make it seem like I’m enjoying something that I’m really not. I feel confident to admit I like some stuff and I don’t like other stuff. I’m a lot more relaxed than I was when I was younger. I’m not afraid to move something or somebody to assist in them ‘hitting the spot’ whereas when I was younger I’d be afraid of upsetting someone. All in all I’m enjoying it a lot more.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Reaching a point where a cuddle and a cocoa starts to seem dangerously exciting

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I used to have a really high libido but now it's a mere shadow of what it used to be. Not sure if it's because of my age or state of mind though.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Reaching a point where a cuddle and a cocoa starts to seem dangerously exciting

Polly you filthy beast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely more comfortable in my own skin these days. I think that seems to be a theme for the women here x

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

I can say no to bad sex.

I'm more choosy about who I interact with.

I'm kinkier, and love exploring new fetish or kinky stuff.

I don't need sex as often, but still love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more confident but that's only in the last year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more open to trying new things. Far more comfortable on my own skin for the most part. It's just a shame that my body isn't as flexible as my imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped fighting my bisexuality and embraced it

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

I’m definitely more willing to kick a guy out now for being shit in bed. That’s something I’ve got better at sexually as I’ve got older.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Great question ... Hmmmm. These are things I acquired as I grew older over a 10 year period of swinging

- More confident

- More careful in who I sleep with

- Love for spunky sex

- Love for age gaps

- Realizing sex has no reason to be taboo

- Enjoying kinks and taboos

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Reaching a point where a cuddle and a cocoa starts to seem dangerously exciting

Polly you filthy beast!

Has a point though

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By *eavenlyWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'm not afraid to tell someone when they're going wrong. Not hitting he right spot ect. Used to just put up with shit sex. "

Definitely this, more confident in saying what I want.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm more horny now, the more I get the more I want (mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more open to things than I was, and I enjoy sex more now than ever, confidence has grown.

I've always wanted more though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've realised I'm actually allowed enjoy sex and feel sexy. Still not confident enough to go get what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have sex with rich women now.

I want to see a passport and latest bank statement or it's not happening.

Is that what you meant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more into the mind and intense passionate encounters, i enjoy teasing and really pushing boundaries in this area, I’m definitely less selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage and a gradual decline in a sex life. Now I’m single, anything that gets my attention is on the menu/bucket list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im picky, and enjoy forplay more now.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP Man
over a year ago

Kent

I think im less picky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the build up as much as I enjoy the sex now, as a youngster I was petrified of the chase

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