FabSwingers.com forum: The curse of fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me, but the further someone is away from my location the more sexier, nicer and chatty they are.

Wonder if anyone can disprove my theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get what you mean pal it’s gutting when you find out she’s miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me, but the further someone is away from my location the more sexier, nicer and chatty they are.

Wonder if anyone can disprove my theory

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yep it can be tough that way

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

When will someone invent teleportation?

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hell yeah

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Erm ... I’ve been chatty you cheeky thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm ... I’ve been chatty you cheeky thing.

A very rare theory disproved lol. Xxxx

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Yea there's a few where distance is an issue unfortunately

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I found one with a car, jackpot.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geography can be a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "

It does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one guy I would meet above anyone lives about 200 miles away. It’s gutting but we’re determined it will happen one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "

It does, but now you've shattered my already fragile illusions. ..or mr probably delusions..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "

Happy to chat

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "

It makes sense, less expectations.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "

I agree. The ‘Elephant in the room’ surrounding arranging to meet, just isn’t there, and people are just themselves

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense

I agree. The ‘Elephant in the room’ surrounding arranging to meet, just isn’t there, and people are just themselves

That's exactly what I mean

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The one guy I would meet above anyone lives about 200 miles away. It’s gutting but we’re determined it will happen one day!"

I am chatting to someone a mission away from me. I'd like to meet him....one day eh

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I just get in the car....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I just get in the car....

I don't drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more inevitable, I had a social with someone miles away and they reckoned people prefer to play with people who don't live locally. Prefer the space and privacy it provides. Which makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just get in the car....

I agree. It is as simple as that.

Although many won't meet people from far away as they claim that there's a level of expectation associated, that makes them feel uncomfortable.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just get in the car....

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same here thank fook diesel has gone down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me, but the further someone is away from my location the more sexier, nicer and chatty they are.

Wonder if anyone can disprove my theory

You've not ventured onto the Scottish forum much...have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People want what they can't have, human nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody is miles away from us, but we get by

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

There's only one answer and it's a "road trip" or "flight"

However I'd always have a plan b for the trip just incase sexy Sonya is actually big Barry sat in his skid marked y fronts and string vest with food in his beard and a PC screen covered in dried cum from him masturbating over your messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found one with a car, jackpot."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that’s been the case for me. Distance and age has been my enemy.

Nearly 30 though. Whooop

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"There's only one answer and it's a "road trip" or "flight"

What you like

true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your theory is spot on, OP.

(From my hideaway in Timbuktu

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"I think the distance thing can sometimes make it easier to chat. So in knowing your probably not going to meet it's easier to chat. If that makes sense "
Think you may of hit the nail on the head.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Is it me, but the further someone is away from my location the more sexier, nicer and chatty they are.

Wonder if anyone can disprove my theory

The only fact I can add is

Wherever in the world I have been I have seen and met ladies who i have found breathtakingly attractive to me

I could not say there was any linear progression in perceived attractiveness, one regions perceived beauty is rarely more sexy than any other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So true and so annoying...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I love travelling & adventures

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I often wonder why guys from the other end of the country message me in the first place? Seems like a waste of time but I get loads of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of doing a fab week. Hopping from city to city, sightseeing during the day and meeting in the evening. Just have to workout whether to go north or south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to build a Tardis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best ever fab meet was an accident- I typed in a postcode over 2 hours drive and went anyway

Utterly fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we need to travel more

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

"Thinking of doing a fab week. Hopping from city to city, sightseeing during the day and meeting in the evening. Just have to workout whether to go north or south

Who you kidding Rasch - you know you'd be heading to East Anglia before anywhere else!...

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Your theory is sound. I call the fab geography curse. Certainly true in my case! Then again ...I am in self imposed exile

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can’t complain about man in my area but sometimes there is some absolutely excellent man far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u want to meet someone that much.

Get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, have been unable to achieve meets with many a Forumite because of distance mainly, circumstances and work. I prefer local people but unfortunately I am surrounded by numpties

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Yup, have been unable to achieve meets with many a Forumite because of distance mainly, circumstances and work. I prefer local people but unfortunately I am surrounded by numpties

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Oi!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, have been unable to achieve meets with many a Forumite because of distance mainly, circumstances and work. I prefer local people but unfortunately I am surrounded by numpties

Oi!!!!!

