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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on" Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue?" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all"  This is what has put me off attending the London one. The Pride marches just seem to be getting more and more militant. | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all" It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it" You literally just called it 'a non heterosexual event' | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it You literally just called it 'a non heterosexual event'" As in events that arent exclusively catered to heterosexual people. Dont try to twist my words to prove your incorrect point | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it You literally just called it 'a non heterosexual event' As in events that arent exclusively catered to heterosexual people. Dont try to twist my words to prove your incorrect point" Can you tell me what letter LGBT stands for heterosexuality? And isn't it called 'Gay Pride'? Or is it just 'Pride'? honest question | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it You literally just called it 'a non heterosexual event' As in events that arent exclusively catered to heterosexual people. Dont try to twist my words to prove your incorrect point Can you tell me what letter LGBT stands for heterosexuality? And isn't it called 'Gay Pride'? Or is it just 'Pride'? honest question" Because straight people dont need to celebrate having straight rights, it's not something they've needed to fight for. It doesnt mean that they arent more than welcome to attend events and you very well know that. And it's now called lgbt pride, so no, not exclusive to just gays, its everyone that falls under the lgbtq+ banner | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all" Every day is heterosexual pride day. | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all It doesnt exclude anything. Most of the people that go to these huge events are heterosexual...... Its not exactly a lgbt strict event that no one else can attend now is it You literally just called it 'a non heterosexual event' As in events that arent exclusively catered to heterosexual people. Dont try to twist my words to prove your incorrect point Can you tell me what letter LGBT stands for heterosexuality? And isn't it called 'Gay Pride'? Or is it just 'Pride'? honest question Because straight people dont need to celebrate having straight rights, it's not something they've needed to fight for. It doesnt mean that they arent more than welcome to attend events and you very well know that. And it's now called lgbt pride, so no, not exclusive to just gays, its everyone that falls under the lgbtq+ banner" sure | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. " How so? | |||
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"I thought london pride was a type of brown ale  "No, it’s an ale, a bitter. Famously brewed in Chiswick but just been sold to the Japanese. London Pride is locally known as ‘Chelsea ale’ As in pride of London as only London club to have won the champions league. | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. " Are people allowed to express pride at being heterosexual? "We're here, we're straight - get used to it"  | |||
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"So raise your hands kids, who's going?" I'm not going to be able to make it. Hope you and anyone attending has a bloody brilliant day. Enjoy! | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. Are people allowed to express pride at being heterosexual? "We're here, we're straight - get used to it" "Sure. Just not at a political celebration of the rights and freedoms that have been granted to lgb people. | |||
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"Are you going OP? I went a few years ago, it was massive. Then only to the parade/ march. " Yeah I've been the last 2 years, never as lilly though. I've also gone on my own the last 2 years as my friends are useless and never manage to come, looks like 3rd year in a row I'm going solo. Although both times I've been I've ended up bar hopping with strangers all day so it's been good | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. How so? Were you ever executed because of your sexuality? Were you ever imprisoned because of your sexuality? Were you ever forcibly injected with chemicals to cure you of your sexuality? Were you ever denied a job, sacked, discriminated against because of your sexuality. No, because the majority in society declared it must be cleansed of anything not heterosexual. That is why I say every day is heterosexual pride day. You really do not understand Pride, do you? " Do you think gay people are the only people to have persecuted? | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. How so?" Were you ever executed because of your sexuality? Were you ever imprisoned because of your sexuality? Were you ever forcibly injected with chemicals to cure you of your sexuality? Were you ever denied a job, sacked, discriminated against because of your sexuality. No, because the heterosexual majority in society declared it must be cleansed of anything that smacked of diversity. That is why I say every day is heterosexual pride day - you express it freely every day, without fear. | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. How so? Were you ever executed because of your sexuality? Were you ever imprisoned because of your sexuality? Were you ever forcibly injected with chemicals to cure you of your sexuality? Were you ever denied a job, sacked, discriminated against because of your sexuality. No, because the majority in society declared it must be cleansed of anything not heterosexual. That is why I say every day is heterosexual pride day. You really do not understand Pride, do you? Do you think gay people are the only people to have persecuted?" What a ridiculous statement to make | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. How so? Were you ever executed because of your sexuality? Were you ever imprisoned because of your sexuality? Were you ever forcibly injected with chemicals to cure you of your sexuality? Were you ever denied a job, sacked, discriminated against because of your sexuality. No, because the majority in society declared it must be cleansed of anything not heterosexual. That is why I say every day is heterosexual pride day. You really do not understand Pride, do you? Do you think gay people are the only people to have persecuted? What a ridiculous statement to make" Wasn't a statement | |||
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" Do you think gay people are the only people to have persecuted?" No. | |||
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"I don't think anyone's checked in and the gate to see what "hat" they wear. As far as I'm aware whilst its an event to support/raise awareness of the LGBT community, you don't to you don't need to be LGB or T to attend. If you want to go, go. " I've been to a few gay prides and for the most part had a great time. Had some hostility for being straight, but it happens. I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush. | |||
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" Had some hostility for being straight, but it happens. I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush." Yes. Being a minority does not exempt you from prejudice about others . It just makes it more surprising. | |||
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"Are you going OP? I went a few years ago, it was massive. Then only to the parade/ march. Yeah I've been the last 2 years, never as lilly though. I've also gone on my own the last 2 years as my friends are useless and never manage to come, looks like 3rd year in a row I'm going solo. Although both times I've been I've ended up bar hopping with strangers all day so it's been good" Did you do a thread about it last year? Love that you went bar hopping with strangers. Hope you have a great time. I'll be there in spirit. | |||
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"Nope but have a lovely day. I saw that flight to NY pride in the paper. Now that looked fun. " That family on the flight!! It looked amazing. | |||
