FabSwingers.com forum: Women approaching men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In the real world? Who knows.

On here? Too busy answering our messages.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Plenty do approach those that appeal to them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"42."

Oh Jim.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

Don't know yet...its only July.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very precise there Jim gotta love a dominant women to drop it on your toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

Not enough

More than enough. Just cause they’re not all approaching you, doesn’t mean they aren’t approaching anyone

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"In the real world? Who knows.

On here? Too busy answering our messages. "

I approach on here a lot. I like being proactive and sorting out socials and meets if I want to meet them - I'm not the sort to dilly dally and wait for them to. Right now, I'm having a bit of a wobble so wouldn't but soon enough I will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of did with LJ. Really put myself out there. I'm so glad I did

Holly

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

"42."

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Wish they would approach me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

Not enough

More than enough. Just cause they’re not all approaching you, doesn’t mean they aren’t approaching anyone

My not enough might be more tham some elses enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the real world? Who knows.

On here? Too busy answering our messages. "

answering messages ?? yeah right lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If women are attracted to ya, 9 times outta 10 they’ll approach ya

If I fancy a man, on here or on the real world, I tend to approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I actually hunt them

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I do if I'm attracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plenty do approach those that appeal to them

What this chap said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem approaching men either here or in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

100

Woman gives me change when I pay for fuel - she fancies me.

Woman asks me the way to Tesco - she fancies me

Waitress says thank you when I tip her - she fancies me

Woman behind the bar tells me to fuck off and stop leering- she fancies me

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I usually have filters on, so make my own approaches for single guys.

It’s way easier, much better approach for finding and getting what you want.

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

100

Woman gives me change when I pay for fuel - she fancies me.

Woman asks me the way to Tesco - she fancies me

Waitress says thank you when I tip her - she fancies me

Woman behind the bar tells me to fuck off and stop leering- she fancies me

Gosh. Ain’t you just Mr Popular...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"In the real world? Who knows.

On here? Too busy answering our messages.

I'd search myself if the tools could handle my parameters and I didn't have a constant influx of mail (my filters are where I want them to be).

I guess I'm saying that I don't wait to be approached because I'm old fashioned, but because of the site and the way it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I do outside fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I actually hunt them

U would

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

38.6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

100

Woman gives me change when I pay for fuel - she fancies me.

Woman asks me the way to Tesco - she fancies me

Waitress says thank you when I tip her - she fancies me

Woman behind the bar tells me to fuck off and stop leering- she fancies me

Gosh. Ain’t you just Mr Popular..."

Just an average lunch hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do the approaching on here...

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I’ve only been approached once, been enjoying ever since

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

0.00000025%

probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some real good answers there thanks all, same thing crops up alot about this not being the real world though which Is a shame really I know I'm real and most must be real

Guess it's the same as the dating apps then, a certain amount of single guys ruining it for the rest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"42."

Love it!!!!!!!

If you know....you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do. They actually get very close sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never approach. I think it's fat girl syndrome I would be too embarrassed by rejection here and I'm the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do, I'm quite forward with men, it's women I struggle to flirt with and approach.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We do some of the time.

I did approach hubby back in the day and he's stuck around over 20 years.

Not adverse to doing it here, have still had a few knockbacks though, but often because they don't play with couples. Even tho we are a straight couple......not a fab straight couple

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never approach. I think it's fat girl syndrome I would be too embarrassed by rejection here and I'm the real world. "

You're a very attractive woman, I don't think you need worry about rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

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4.5%

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I suspect there aren't any statistics out there on this.

But I suspect the last dozen or so people I've slept with I've been the one to approach them. And I'd guess at least 2/3 of my relationships in the last decade I've instigated.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

"I never approach. I think it's fat girl syndrome I would be too embarrassed by rejection here and I'm the real world.

You're a very attractive woman, I don't think you need worry about rejection."

Funnily enough, not all men are that shallow, and not all men find the same thing attractive. I've not looked at the profile you're replying to, but the reality is that everyone should be aware rejection might happen, and nobody should feel like they can't reject someone.

Men have personal autonomy too in the dating/sex scene.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Wife prefers guys to approach her she will smile at them to let them know she is interested. Not had many approach me at club.all other women I know married but non swingers worse lick lol

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'd probably still be a virgin if it wasnt for women making the first move. All of women I've ever done anything with have had to make the first move. Thank you ladies (who make a first move at least)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended."
lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away? "

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

Ooh err

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

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ahhhh so that only Italian women understand it I get your thinking

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

ahhhh so that only Italian women understand it I get your thinking "

I don't think I've ever seen an Italian woman on Fab. I feel a thread coming on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

ahhhh so that only Italian women understand it I get your thinking

I don't think I've ever seen an Italian woman on Fab. I feel a thread coming on...."
lol......... Allura

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

I'm sure some women make the first approach although that's not been my experience.

On the flipside my photos are dull and uninteresting and my biog is crap.

Both deliberately so, they're doing the job intended.

lol keeping the overthinking, goal post moving, delightfully sexy women away?

