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why are people on here a year not met anybody

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By *haynebabe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"

may be they very very choosy lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Maybe they dont use the site regularly

Maybe they are limited when they can meet

Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet

All kinds of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they just aren't ready yet

there is no rush is there surely everyone can take it at their own pace

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By *haynebabe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

that right we have notice there is a lot of people on here who are choose who they meet but we believe in giving everyone a chance

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

maybe they have but not been verified

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Maybe they dont use the site regularly

Maybe they are limited when they can meet

Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet

All kinds of reasons"

Maybe they are building up the courage

Maybe they just want to cam

Maybe they have met

Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account

Who knows...its none of my buisness

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"maybe they just aren't ready yet

there is no rush is there surely everyone can take it at their own pace"

FAB new hair btw!!!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't put verifications on as it's my business who I have met so it may look like that, having been on over a year, that I haven't met anyone.

Some people like to let the world know who they have met and some of us like more discretion

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Maybe they dont use the site regularly

Maybe they are limited when they can meet

Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet

All kinds of reasons

Maybe they are building up the courage

Maybe they just want to cam

Maybe they have met

Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account

Who knows...its none of my buisness"

or.....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,

or....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,

or perhaps....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe just here looking at pics xx

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"maybe just here looking at pics xx"

You judging from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe just here looking at pics xx

You judging from experience "
some do i am sure just look and dream ... ok wank , lol

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"maybe just here looking at pics xx

You judging from experience some do i am sure just look and dream ... ok wank , lol "

Some don't look and still wank lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"

There are a lot of things people do on here which I don't understand, like:

*Being asked if you are up for a 3some tonight, replying it might be possible to arrange it for another night and then being blocked.

*Being asked if you will accept a friends request, replying yes but after a chat only to find you are blocked.

*Being blocked for typing too short a reply to a short message.

*People who start a new account every day.... for an hour max.

*People who start a new account just to send you the same cut and paste you ignored 3 days before.

*People who join a swinging site yet think swinging is wrong.

*People who are tripping over themselves to start a couples account with damn near anyone who asks.

But your question isn't one of the ones I wonder about.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

Lots of people are fantasist thy get off on having a profile and having loads of pics but arn't actually swingers...it's also the same with clubs now it's become trendy and loads go just to pose all night but never swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in the rules you have to meet people from here then?

True, it's pretty pointless but its not a prerequisite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been on here years and haven't arranged any meets on here.

We have met quite a few people from the site on our travels and have had some good times.

I suppose for us, it's about getting out there and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here four months and not met anyone.

Its not for the want of trying.

Maybe I'm just ugly

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Why not? I'm only here for spelling and gramma lessons.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you


"

Why not? I'm only here for spelling and gramma lessons.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they dont use the site regularly

Maybe they are limited when they can meet

Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet

All kinds of reasons"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe just here looking at pics xx

You judging from experience some do i am sure just look and dream ... ok wank , lol

Some don't look and still wank lol"
i know but some take months and then one day think about having sex , lol

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

how do you know they haven't met anybody ?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Maybe they dont use the site regularly

Maybe they are limited when they can meet

Maybe they havet found someone they want to play with yet

All kinds of reasons

Maybe they are building up the courage

Maybe they just want to cam

Maybe they have met

Maybe they joined and decided it wasnt for thm but have not deleted the account

Who knows...its none of my buisness

or.....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,

or....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl,

or perhaps....

Maybe they are a single male pretending to be a single fem or a cpl "

which is obvious when u try to call them, its not exactly the biggest problem going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't met anyone yet because

we haven't had that much luck, found a lot of timewasters who start getting to know us but then disappear.

From what others have said, we are verified but as we dont get much time together and 90% of time we are at Rachies (no privacy) bit hard to pop on cam.

Plus not done much recently due to health issues and waiting for results on 18th.

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By *fun.4.youMan
over a year ago

London


"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"

Your writing skills and ability to string together anything that resembles a sentence are both impeccable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had been around the block a few times, been and gone etc. Verifications no longer mean a lot. Friends list, I know who they are, no need for a list.

Nice profile, Nice pic, nice location, respectful = meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hard finding what im after

no rush tho

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"

Why not? I'm only here for spelling and gramma lessons.

"

I'm wiv im!

Pmsl!

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Well who would want to go to bed with a bloke who catches crab for a living.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.

Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.

Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets."

Very slow to respond to messages??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can pull in the "real world" you'll pull on here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.

Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets."

this is exactly how it is, if you have a good sexy open profile and come accross well and contact the right people you should still get a meet fast.

i got sorted on my first week, and always get told how im different from most the people that message them

its always funny when i get other couples show me the messages they get, ive been sat round one couples house who wanted to sort a gang bang out for his mrs, took a week and were still looking on the night when i turned up as the only single guy,

and every bloke that messaged ruined it for them within a few messages or as soon as they got the phone number - making all sorts of demands or assumptions etc. was quite funny coz they would of took anyone normal to come down but guys were insisting his mrs did all sorts of things, got dressed in all sorts of dirty clothes or they wouldnt come! wanted her hubby to just watch, making demands of stuff they going to do her, was funny how rude and arrogant some of them were

when all they wanted was a few normal single guys to come over, have a chat and a drink and then get down to some naughty fun at the end of the night. and i think his mrs went upstairs and made sure she got dressed up to the max just coz they insisted so she knocked them back and did it anyways to proove a point i think haha

was a fun night,

but yeah too many guys i think ruin it with either their messages or just have a profile which could be anyone! and people arnt looking for just anyone they want the best times they can have on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friend of ours (a single male) joined the site after we introduced him to it, within 2 weeks he had a meet, within a month he had met another woman who he is frequently seeing.

Maybe it comes down to how a person converses and acts in initial messaging and meets.

Very slow to respond to messages?? "

Sorry, don't understand that reply.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Suppose some of it is down to luck. It was months before I had a meet, that's how it goes though, no problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Suppose some of it is down to luck. It was months before I had a meet, that's how it goes though, no problem!"

you only have your cock on display mate, i never read your profile, but i can imagine thats the reason why you took so long to get a meet - people wanna see whats attached to it (and they dont mean that lady and her lips lol!)

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley


" Suppose some of it is down to luck. It was months before I had a meet, that's how it goes though, no problem!

you only have your cock on display mate, i never read your profile, but i can imagine thats the reason why you took so long to get a meet - people wanna see whats attached to it (and they dont mean that lady and her lips lol!)"

Fair comment mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they have had meets and verifications but they have since left ? The verification disappears with them.

Ive had three of my verifications disappear with people leaving. People move on or get pissed off with this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why are people on here a year and not met nobody we are sure that everybody has a chance on here we do write email to people on here who aint met nobody but notice half of them just read them and not reply back why is that"

Well, for me it's simply that this is my second profile, my first was as part of a couple and from that we did meet, I stuck around for the forums, not particularly looking for a meet, but hey I'm open to suggestions

Also, let me add, a profile not verified doesn't always mean no meets have been had, some just like to keep things a little more discreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that right we have notice there is a lot of people on here who are choose who they meet but we believe in giving everyone a chance "

Everyone???

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

There really is someone for everyone

Standard disclaimer applies. (Think i'll get it tattoed on my forehead, and a fringe at the same time.)

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