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"Are you going OP? I went a few years ago, it was massive. Then only to the parade/ march. Yeah I've been the last 2 years, never as lilly though. I've also gone on my own the last 2 years as my friends are useless and never manage to come, looks like 3rd year in a row I'm going solo. Although both times I've been I've ended up bar hopping with strangers all day so it's been good Did you do a thread about it last year? Love that you went bar hopping with strangers. Hope you have a great time. I'll be there in spirit. "I asked if people were going last year yes lol. Yeah, first year I made friends with a lesbian couple, last year was a young gay bloke and his best female friend. Hopefully this year I can make friends again lol | |||
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"So raise your hands kids, who's going?" We'll be there. Great day out. | |||
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"How would anyone know you were straight at pride anyway...not all gay people mince around and talk in a camp voice.." I wondered that. Maybe it's the "I'm straight, I'm great. Get used to it!" T-shirts?! Hope everyone going has a fabulous time! | |||
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" My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all Every day is heterosexual pride day. How so? Were you ever executed because of your sexuality? Were you ever imprisoned because of your sexuality? Were you ever forcibly injected with chemicals to cure you of your sexuality? Were you ever denied a job, sacked, discriminated against because of your sexuality. No, because the majority in society declared it must be cleansed of anything not heterosexual. That is why I say every day is heterosexual pride day. You really do not understand Pride, do you? Do you think gay people are the only people to have persecuted?" There are other days and events to celebrate other groups who were, or are, persecuted. why does the Pride event specifically offend you? | |||
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"Are you going OP? I went a few years ago, it was massive. Then only to the parade/ march. Yeah I've been the last 2 years, never as lilly though. I've also gone on my own the last 2 years as my friends are useless and never manage to come, looks like 3rd year in a row I'm going solo. Although both times I've been I've ended up bar hopping with strangers all day so it's been good Did you do a thread about it last year? Love that you went bar hopping with strangers. Hope you have a great time. I'll be there in spirit.
I asked if people were going last year yes lol. Yeah, first year I made friends with a lesbian couple, last year was a young gay bloke and his best female friend. Hopefully this year I can make friends again lol"I remembered your thread because I reeaaaaallly wanted to go!
Sometimes it's better to go alone as you'll meet people you never would have had a chance to if you'd been busy with friends. | |||
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"Im not either,to bloody many pride things going on Do you also complain about black history month? Or is it just the non heterosexual events that are an issue? My problem with pride is that it excludes heterosexuality when it should be about acceptance by all and for all" Pride is about the struggle that LGBT+ people suffer still on a daily basis to have equality and exceptance. Please tell me in which country being heterosexual is illegal? Please tell me how often groups of men harass you into kissing your partner on a bus? When these things are no longer an issue for the LGBT community then Pride wont be necessary. I (Mr) will be marching at london as an ally to my works LGBT group and at Croydon Pride the week later with mrs for the charity i volunteer for. One day Pride hopefully wont be needed, we are not there yet. | |||
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"I don’t go to pride anymore because it seems to be all about partying than politics now. It also seems to be full of straight people..." 7th September The Round Chapel Hackney. the first Bi Pride event. Hosted by Bi Pride UK. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " Where on earth do you think that is happening? And even if it was, that's part of certain aspects of gay culture. If people dont want to he subjected to it or gave their kids do so then they dont need to come. But I mean, humping each other? Really? Jesus christ. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " Yep that's exactly what everyone at Pride wears and how they behave. And they are happy and cheery. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " Out of curiosity, do you think the same of the women at notting hill carnival parading around in bright outfits and thongs? | |||
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" I (Mr) will be marching at london as an ally to my works LGBT group and at Croydon Pride the week later with mrs for the charity i volunteer for. One day Pride hopefully wont be needed, we are not there yet. " | |||
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"Some of the comments on this thread is the reason Pride is still needed. " I just had a twinge of  for you. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " I usually find the ones who protest the loudest are the ones with the most to hide. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! Out of curiosity, do you think the same of the women at notting hill carnival parading around in bright outfits and thongs?" Never been to Notting Hill so I couldn't Comment. Have been witness to a few pride marches tho. They look like fun but a fair few cringe fest moments kinda put me off bringing the kids. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " Because Pride isn't really about having a party, it's about taking up space and campaigning for the end of discrimination against lgbt people. | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! Because Pride isn't really about having a party, it's about taking up space and campaigning for the end of discrimination against lgbt people." Everytime I've been it's been pretty much just getting pissed up | |||
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"All well and good and more power to them! But leather thong-clad blokes with dog collars and dog leads dry humping each other in front of children? Why not just wear regular clothes and have a happy and cheery party! " The dark ages just phoned, they'd like their perceptions back..... | |||
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"There is press comment that big business is hijacking Pride for their own ends. Is this true or even possible ?" They cant really hijack it but there is a lot more business representation. They definitely piggy back onto the events to promote their own business under the guise of support, but there is also definitely businesses out there that do do a lot for their lgbt employees | |||
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"There is press comment that big business is hijacking Pride for their own ends. Is this true or even possible ? They cant really hijack it but there is a lot more business representation. They definitely piggy back onto the events to promote their own business under the guise of support, but there is also definitely businesses out there that do do a lot for their lgbt employees " My company definitely gets involved but also advertises obviously. I think the recent LGBT flight was an example. | |||
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"There is press comment that big business is hijacking Pride for their own ends. Is this true or even possible ?" Large companies especially recognise the LGBT community as a talent pool, so a company that is seen to be actively pro-LGBT thinks it has more chance of recruiting in that market. That's the logic for companies like British Aerospace. But there are some who object to their participation because it sells products to countries that are very anti-LGBT. | |||
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