FabSwingers.com forum: Man of 60 girl of 20. General opinions?

By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Curious to hear opinions on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 22 and my grandad turns 60 this year. So I wouldn’t go there.

However; if it’s just for sex? If both parties are happy, why not.

Relationship wise? I’d be wary, but again; if both parties are happy, crack on.

But even that’s too much of a gap for me I think. (Unless you’re Pierce Brosnon)

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you for your points.. appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are your feelings on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two consenting adults.

Whatever innit.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm very accepting generally.. I feel if the two people are happy then why not. Example.. I know a guy of 72 his girlfriend is 26. Blissfully happy and great company.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Very happy for you both

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It only really matters what the two people involved think. When my daughter is 20 would I want her to be in a relationship with a 60 year old man? No, i wouldn't.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

That is the issue I think. Society I wonder would in the main condemn such a relationship? I'm just trying to get a general idea of views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about life experience I personally would never have that kind of a gap not even just for sex let alone a relationship but each to their own but 2 generations apart is just too much I think especially the gulf in life experience

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Has pitfalls I agree

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

norwich

"That is the issue I think. Society I wonder would in the main condemn such a relationship? I'm just trying to get a general idea of views"

So you've answered your own question. Society will have its general opinion which is one of disapproval. And individuals will have there own opinions. Most will say it's ok...unless it's my family etc. Not sure point of this post tbh.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Been there done that but she was 21 and it didn't last thst long and I was aware of that but bloody good all the same. We still friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "
Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

But its 40 years, not 15 or 20

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Dont agree with it...alot of 20yr olds a very immature these days. Not sure they are mentally mature enough to deal with such a situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

But its 40 years, not 15 or 20"
yes I noticed no comment lol

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thanks all. How do I close this. Never used forum before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Depends on how long they've been together.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Thanks all. How do I close this. Never used forum before"

Just let it run ... it will find its own closure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

No i have children older ,but thats me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people get so hung up on age? It's a number for heavens sake!!

Surely if two people like/want each other, what the hell does a number matter?

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Thanks all. How do I close this. Never used forum before"

Why do you want to close it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its casual ok if for a relationship then no not really a good idea.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If its casual ok if for a relationship then no not really a good idea. "

He's goat a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

#LAD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its casual ok if for a relationship then no not really a good idea.

He's goat a point"
angora?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Some ladies have 18-99 in their age range, so there's hope for me yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If its casual ok if for a relationship then no not really a good idea. "

Why? It's a number? Surely how the two people feel is more important than 'the norm'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all. How do I close this. Never used forum before

Why do you want to close it?"
draft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will call you a dirty old man.

To which there should only be one reply.

Thank you!

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Lucky man

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

Being rich doesn't actually make you more attractive. The attraction is money not looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is soo short. Consenting adults? Go be happy. Live laugh love!

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By *tewartfoilMan
over a year ago

Waterford

Very tru life

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Life is soo short. Consenting adults? Go be happy. Live laugh love!"

A lot shorter for one half lol

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

Being rich doesn't actually make you more attractive. The attraction is money not looks"

No shit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't catch the bus anywhere OP because if you're late and you have to run for it you'll be travelling on your own.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

Just the thought makes me wanna vom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

Just the thought makes me wanna vom. "

Of me finding men attractive, or me not fucking ‘em?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

So what is acceptable as an age difference

Asking for a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Two years either way, maximum

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

Just the thought makes me wanna vom.

Of me finding men attractive, or me not fucking ‘em?"

No of me playing with someone with that age gap - mid 80's. Tho this is where people will jump up and call me ageist....er yeh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

Just the thought makes me wanna vom.

Of me finding men attractive, or me not fucking ‘em?

No of me playing with someone with that age gap - mid 80's. Tho this is where people will jump up and call me ageist....er yeh."

Oh I’ve had plenty of abuse for it! I had a whole thread go off topic and just attack me because I said I wouldn’t fuck someone so old

Guess I just need to lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see an issue with it, unless it was jealousy

I personally, get on better with those older than myself. I always end up falling madly in love with them also.

I feel that I have more connection.

No jokes about Oedipus please. It has absolutely nothing to do with that. F you Freud!

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We would much prefer ppl our own age is don't think we'd find many ppl over 60 sexually attractive.or have much in common.

A 20 year d we wouldn't meet either,we feel abit to old for that and again not much in common.

But if you're in a club and you find someone attractive do you stop and ask how old they are if your already liking the look of them

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age difference is on no consequence in my opinion, providing are both consenting adults and enjoy sex, they should go for it - I would in a flash - in my view I think you should meet up socially first, then re arrange for sex meet afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're happy, who cares?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't feel comfortable with that gap for reasons others have stated, its grandparent and grandchild age gap

But if the parties involved are happy with it then thats all that matters surely

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

What about a 60 Yr old woman and a 20 Yr old man?

