FabSwingers.com forum: Kicking your self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Met a amazing lady on here going back three or four years now that ended about six months back as moved back to home area to be near my brats from previous life,,

Long story cut short it was only ever ment to be short term casual thing ie she was married at time, after about five months she tx and said she was going to leave her ex as things wasn't as she wanted, hence she was here I suppose, I said not to do on my account as my life style and direction wasn't the ideal match up ie lived a large part of my life on the wrong side of the blue line shall we say and she was data type for the force so new it would cuase her trouble at work and with family if it got out that we were together. Any way it all blew over and things carried on we ended up having a few good years together indulging in all sorts a fun n frolicks and made a few good friends on the way,,,, as said I had to move again to be near eldest duaghter as she was going off rails and needed some guidance so and I didn't want to lead the said lady on as I move reg for work and had major itchy feet n wander lust brewing for a long long time and could see she was getting to attached for the sitcho,, after a few weeks of being apart a friend had made a order on my account for a load a toys n out fits and some how a screen shot got sent to her of the order leading to a torrent of abuse and general your a cunt sort msgs, I did not reply or try to excuse it as thought it was a harsh bit abrupt way to call it a day and it had sort of been taken out of my hands by greater forces or so it seemed at time,, recently I found out it was a lady that I had let use my phone that sent screen shot as she had ideas of her own and basicly feel like a twat,, in to minds to make contact and say sorry but as said I don't want to open old wounds or give false hope,,, any way that's that done open apology made, you know if you see this who it's ment for and if not it felt good to get it of my chest and in to black and white as not really able to talk about it in day to day life,, n ps I am a good boy now contrary to past paths trodden lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that's the short story?

What is it that you are kicking yourself for?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"and that's the short story?

What is it that you are kicking yourself for?

Not knowing what a sentence or a paragraph is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got bored after the first paragraph and didn't read the rest..sorry x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

What makes you think she’s bothered? I daresay she’s moved on, whereas it seems to be bothering you.

You couldn’t be arsed to do the decent thing at the time, bit late in the day to be fretting about it now.

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and that's the short story?

What is it that you are kicking yourself for?

Not knowing what a sentence or a paragraph is?

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did I hear thee word dick bounded about,,,,,, no so why you pip up with that mr,,, hope it makes you feal a little bit better about your self having publicly belittled some one else in morning,,,,, if it wasn't for spell check you wouldn't be able to read it at all little thing called dyslexia,,,, jog on wee man jog on,,, shore there's a pair a balls and a ashole missing you some where

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What makes you think she’s bothered? I daresay she’s moved on, whereas it seems to be bothering you.

You couldn’t be arsed to do the decent thing at the time, bit late in the day to be fretting about it now.

Move on."
,,,,, more getting it of me chest,,, moved on long ago just dnt like idea a leaving hurt on some one that's a good one on whole ,,,and as said actually first time vocalised this ie more a personal pherapy tool than fishing for answers n replys,,, not really a face book post was it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm. Is it going to be one of those that you keep thinking about? If so it’ll drive you crazy. I’d send her a message. What’s the worst thing that can happen? She can have a sweaty rant but at least you’ll know

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"and that's the short story?

What is it that you are kicking yourself for?

Not knowing what a sentence or a paragraph is?

did I hear thee word dick bounded about,,,,,, no so why you pip up with that mr,,, hope it makes you feal a little bit better about your self having publicly belittled some one else in morning,,,,, if it wasn't for spell check you wouldn't be able to read it at all little thing called dyslexia,,,, jog on wee man jog on,,, shore there's a pair a balls and a ashole missing you some where "

I'm sorry if I've offended you, but there's no need to be nasty really is there?

I obviously don't comprehend the full meaning of dyslexia, but I hope you have a good day anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Decent sival answer, thanking you muchly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good attempt at side step there, but no banana for that monkey,,,, think before you try look clever next time, would be a good move

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