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"I disagree with the Queen - there's no such thing as "too nice" - there's sickly over the top false nice but if you are genuinely and naturally a nice person then that can never be too much - being true to yourself is all you can be. Two veris in the last couple of months would suggest to me that you're my going far wrong either OP "That’s the kinda nice I meant  | |||
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"Have been told many times that i am "to nice" ... Is there such a thing ? I know i'm not the best looking guy on here but whats wrong with been nice , so any advice for my profile would be appreciated "Forgive me for saying but You’re not a bad looking guy for your age! And also I think your profile is fine. The problem with being too nice if you’re looking for single females is most of them come here to find something they crave and that’s usually hot, nasty dirty sex. They don’t want to be wined and dined. There are some out there tho! So keep trying and don’t change your personality, it’s who you are. S x | |||
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"Have been told many times that i am "to nice" ... Is there such a thing ? I know i'm not the best looking guy on here but whats wrong with been nice , so any advice for my profile would be appreciated "I like nice honest people who arent playing games and liars | |||
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"What do you think could be improved? And yes, people can be ‘too nice’ imo" I've been told that I scrub up well  | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama "I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit. | |||
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"Try to be an asshole and check which version of you get laid " I've ascertained to be many things in my life, but I'm pretty sure being an arsehole wasn't one of them | |||
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"Try to be an asshole and check which version of you get laid I've ascertained to be many things in my life, but I'm pretty sure being an arsehole wasn't one of them "You don't look like one either  but you do have a nice rectum on you | |||
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"Have been told many times that i am "to nice" ... Is there such a thing ? I know i'm not the best looking guy on here but whats wrong with been nice , so any advice for my profile would be appreciated "Too nice can sometimes mean no edge, which can also be codeword for borderline boring. Personally I've only ever gone for nice guys (with one exception many moons ago, that I won't go into).
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"I'd rather be too nice than be classed a asshole any day of the way " Agree Nice is always a safe bet
Who'd want to be grandiloquent, supercilious, or pompous anyhow?... | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit. "And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people. In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice" | |||
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"Nice guys finish last OP........ and the world loves a b#stard! Sad but true "I’m not one of those. . Why would anyone like a guy that treats them like poo? I’ve never quite got it. | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice""Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory. | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice"
Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory. "Indeed, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of those words we throw in there because we don't have any others that fit and it's "nice" to do so
It's also an easy word on here to throw about to create a positive image "...oh but I'm a nice guy really", "why won't people meet me, I'm really nice" etc etc | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice"
Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory.
Indeed, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of those words we throw in there because we don't have any others that fit and it's "nice" to do so
It's also an easy word on here to throw about to create a positive image "...oh but I'm a nice guy really", "why won't people meet me, I'm really nice" etc etc "I’m not really a fan of the word ‘nice’ I think I was just keeping in with the theme of the thread. | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice"
Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory.
Indeed, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of those words we throw in there because we don't have any others that fit and it's "nice" to do so
It's also an easy word on here to throw about to create a positive image "...oh but I'm a nice guy really", "why won't people meet me, I'm really nice" etc etc
I’m not really a fan of the word ‘nice’ I think I was just keeping in with the theme of the thread. "We should start a campaign for its removal from the language unless it's being used to describe a biscuit or a city in France | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice"
Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory.
Indeed, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of those words we throw in there because we don't have any others that fit and it's "nice" to do so
It's also an easy word on here to throw about to create a positive image "...oh but I'm a nice guy really", "why won't people meet me, I'm really nice" etc etc
I’m not really a fan of the word ‘nice’ I think I was just keeping in with the theme of the thread.
We should start a campaign for its removal from the language unless it's being used to describe a biscuit or a city in France"Or for Howard Marks. | |||
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"In my experience women who say you're too nice will consistently pursue and end up with absolute arseholes, I'm sure some of them just like the drama
I only ever date (and married) nice guys. I’ve never been into bad boys. Some men are ‘too nice’ and what I mean by that is maybe they don’t have an edge for me, something that will keep me interested. I’m not after a yes man, I don’t want a difficult one either. I just need a nice guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit.
And that's just it - what is "nice" anyway? One person's "nice", will be another person's "boring", in fact at school we were taught not to use "nice" as it was such a fluffy subjective word that can mean different things to different people.
In fact the last sentence of your post probably doesn't need the word "nice" at all and would probably read better as "I just need a guy who stimulates my mind and challenges me a bit" as the "stimulates my mind" bit would rule out anyone who wasn't "nice"
Very true, it wasn’t needed and very self explanatory.
Indeed, in fact I'd go as far as to say it's one of those words we throw in there because we don't have any others that fit and it's "nice" to do so
It's also an easy word on here to throw about to create a positive image "...oh but I'm a nice guy really", "why won't people meet me, I'm really nice" etc etc
I’m not really a fan of the word ‘nice’ I think I was just keeping in with the theme of the thread.
We should start a campaign for its removal from the language unless it's being used to describe a biscuit or a city in France
Or for Howard Marks. "Dang how did I forget him | |||
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