FabSwingers.com forum: Winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x"
I don't mind winks but don't always see them straight away a message is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy, winks do get noticed by me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Occasionally I check them but not often. Only if I've sent one and seeing if they've sent one back usually

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I had a wink from someone this morning that has lead to a conversation starting.

It’s a good start to a Sunday morning.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Don't mind receiving a wink, I treat it as an invite to message them.

Don't send them as most don't check them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are good. Many conversations leading to meets have been had from a simple wink x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We always bulk delete winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use them. The only time I notice is if I'm having a perve and can see they have winked

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look but rarely do anything with them.

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By *tudmcmuffinMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Well since I only get a couple every decade or so, when I get one I get verrry excited

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Winks are good. Many conversations leading to meets have been had from a simple wink x"

I often reply; “Something in your eye?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t check mine. Ever.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

I check mine along with messages, i generally try to reply to both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely check mine...mostly bulk delete

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have never checked mine

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By *eallyTDHMan
over a year ago

London

"Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x"

I would suggest you should do both unless the person your messaging states they don't like/look at winks in their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks...and if we wink back it’s exiting waiting for the message (although doesn’t always happen).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m polite enough to check and respond even if it’s a “sorry not for me” but I can appreciate that some females will receive an absurd amount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get many but it's nice to get one now and then but hay it's a wink lol

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Love getting winks xx

And messages to be fair lol xx

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I rarely get a wink... so it's like Christmas Morning when I do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never understand why people get so precious over winks.

I see them as an ice breaker. You send one, if the person likes the look of your profile they wink back, you follow with a message. Easy!

It’s not being lazy and for some who send endless messages without getting a reply, it’s the less painful option.

If someone specifies they ignore winks then respect that. If not, wink away. It’s a bit of fun!

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love getting winks xx

And messages to be fair lol xx"

Your profile says winks will be deleted

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not precious about winks. But realistically, I get more messages than I can handle, and they get higher priority than a click of a button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love winks, actually prefer them to messages and say this on my profile. If they're geographically feasible and what I like then I'll check out their profile and send a wink back if I'd like to chat! So much quicker and easier than unsolicited messaging

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

I like winks! It mean that someone has taken the time top open my profile.

I did get a wink by an unverified couple the other day which I'm not sure how to interpret.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"I like winks! It mean that someone has taken the time top open my profile.

I did get a wink by an unverified couple the other day which I'm not sure how to interpret."

...whereas if we receive a wink we know they definitely haven't read our profile.

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By *osmicRobMan
over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

...whereas if we receive a wink we know they definitely haven't read our profile."

...in which case winks are quite useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to wink. But will also send a message a while after too. Lexi

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

"I love winks, actually prefer them to messages and say this on my profile. If they're geographically feasible and what I like then I'll check out their profile and send a wink back if I'd like to chat! So much quicker and easier than unsolicited messaging "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks, have often led to meets x

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I like getting winks, even better if they lead to a meet. Would always prefer a message but a wink is a quick way of someone letting me know they are interested which is good.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If I get a wink it's an indicator that someone would like me to message them so I do. Saves me writing lots of messages to people that don't want them. So if I don't get winked (or messaged) I never know, I don't respond the same to fabs. Because fabs are just fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are for lazy people that put no effort in so I blank them x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I love a wink, I check their profiles out. If I like them I wink back if I don’t I just delete. If i see someone I like on the forums I will sometime send a wink, 9 times out of 10 it gets ignored or leads no where. Mr J calls me a serial winker! But then again other times I totally forget to check the winks!

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x"

We tend to look at winks. Sometimes we even wink back if we like what we see.

Mr2

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By *att71Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I look at winks as they can be a good conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do use winks

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Don’t always check mine but I do send a few and they’ve led to some really good times

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