She's right then.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nah.... Hidden treasures await discovery both far and near, it just depends on your spirit of adventure

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Yup, have been unable to achieve meets with many a Forumite because of distance mainly, circumstances and work. I prefer local people but unfortunately I am surrounded by numpties

Oi!!!!!

She's right then.

Is there a crylaugh emoji?

There should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. You should all visit Edinburgh

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Bring it on!!!!!!!

I already know I've got a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup, have been unable to achieve meets with many a Forumite because of distance mainly, circumstances and work. I prefer local people but unfortunately I am surrounded by numpties

Oi!!!!!

She's right then.

Is there a crylaugh emoji?

There should be."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yessssss!

There’s one very local guy who fuck, I want so much. But I genuinely think he’s too hot for me, despite him flirting with me

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

There’s definitely a view of the grass is greener....

May have to relocate to Manchester and Scotland - so many great profiles up north

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I don’t find it that much of a problem. I’ve had a guys drive hours for meets with me

If you want the person that badly it will happen.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I just get in the car....

I agree. It is as simple as that.

Although many won't meet people from far away as they claim that there's a level of expectation associated, that makes them feel uncomfortable.

Tea"

For a forumite I am happy to travel a distance with a low expectation. Partly because I just like meeting people I have chatted with. I have been as far north as Liverpool and as far east as Essex on spur of the moment meets, being genuinely single has huge advantages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look at all those lovely Scottish,Welsh and Irish ladies

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Is it me, but the further someone is away from my location the more sexier, nicer and chatty they are.

Wonder if anyone can disprove my theory

This is one of the most compelling posts I've seen; completely agree. In my personal experience there are times when I wished I lived in Cardiff or Bristol....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can make it work if you really want to. Distance is only an issue, if you allow it to be one

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I had to move back to Scotland, to prove the theory

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's why I had to move back to Scotland, to prove the theory

You’re the ultimate example of the theory

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Distance doesn’t bother me. If I get on with someone and the feeling is mutual you work it out. Of course takes time but then that gives you time to get to know them. Make a weekend out of the trip even if it’s not all with them, lots of beautiful places in the Uk to visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is only an issue if you make it. Sometimes it's fun to have a road trip for fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Distance is only an issue if you make it. Sometimes it's fun to have a road trip for fun"

Road trips are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I agree, all the hotties are miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree, all the hotties are miles away

Completely agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I agree, all the hotties are miles away

Completely agree "

You must be hot then lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that that the lady’s from up north are a lore more talkative than the lady’s from London,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I agree, all the hotties are miles away

Completely agree

You must be hot then lol x"

Well think that's a matter of opinion

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By *ottielouWoman
over a year ago

Come and see x

I must agree

But road trips are worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of doing a fab week. Hopping from city to city, sightseeing during the day and meeting in the evening. Just have to workout whether to go north or south

Who you kidding Rasch - you know you'd be heading to East Anglia before anywhere else!..."

East Anglia? Don’t even know where that is. Manchester then up to Glasgow... you know who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, the One I fancy nowadays is Just two miles from here and still he's leaving me hangin

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By *nerealman100Man
over a year ago

innerleithen

Well at least your chatting that's better than nothing, it can be so hard to even do that on here sometimes and if you do really want to meet distance should not be a problem (well as long as your in the same country at least) and maybe you could meet half way in a nice hotel or in a public place for dinner and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, the One I fancy nowadays is Just two miles from here and still he's leaving me hangin

Have you told them?

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By *annyj_1Man
over a year ago

ALFRETON

"I agree. You should all visit Edinburgh"

A fab pilgrimage, now there is a thought.

Who would play the virgin though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, the One I fancy nowadays is Just two miles from here and still he's leaving me hangin

Have you told them? "

Of course we are chatting a lot, so you think I should be more clear cause some people Is actually a Little thick? I Will then, fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular meets so local is better.

I would go out of my way for one or two but it would probably be for a one off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location isn't a problem for me, because I work all over the UK.. But since using this site I've noticed that women don't want to meet a man who isn't a local.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I dont mind travelling especially if I can take in some sights along the way

I have a friend that drove five and a half hours to see me

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