FabSwingers.com forum: Other half giving hints.

By *scar3 OP Man
over a year ago

navan

In the last while my other half is giving hints about her having sex with other men and me watching on. Usually mentioned when a few drinks on board and in the bedroom. Though never the next day. I wouldn't mind but if rather be with a couple to be honest. Should I push her on the topic or just let it go. Any advice.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why not bring the subject up the next day? No pushing from either side and if you decide to take things further as a couple then's the time to discuss if and how you're going to meet.

By *scar3 OP Man
over a year ago

navan

Thanks for the advice. The only thing is she is very jealous normally even if I only looked at another woman.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm assuming she doesn't know you're on here?

To me there's a bit of an issue in that you don't want her to have other men but you're here looking for women?

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for the advice. The only thing is she is very jealous normally even if I only looked at another woman."

That's why you need open and frank discussion between the two of you. Lots of men ask for advice like this and there genuinely is only one way forward. I think a lot of guys are hoping for a special combination of words that will make their partner think it is all her idea. I'm afraid that's not going to happen. It's a case of screw up your courage and talk or live the rest of your time together wondering what if.

By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"In the last while my other half is giving hints about her having sex with other men and me watching on. Usually mentioned when a few drinks on board and in the bedroom. Though never the next day. I wouldn't mind but if rather be with a couple to be honest. Should I push her on the topic or just let it go. Any advice.

None you want to hear

I do hope she has a profile here and is having the gang bangs she dreams of tho, she might actually meet a man who talks to her about her fantasies too

Ms Icebreaker