FabSwingers.com forum: Confused by profiles

By *hongman1 OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Ok, so I keep coming across profiles of ladies or couples, I ALWAYS check who they are looking for,m (sex and age) before reading the profile.

What I do keep seeing, which is confusing me, is women/couples that say, for example, looking for “men, women, couples” so all ticked on the profile, but then says “not looking for single men” so I can message or wink.

Surely makes no sense? You can’t not be looking for single men but tick “men” lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It simply means they've blocked single men from making contact. So they choose the men for themselves and contact them.

Maybe they've been inundated with messages from guys in the past.

By *hongman1 OP Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

"It simply means they've blocked single men from making contact. So they choose the men for themselves and contact them.

Maybe they've been inundated with messages from guys in the past."

Ahhhh makes a bit of sense! So interested in men, but they want to be the ones to make the the contact!

I sometimes wonder why my brain doesn’t work lol