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

60 can and cant be old . 20 can be very mature and very immature

Depends on the people

Both consenting

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

I’ve been attracted to men in their sixties! Still wouldn’t do it though

Just the thought makes me wanna vom.

Of me finding men attractive, or me not fucking ‘em?

No of me playing with someone with that age gap - mid 80's. Tho this is where people will jump up and call me ageist....er yeh.

Oh I’ve had plenty of abuse for it! I had a whole thread go off topic and just attack me because I said I wouldn’t fuck someone so old

Guess I just need to lie

I'm certainly with you on that one. The things people say on here versus the reality is mind blowing at time. I swear some forum posters are in a competition to see who can be crowned PC Queen/King. Say it how it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Get in there!

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thanks for all your comments. It's an eye opener. I'm new to fab and exploring. I have been approached by various ages so out of curiosity I posted my question. To be fair it seems evenly divided so in an ideal world if I met someone considerably younger I'd plump to meet all those in favour I think. Never say never is my motto.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

"I'm very accepting generally.. I feel if the two people are happy then why not. Example.. I know a guy of 72 his girlfriend is 26. Blissfully happy and great company. "

Can you get me Ronnie's autograph? Mick and Keefs would be cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best relationship I ever had was with a woman 40 years plus older than me

I see no issue as long as both consenting adults

Something hot about big age gap relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a lengthy relationship with a girl 18 years my junior a good few years ago, we're still friends now.

Was great at the time but just naturally fizzed out, we both enjoyed similar things and we both kept up with each other... Was great it's all in the individuals, sod what anyone else thinks, most are jealous of older bloke younger girl... Just saying.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What i think people should do is kèep their noses out of other peoples relationships and concentrate on their own

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It may not be easy and probably wouldn't work for most people, potentially why it isn't more common. We're all different though, as are relationships. Even if they marry, it's reversible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Lucky guy, love to know his secret!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 17 I had a fling with a married 36 year old woman although thinking back I think maybe she had a fling with me!!!

It was a great time, live and let live I say x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Does she have direct access to his finances?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Just don't catch the bus anywhere OP because if you're late and you have to run for it you'll be travelling on your own."

That was so prophetic ...... and the visions it conjured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "
GEW ON MY SAN!,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Slightly bigger age difference than between my husband and me. But only just

If you're both happy go for it

Mrs

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

This.

Maybe some people can see past look's and find someone attractive for who they are rather than how they look or how old they are.

Just saying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

This.

Maybe some people can see past look's and find someone attractive for who they are rather than how they look or how old they are.

Just saying!"

Some can. Some can't.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just do it but be prepared for it to last for ever and be equally as prepared for it to end tomorrow.

Live for the moment....... do it. Just live. F'knell.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

One thing I did notice.....

You call yourself a man but you call her a girl ...

What does that tell you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lad a few years ago now who was in his early 20's

I was say in the region of say 40-42 at the time

His age limit was set at 35-75

We met 3 or 4 times, so one time I asked him if he would really meet a 75 year old

It was a categoric YES -in my early 40's, I was really a 'bit too young' for him

So, it is a thing

It is, however, a niche to say the least

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

This.

Maybe some people can see past look's and find someone attractive for who they are rather than how they look or how old they are.

Just saying!"
Thankfully im one of those people otherwise i wouldnt have met the love of my life and be blissfully happy for the last 13 years. Weve never had one negative thing said to us. My friends and family never said a word. Strangers might say stuff behind our backs but thats no concern of ours. Im 54 and hes 76 so definetly an old man

but i couldnt careless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing I did notice.....

You call yourself a man but you call her a girl ...

What does that tell you ?"
not a lot lol

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Just feels wrong on so many levels. Why would a 20 year old woman find a 60 year old attractive? Unless he was very very rich

This.

Maybe some people can see past look's and find someone attractive for who they are rather than how they look or how old they are.

Just saying!Thankfully im one of those people otherwise i wouldnt have met the love of my life and be blissfully happy for the last 13 years. Weve never had one negative thing said to us. My friends and family never said a word. Strangers might say stuff behind our backs but thats no concern of ours. Im 54 and hes 76 so definetly an old man

but i couldnt careless"

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you diamond for your perspective.. its appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Both consenting adults, no problem.

Some will disagree but that’s their problem/opinion not yours.