Next time I do a rewrite it's going to be in Latin.

ahhhh so that only Italian women understand it I get your thinking

I don't think I've ever seen an Italian woman on Fab. I feel a thread coming on...."

You obviously didn’t meet Bumbralina

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I only did it once and i got a written slap down.

Never again.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been approached a couole times before but usually I dont like it. Prefer to make the move myself.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Some do some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two thirds of the women on my friends list approached me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have to have reasons to approach people tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, I'd give it 0% as I don't think I remember being approached by any ladies I've never met or spoken to.

Either they assume I wouldn't be interested, not their type or I'm just physically attractive enough

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Im always being approached by women away from here. I get propositioned all the time aswell......dont know why lol im not complaining though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my case, I'd give it 0% as I don't think I remember being approached by any ladies I've never met or spoken to.

Either they assume I wouldn't be interested, not their type or I'm just physically attractive enough

I'm meant I'm juse NOT physically attractive enough

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London

I have noticed a real change in attitude in women approaching men in the real world, it happens far more often which is great. I think a lot of women have gained confidence from various inspirations, long may it continue!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to make the first move usually I know what I want and like I really don't know why a lot of women don't do it the worst that can happen is a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I approached trim and don't regret it for a second. I don't approach people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been approached a few times in the real world in the past year or so, it does give you a boost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno but in 1995 I approached Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never approach. I think it's fat girl syndrome I would be too embarrassed by rejection here and I'm the real world.

You're a very attractive woman, I don't think you need worry about rejection.

Men have personal autonomy too in the dating/sex scene."

Well beg my pudding for being complimentary to someone. I wont do it again you ugly wench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I spend so much time messaging friends and answering other messages, that I rarely have time to search (and the search facility on here is rubbish).

I’ve messaged 3 men first. Number one ignored me, number 2 answered, very friendly but not interested and the 3rd is now my regular FWB

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I find I spend so much time messaging friends and answering other messages, that I rarely have time to search (and the search facility on here is rubbish).

I’ve messaged 3 men first. Number one ignored me, number 2 answered, very friendly but not interested and the 3rd is now my regular FWB

That's good odds......

It's a "slightly" different story for the chaps I'll wager.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Never

Bit too scared

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By *utchersDogMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Over 95% of the people iming me first today have been female so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find I spend so much time messaging friends and answering other messages, that I rarely have time to search (and the search facility on here is rubbish).

I’ve messaged 3 men first. Number one ignored me, number 2 answered, very friendly but not interested and the 3rd is now my regular FWB

That's good odds......

It's a "slightly" different story for the chaps I'll wager."

I’m sure it is very different for men on here. Despite my good odds I think it’s easier to meet people at socials and clubs. You never know who you’ll click with

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I find I spend so much time messaging friends and answering other messages, that I rarely have time to search (and the search facility on here is rubbish).

I’ve messaged 3 men first. Number one ignored me, number 2 answered, very friendly but not interested and the 3rd is now my regular FWB

That's good odds......

It's a "slightly" different story for the chaps I'll wager.

I’m sure it is very different for men on here. Despite my good odds I think it’s easier to meet people at socials and clubs. You never know who you’ll click with

True story.

Sometimes you just click with someone amazing.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Some real good answers there thanks all, same thing crops up alot about this not being the real world though which Is a shame really I know I'm real and most must be real

Guess it's the same as the dating apps then, a certain amount of single guys ruining it for the rest?"

It's not the guys ruining it for us, i think it's more that women tend to be sexually passive and so don't approach guys for sex. Slut shaming is a thing and it seems to have worked.

Also many guys have no pics or profiles so we can't tell if we fancy them or not so don't waste our time asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"42."

Have we found the question to the answer of life, the universe, and everything?

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find I spend so much time messaging friends and answering other messages, that I rarely have time to search (and the search facility on here is rubbish).

I’ve messaged 3 men first. Number one ignored me, number 2 answered, very friendly but not interested and the 3rd is now my regular FWB

That’s brilliant, 3rd time lucky and all that.

Would love to find my own fwb.

Think it’s the 21st century and why can’t a woman message a guy first, as long as everyone is respectful then that’s what counts.

I love to receive messages from women and I’m very flattered if they’ve made the first move too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I kind of did with LJ. Really put myself out there. I'm so glad I did

Holly"

That makes two of us

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

its 2019 does not mean we are not still living in ancient times.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

Out there in the non fab world I see women often times taking the initiative and though I won't try to guess percentages, i'd say they're healthy numbers.

As to fab, i've found that more women decide to take a passive approach. I've been told it's easier to sit back and sift through the hundreds (potentially) messages that come through and reply to that occasional one that sparks interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get approached by women a fair bit so I'd say 82.2%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women should equally be approaching men as men do to women since they know what type of men they like (presumably)

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Women should equally be approaching men as men do to women since they know what type of men they like (presumably) "

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But they do. They certainly do on here.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have and do

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Women should equally be approaching men as men do to women since they know what type of men they like (presumably) "

They do

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It does happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont doubt women do approach men but honestly speaking do they do it as much as men?? Or is the majority of the first move made by men 90% of the time?? Thats my point?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I dont doubt women do approach men but honestly speaking do they do it as much as men?? Or is the majority of the first move made by men 90% of the time?? Thats my point?"

