FabSwingers.com forum: Femidoms in profile pics

By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

So, after seeing plenty of women say they'll block a man if his profile pics include penitration photos without him wearing condom. Do people think that this should equally apply to these women if they're not wearing a femidom in their pics.

Just to note - I've yet to see a single one in a pic yet. But equality is equality, no special pleading.

And girls. What about using them for oral too? Wear 3 at once for group fun....

I'm only asking the question, do they shoot the messenger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. This isn't a place for equality, it's a place where people say and do what they want. As long as they respect each other there's no issue.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Did you write that book 'How to make friends and influence people' OP?

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By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

"No. This isn't a place for equality, it's a place where people say and do what they want. As long as they respect each other there's no issue. "

That's equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How the hell do you think your going to see a femidom...do you want a picture with a speculum taken

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By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

"Did you write that book 'How to make friends and influence people' OP?

Don't you mean The Art of the Deal? Lol

Grab em by the pussy!

But seriously, as an egalitarian, I believe we have a duty to all humans to treat everyone equally. Regardless of gender.

And in my opening statement, this is a question that only applies to women who block people for not doing something that they themselves don't do.

That'ssexist and against freedom and is an inequality in itself.

These are just facts so it will be interesting see the perspective of these particular women. It doesn't apply to anybody else, so maybe the professionally offended will start attacking me but I don't care, I'm use to hate speech.

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By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

"How the hell do you think your going to see a femidom...do you want a picture with a speculum taken

It's up to them I guess, they're the ones making the rules they don't follow.

There's always clingfilm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a big chaser this makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a big chaser this makes me happy "

Bug ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But why would you use a femidom if the male partner had a condom on?!...or are you saying you've seen women's profiles who have pictures of bare back sex on them but also state they would block someone for having pictures of bare back sex in them? If so it's not equality you are debating it's hypocrisy.

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By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

"But why would you use a femidom if the male partner had a condom on?!...or are you saying you've seen women's profiles who have pictures of bare back sex on them but also state they would block someone for having pictures of bare back sex in them? If so it's not equality you are debating it's hypocrisy."

Well the hypocrisy turns into an equality issue when the woman making the demands also doesn't make the same demands on other women and just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a woman has nothing biological to insert in to the vaginal canal so wouldn't require a femidom with another woman...

Unless you are referring to a dental dam which can be used during oral sex, but again you are not comparing like for like.

Bare back vaginal/anal sex is a different act to oral sex on a man without a condom. It all comes down to risk generally. It's less risky to perform unprotected oral sex than to have unprotected penetrative sex.

So it's still not about equality, because the two scenarios are not comparable.

Put it this way you are less likely to contract syphilis licking a clit unprotected, you are far more likely to contract syphilis during unprotected vaginal sex with a man.

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By *bwplaydate OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

"But a woman has nothing biological to insert in to the vaginal canal so wouldn't require a femidom with another woman...

Unless you are referring to a dental dam which can be used during oral sex, but again you are not comparing like for like.

So it's still not about equality, because the two scenarios are not comparable.

Put it this way you are less likely to contract syphilis licking a clit unprotected, you are far more likely to contract syphilis during unprotected vaginal sex with a man. "

You'd forgot I did say there's always cling film

And as for oral sex you forgot to mention anal and rimming. Never mind sex toys (another sourced of sti).

And nobody talks about wearing something during intravenous drag use. What about nurses in hospitals who gave to inject people, or doctors etc, they never wear condoms or femidoms.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd you want to apply that standard go ahead. I don't see it catching on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

What does a femidom look like anyway?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What about nurses in hospitals who gave to inject people, or doctors etc, they never wear condoms or femidoms."

They always wear a new pair of latex gloves which is surely the same as a condom

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

They dont put their penis in my mouth or vagina as they inject me

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By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

Just googled femidom there's an article asking whatever happened to them ? Apparently they weren't very popular but there's a couple of sites still selling them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But a woman has nothing biological to insert in to the vaginal canal so wouldn't require a femidom with another woman...

Unless you are referring to a dental dam which can be used during oral sex, but again you are not comparing like for like.

So it's still not about equality, because the two scenarios are not comparable.

Put it this way you are less likely to contract syphilis licking a clit unprotected, you are far more likely to contract syphilis during unprotected vaginal sex with a man.

You'd forgot I did say there's always cling film

And as for oral sex you forgot to mention anal and rimming. Never mind sex toys (another sourced of sti).

And nobody talks about wearing something during intravenous drag use. What about nurses in hospitals who gave to inject people, or doctors etc, they never wear condoms or femidoms."

What a peculiar thing to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, after seeing plenty of women say they'll block a man if his profile pics include penitration photos without him wearing condom. Do people think that this should equally apply to these women if they're not wearing a femidom in their pics.

Just to note - I've yet to see a single one in a pic yet. But equality is equality, no special pleading.

And girls. What about using them for oral too? Wear 3 at once for group fun....

I'm only asking the question, do they shoot the messenger.

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equality doesn't apply here women rule and theirs sod all you can do about it trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if they are a couple there is no need for them to use anything unless they themselves decided to do so.

What I see OP is that you are hell bent on enforcing equality, it is not that at all, it is freedom of choice, if you wish to have sex with condom or go on the pill or use whatever that is your choice If you decide to fuck all on fab without a condom that is also your choice it is freedom of choice not equality, you going to say oi love I am wearing the condom but you need to wear a femidom that makes it equal

or again if you are allergic to condoms they make them to suit all now adays and again it is freedom of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does a femidom look like anyway?"

google it am sure you will find a pic

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"But a woman has nothing biological to insert in to the vaginal canal so wouldn't require a femidom with another woman...

Unless you are referring to a dental dam which can be used during oral sex, but again you are not comparing like for like.

So it's still not about equality, because the two scenarios are not comparable.

Put it this way you are less likely to contract syphilis licking a clit unprotected, you are far more likely to contract syphilis during unprotected vaginal sex with a man.

You'd forgot I did say there's always cling film

And as for oral sex you forgot to mention anal and rimming. Never mind sex toys (another sourced of sti).

And nobody talks about wearing something during intravenous drag use. What about nurses in hospitals who gave to inject people, or doctors etc, they never wear condoms or femidoms.

What a peculiar thing to say "

Totally bizarre!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. This isn't a place for equality, it's a place where people say and do what they want. As long as they respect each other there's no issue. "

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By *bcums3Couple
over a year ago

lanarkshire

"How the hell do you think your going to see a femidom...do you want a picture with a speculum taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How the hell do you think your going to see a femidom...do you want a picture with a speculum taken

Hey with some of the sights on my news feed there was no need for a speculum

cervix or prolapse for lunch any one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But a woman has nothing biological to insert in to the vaginal canal so wouldn't require a femidom with another woman...

Unless you are referring to a dental dam which can be used during oral sex, but again you are not comparing like for like.

So it's still not about equality, because the two scenarios are not comparable.

Put it this way you are less likely to contract syphilis licking a clit unprotected, you are far more likely to contract syphilis during unprotected vaginal sex with a man.

You'd forgot I did say there's always cling film

And as for oral sex you forgot to mention anal and rimming. Never mind sex toys (another sourced of sti).

And nobody talks about wearing something during intravenous drag use. What about nurses in hospitals who gave to inject people, or doctors etc, they never wear condoms or femidoms."

Why on earth would a doctor or nurse need to be wearing a condom or a femidom when they're giving me injections?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What does a femidom look like anyway?"

Like a bin bag.

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