Hope your both happy.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

It doesn’t matter at all to me it’s all about the person, why limit yourself to what society dictates what’s acceptable

As long as you are happy in your relationship that’s all that matters in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would find it difficult to find common ground with someone that much older than myself, and it really depends what expectations you would both have from the relationship. However, if both parties are happy then crack on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As someone said further up if it was my daughter who was the 20 year old or a friend or relative was the 60 year old I would be concerned for a few reasons. However relationships between people of similar ages can cause concerns and life is very short, give and take love where you can I say.

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By *attooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Wouldn’t even bat an eyelid.

I got over the age gap thing about 10 years ago when I started hanging out with a couple who were 20 years apart. It’s very easy to judge and “be concerned” but all you’re doing is assuming a stereotype.

Leave them to it I say

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wouldn’t even bat an eyelid.

Leave them to it I say

My friend's husband was considerably older than her. Concerns were that she would eventually leave him for a younger man. He actually left her for a much younger woman, almost 50 years younger than him in fact, my friend was devastated.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can i just give some benefits of being with an older guy. Or shall i say the benefits for the 20 year old and 60 year old. It would definetly have different dynamics than a same age relationship

He is more likely to be financially secure(morgage paid no young children). He can nurture her and build her confidence as a woman having much more life experience. Be able to mentor her and teach her things about life. Would probably encourage her to also be independant not on him. I know nothing about this couple but there are some of the benefits i can see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two consenting adults.

Whatever innit. "

This

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Thank you all for your comments. You are all intelligent people and have worked out it's me I'm talking about here. The situation I outline is a very real position. I have met someone very special of 20 yrs old. This is a spiritual coming together as well as physical. The cynics of course would say I'm too old for such a venture but as some have pointed out it's not age that counts its character. I fully intend to follow the course ive been set. But a hearty thanks to those who have endorsed the situation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thank you all for your comments. You are all intelligent people and have worked out it's me I'm talking about here. The situation I outline is a very real position. I have met someone very special of 20 yrs old. This is a spiritual coming together as well as physical. The cynics of course would say I'm too old for such a venture but as some have pointed out it's not age that counts its character. I fully intend to follow the course ive been set. But a hearty thanks to those who have endorsed the situation. "
well good luck to you and hope it works out for you.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Many thanks

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By *etAnotherDomMan
over a year ago

london

"60 can and cant be old . 20 can be very mature and very immature

Depends on the people

Both consenting "

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

20 year old woman and you live in Isla Plana?

Fancy a life swap

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

My honest opinion would be I would think they are in it for financial gain

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

Well I definitely don’t act my age - whether I look it probably depends how much sleep I had the night before!

I’m rarely attracted to guys my own age - but whilst society seems to have no issues with relationships where the guy is 10- 20 years older - it appears to be far less accepting when the woman is older!

But of a bugger when you’ve little in common with most chaps your own age!

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

Well I definitely don’t act my age - whether I look it probably depends how much sleep I had the night before!

But of a bugger when you’ve little in common with most chaps your own age!

Best Fab profile ever btw. If you ever change your preference from good looking, local young men to short,fat, ugly ones who live miles away, I'm yer man!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

Well I definitely don’t act my age - whether I look it probably depends how much sleep I had the night before!

But of a bugger when you’ve little in common with most chaps your own age!

"
why the hell would you bother what society thinks?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

Well I definitely don’t act my age - whether I look it probably depends how much sleep I had the night before!

But of a bugger when you’ve little in common with most chaps your own age!

Best Fab profile ever btw. If you ever change your preference from good looking, local young men to short,fat, ugly ones who live miles away, I'm yer man!"

Aw thanks lovely! Most kind!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. Depends how it's formed and why but I don't really see 15/20 years as a barrier, some just don't look or act their age

Well I definitely don’t act my age - whether I look it probably depends how much sleep I had the night before!

But of a bugger when you’ve little in common with most chaps your own age!

why the hell would you bother what society thinks?"

I don’t - but I’d bother what my own family/friends etc think! I’ve not tested it yet - but I have a feeling they’d expect me to have a relationship with a guy pretty much my own age - if I ever have another relationship! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you met her in real life or only chatted online?

I always assume there's some dark reason for the younger person to want an older one. Most of the time it's true.

I also know a few relationships with a 20 year age gap where they do love each other and age means nothing.

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. However sometimes friends warn people of issues that are true. The older person thinks everyone is jealous, but later finds out the truth. Have fun in the meantime and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun whilst you can, Your a long time dead ??

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

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"Curious to hear opinions on this subject. "

Who are we to judge?

As long as it is a consentual relationship, nobody else's opinion matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what sort of relationship you have in mind OP?

I suppose many of us would be suspicious about a partner type relationship questioning what each party is getting from the relationship? But each couple has to decide for themselves.

Just sex ... probably just a preference or experimentation.

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