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Well, I haven't sent an inaugural message in nearly two years, other than engaging with friends from the fora.

Every meet/social I've had since then has been instigated by the woman.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I dont doubt women do approach men but honestly speaking do they do it as much as men?? Or is the majority of the first move made by men 90% of the time?? Thats my point?"

I'm half a couple.

But Fox deals with all the messages (in and out) whilst I talk shit in here.

She browses profiles rather than wait for incoming messages, sends winks and messages and currently has half a dozen guys lined up for potential socials soon. And she's just arranged on for this week for us. I haven't had to read a message, answer one or send one myself.

All I had to do was cast a cursory glance over a profile and nod sagely or say 'fuck right off'. She'd already done the shortlisting and knows me well so there was no 'fuck right off'to be heard.

Women send messages all the time, whether they're single or in couples.

Men don't think they do simply because it's highly likely most of the women are messaging the same small percentage of men, because their profiles and pictures attract the female eye - rather than the majority of men who think that simply setting up a profile with a couple of lines of words and a cock shot or two will have women rushing to make contact the second they stumble across their profiles.

And I say that having been here nearly 15 years as a single guy and a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont doubt women do approach men but honestly speaking do they do it as much as men?? Or is the majority of the first move made by men 90% of the time?? Thats my point?"
in the majority of the cases, the man will approach women more than the women approach him. In the minority of the case women will be approaching the man more than he approaches women. Or at least it's more balanced.

So overall men are sending our more winks and messages than women. 9 to one may even be generous. But individual experiences will vary.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Alright. Own up. Who necromanced a fucken 4 year old thread full of unlos and why

Generally, a lot more approaches are made to me than I initiate.

However, if someone really strikes me, I will make that first contact. But it's not often someone catches my eye like that, and usually, I'm already swamped in dealing with people I'm working out if there's a potential with after their initial approach.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"Alright. Own up. Who necromanced a fucken 4 year old thread full of unlos and why

Generally, a lot more approaches are made to me than I initiate.

Except me - pretty sure you offered me a knee trembler and some pork scratchings if I’d let you snog me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely will approach people that catch my eye, both on here and in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some real good answers there thanks all, same thing crops up alot about this not being the real world though which Is a shame really I know I'm real and most must be real

Guess it's the same as the dating apps then, a certain amount of single guys ruining it for the rest?

It's not the guys ruining it for us, i think it's more that women tend to be sexually passive and so don't approach guys for sex. Slut shaming is a thing and it seems to have worked.

Also many guys have no pics or profiles so we can't tell if we fancy them or not so don't waste our time asking."

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I was at an organised social the other weekend and a guy did catch my eye. I waited a while hoping he’d approach me but he didn’t. So I took the initiative and walked over to say hello fancy getting naked some time? We’re seeing each other tomorrow

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

Never happened to me as far as I can remember.

Must be a fugly thing

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

Does the reverse even happen these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont doubt women do approach men but honestly speaking do they do it as much as men?? Or is the majority of the first move made by men 90% of the time?? Thats my point?"

No probably not as much, but that's because women don't think with their dick like men.

On here, men will just message every woman in a 50 mile radius. Women tend to message guys they actually like the look of. So obviously it's going to be a lot less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the olden days……. A woman was subtle but still made the 1st move (drop a handkerchief etc). I like that, it’s about getting a guys attention and asking them to approach them.

Nowadays they swipe right

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

92.3%

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Well we met on Bumble, so technically I did! Don't regret it at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do guys really want to be approached/chatted up? IMO, not. Not for anything longterm anyway. I think it comes down to

something akin to "hero instinct" which is biological in most men

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By *entfootloverMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"Do guys really want to be approached/chatted up? IMO, not. Not for anything longterm anyway. I think it comes down to

something akin to "hero instinct" which is biological in most men

Nah. Life is too fast and short. Why leave stones unturned in the moment?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"In the olden days……. A woman was subtle but still made the 1st move (drop a handkerchief etc). I like that, it’s about getting a guys attention and asking them to approach them.

Nowadays they swipe right

Or send a wink in Fab....

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"In the olden days……. A woman was subtle but still made the 1st move (drop a handkerchief etc). I like that, it’s about getting a guys attention and asking them to approach them.

Nowadays they swipe right

The thing is you swipe right, they swipe right, both are a match and yet they* still don't send the first message to initiate contact fully. So the it is still the man that is generally expected to make the first move.

*not all!

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Alright. Own up. Who necromanced a fucken 4 year old thread full of unlos and why

My first thought on seeing 2019 in the first post was "How long did the person who re-started this thread take to find it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach with caution!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you have some snacks in your pocket incase the animal shows signs they're unfriendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Alright. Own up. Who necromanced a fucken 4 year old thread full of unlos and why

Generally, a lot more approaches are made to me than I initiate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its 2019 what percentage of women make the first move and approach the guy?

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Online I will make the first move if I really like the look and sound of someone from their profile. I just rarely like anyone.

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