FabSwingers.com forum: They Wink You Then Ignore Messsge

By *woMates OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Maldon

OK, folks. What is this all about? We get a wink from a couple and we message them back saying thanks and hope this leads to a meeting. Then what happens, we get nothing back, message read but no response. So what is the "wink" all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they didn’t mean it

Maybe they winked then realised you weren’t what they wanted

Who knows

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Maybe they thought they might have been interested but your message changed their mind.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Maybe one winked you, then the other one wasn't so keen

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By *woMates OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Maldon

Good point but then do people not read your profile first?

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Good point but then do people not read your profile first?"

Hit and miss, some do, some are chancers and like the pics

Jo x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Good point but then do people not read your profile first?"

No.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have accidentally wink at many profiles on here, need an confirm button on the full site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend invite from a couple, i looked at their profile and quite liked what i saw so i messaged them, a polite and respectful message i have to say. Didnt hear anything back then got blocked.

No skin of my nose but why waste my time?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Maybe the wink means something short of them wanting to meet you. Maybe they saw something in your profile they liked like photos or comments they liked, but that's all. Jumping to "I hope we get to meet you" could be way further down the road than anything they had in mind.

Have you ever complimented somebody and that was it? Would it always mean you wanted to go and hang out with somebody?

Winks are vague and mean different things to different people. I would guess in this case it simply meant something different to them to what you hoped.

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By *woMates OP Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Maldon

Thanks for responses, folks. Looks like our expectations need to be adjusted.

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