FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

if you could tell your younger self something what would it be

Jump to newest
 

By *hooter McGavin OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

if i could go back and meet my self at a younger age i would tell my self not to let myself injure my knee so i could of joined the army, what would you do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself not to let the (now)ex talk me into a joint bank account

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hooter McGavin OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'd tell myself not to let the (now)ex talk me into a joint bank account"

good answer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/03/12 22:31:22]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself to look for Mark sooner rather than later...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself to get over it and move on with my life!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say "you go gal".

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Id tell myself..Nooooooooooooooooooooo dont do THAT!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have given myself a slap and told myself to stick in at school

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go back and tell me what a fucking blast I'm going to have growing up and not to regret any of it. (apart from maybe one day spent makes on a beach in California involving a large bottle of Jack Daniels cling film and a hose pipe)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naked not makes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id tell myself never to get married

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself not to hesitate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about what other people think of you, just be yourself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington

I'd tell myself a large array of lottery numbers, and to trust my instincts more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id tell my best mate not to hand feed tigers..still miss ya kev lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

.

I'd take my Dad's advice and get involved more in these new up and coming thing called computers. He told me in the late 60s they would one day be in every office and factory. Funny, he never mentioned homes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say dont be afraid of being yourself and dont hide behind a mask. Took me years to learn that, meant I wasted my 20's!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

id tell myself not to waste time doing things that dont make me feel 100% happy and if i ever have doubts about someone they listen to them

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren says she'd tell her younger self not to be so shy, although half a bottle of white wine soon cures that.

For me, I'd tell my younger self that when ya gorgeous sexy beautiful cousin tells ya she has this kissing disease ... fookin kiss her!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy family life more.. as it didnt last long

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry so much. Things will turn out alright. I've made mistakes in life, but have no regrets. It's what makes me who I am today and I won't apologise for that or change anything

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to have married my first wife! Not once but twice! Gluten for punishment or what?

Billy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could cry at the missed opportunities I had when I was younger and now I am a chubby, married forty something lol.

So, I would tell myself not to be such a puritanical young git and just go for having meaningless, casual sex, rather than waiting for "Miss Right"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, deffo would have caved the exes head in after a year or so...would still have had to meet him cos i wouldnt have my gorgeous babygirl now...and id have my own house now grrr x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'd give myself a list of all the things to save and not throw away... or give away for that matter.

I wouldn't waste my breath telling younger me what other things to do or not to do:

1 - I probably wouldn't listen.

2 - I might accidently stop myself doing some of the really fun things which started off a bit risky.

3 - I might miss out of some of the learning experiences.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had a pint with my Dad

OK we had the usual family weddings etc, but I never sat down in a pub with him and had a beer.

He died in 1999, and my first beer of the night always goes to him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stand up to bullies .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixson-BallsMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

i'd say....try a different profession cos you're gonna get caught doing that one

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself not to get married and don't be celibate for 6 years, just get out there and have some fun!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I actually do a lot of time traveling and I can assure it's ill advised to ever interact with another version of yourself. It creates a time paradox with an unpredictable outcome.

Having said that I did travel back to that time I lost my keys and put them somewhere safe for past funky to find. Incidentally if anyone is interested the keys were in the last place I looked.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell my self not to get married at 17 .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy with the way things are right now so wouldn't want to change the past. Who knows you may fix something from the past making things then worse now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon


"I'd give myself a list of all the things to save and not throw away... or give away for that matter.

I wouldn't waste my breath telling younger me what other things to do or not to do:

1 - I probably wouldn't listen.

2 - I might accidently stop myself doing some of the really fun things which started off a bit risky.

3 - I might miss out of some of the learning experiences."
Spot on !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing at all

been sitting here thinking about it and if i did then it may alter the course of my life and then i may of never met the gorgeous mr b and had 2 fabulous boys so definately not a thing

life is about taking the rough with the smooth and learning life lessons as you go along so for warning myself defeats the object i think

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Grab myself by the throat and bitch slap me several times. Once for letting my parents disuade me from joing the regular army. Once for taking back my ex and making her my wife..now ex wife and once for buying a house at only 20.

But then if we went bacdk and changes us, we wouldn't be who we are, where we are and possibly not who we are with now. That being the case, i would just hide and grimace as i made those mistakes all over again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell my younger self to "hang on in there, it all works out OK in the end"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

it depends on how far i went back... because i was such a cocky SOB back then i know i wouldn't listen......

i think i would tell myself to keep in fighting when people say you "can't" do something and life will be fine...

oh.. and a black dude would be president in about 20 years.... no... really!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I would tell myself to make sure that the day i unexpectedly pulled the gorgeous workmate I'd been salivating over for months, I should make sure i wasn't wearing american tan knee highs under my jeans and Bridget Jones fecking knickers.....other than that future lottery numbers and buy a couple of houses with my redindancy dosh in 2001 when they were only £15k instead of just the one.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would tell myself to get over it and move on with my life! "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Oh and to my 13 yo self....dont start smoking, its not big and its not clever and it'll take you 30years to give up n cost you thousands....but i doubt id listen at that age.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ravellingAndyMan
over a year ago

Brandon


"I never had a pint with my Dad

OK we had the usual family weddings etc, but I never sat down in a pub with him and had a beer.

He died in 1999, and my first beer of the night always goes to him"

+1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont believe men who tell you they will marry you if you get pregnant, dont get pregnant because your body will never look the same again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust no one!! only yourself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats actually a really good question

am gonna think about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust no one!! only yourself "

+1

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not to get married the first time round

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

tell myself not to go to malta...

didnt enjoy that holiday..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hooter McGavin OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"I never had a pint with my Dad

OK we had the usual family weddings etc, but I never sat down in a pub with him and had a beer.

He died in 1999, and my first beer of the night always goes to him"

i like that, really good answer

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id tell myself your going through all this as a learning curve and you will reap the rewards in the end

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top