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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

Everyone signs up for different reasons.

Some to meet, some to chat, some to quell the boredom

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I signed up for the free pen and the vouchers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Vouchers???? Hah

It’s like the word games in here. All good etc.. but it’s a bit far from the mark.

I’m not putting people down.. It just amuses me.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I signed up for the free pen and the vouchers"

When do you get that offer?

People use fab for all kinds of reasons,how will they get to know people unless they chat ?.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I signed up for the free pen and the vouchers

When do you get that offer?

People use fab for all kinds of reasons,how will they get to know people unless they chat ?."

New customers only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a time filler for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vouchers???? Hah

It’s like the word games in here. All good etc.. but it’s a bit far from the mark.

I’m not putting people down.. It just amuses me. "

What amuses ya? That folk are maybe on for different reasons than you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess curiosity got the better of me. Had to find out what it's all about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place."
why did we sign up here?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I signed up for the free pen and the vouchers"

Damn. I must have joined too late for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are here for different reasons.

Some people are mainly here to chat, use the forums.

Some to look at photos.

Some just for the social side.

Some for chat rooms.

Some to meet strangers for one off sex.

Some are here for long lasting relationships.

Some are here just to see what it's all about.

Some are here for a mix of all of the above.

So my point is we all use the site as we see fit and to meet our own needs.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Don't diss the word games!

It's a lovely oasis of calm in that corner of Fab!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I meet when I can. I chat here when I can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place."

Should everyone be fucking all the time, non stop ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't diss the word games!

It's a lovely oasis of calm in that corner of Fab! "
which corner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place.

Should everyone be fucking all the time, non stop ? "

Not if they are threading needles or writing letters.... maybe not then. Other than that......

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By *he SurveyorMan
over a year ago

Bury

It’s the initiation ceremony that’s the best bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place.

Should everyone be fucking all the time, non stop ? "

That would be so boring!!

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick


"I signed up for the free pen and the vouchers"

Free pen dam how lmiss that offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are here for different reasons.

Some people are mainly here to chat, use the forums.

Some to look at photos.

Some just for the social side.

Some for chat rooms.

Some to meet strangers for one off sex.

Some are here for long lasting relationships.

Some are here just to see what it's all about.

Some are here for a mix of all of the above.

So my point is we all use the site as we see fit and to meet our own needs. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its just that a post on types of cheese fest over 100 comments. I take all your comments onboard. But that’s it.. the time inbetween.. people feel they need to fill the void here also...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me. "

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting. "

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

A fair amount of the time I'm here to grab a bit of entertainment on the odd 10 mins here and there. Definitely the scope of my being here has change over the years on FAB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it? "

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place."

What makes you think you know what they signed up for and that it's now different?

Do you think they signed up to meet people, and by not doing so in the timescale you have decided on, that they are now using the site differently from their original intentions?

Is it possible that they may have signed up to meet people but do far haven't found people they want to meet?

There are some huge assumptions behind your question and I'd love to know how you got to them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A fair amount of the time I'm here to grab a bit of entertainment on the odd 10 mins here and there. Definitely the scope of my being here has change over the years on FAB. "

Would you say that the lusty fun has died out.. and it’s now more a chore sometimes? Maybe even an addiction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it? "

Yes this.

Its about the scene and community for me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me"

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A fair amount of the time I'm here to grab a bit of entertainment on the odd 10 mins here and there. Definitely the scope of my being here has change over the years on FAB.

Would you say that the lusty fun has died out.. and it’s now more a chore sometimes? Maybe even an addiction?"

Never, going by my last two dates it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me. "

I wouldn't mind trying to help you find that partner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume. "

Swinging doesn’t baffle me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passes the time before I die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

Swinging doesn’t baffle me.. "

Glad you are embracing it now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

Swinging doesn’t baffle me..

Glad you are embracing it now. "

I could tell you what does baffle me.. just over dm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

Swinging doesn’t baffle me..

Glad you are embracing it now.

I could tell you what does baffle me.. just over dm"
Dr Martins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

Swinging doesn’t baffle me..

Glad you are embracing it now.

I could tell you what does baffle me.. just over dmDr Martins?"

I love Dr Martens, my fav boots at the mo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I came here to see if I could find a swinging partner as I had already been in the scene on other sites for a few years before fab. Until I find that person, the forums entertain me.

That’s it.. it’s turned into entertainment without necessarily meaning to. I find that interesting.

It’s always been that way regardless of which site o use. I like the community feel and making friends in the scene. It’s not all about sex, hence going to social events. What don’t you get about it?

I think I get it now. Just surprised me

If I remember correctly, swinging baffles you. I hope you are slowly learning that there are no rules. I was even on chihuahua groups on Facebook and the subjects we chatted about were pretty much like fab forums. Same with music groups I’ve been on. Next assume.

Swinging doesn’t baffle me..

Glad you are embracing it now.

I could tell you what does baffle me.. just over dmDr Martins?"

No Gerry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should create a fab janglers forum

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have been here on this site for 10 years and in those years it has changed dramatically and not for the better I may add!

The more social media is involved or evolved I find most men don't have a clue how to speak to women at all!

They all think a 'hi, how r u?' messages is acceptable, with a blank profile ore 'here for fun' and a cock pic, yet feel defeated after less than a day, FFS men get a grip, and use your brain for once, that is what 'most' women bloody respond to! And why 'most' men fail, they think this site is full of free escorts they can pick and choose from like the Argos catalogue and are vastly let down with constant deletes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here on this site for 10 years and in those years it has changed dramatically and not for the better I may add!

The more social media is involved or evolved I find most men don't have a clue how to speak to women at all!

They all think a 'hi, how r u?' messages is acceptable, with a blank profile ore 'here for fun' and a cock pic, yet feel defeated after less than a day, FFS men get a grip, and use your brain for once, that is what 'most' women bloody respond to! And why 'most' men fail, they think this site is full of free escorts they can pick and choose from like the Argos catalogue and are vastly let down with constant deletes

"

Wow, that’s not like you to be moaning about men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet it really was fab back in the beginning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet it really was fab back in the beginning. "

No it was the same, except it was in black and white.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have been here on this site for 10 years and in those years it has changed dramatically and not for the better I may add!

The more social media is involved or evolved I find most men don't have a clue how to speak to women at all!

They all think a 'hi, how r u?' messages is acceptable, with a blank profile ore 'here for fun' and a cock pic, yet feel defeated after less than a day, FFS men get a grip, and use your brain for once, that is what 'most' women bloody respond to! And why 'most' men fail, they think this site is full of free escorts they can pick and choose from like the Argos catalogue and are vastly let down with constant deletes

Wow, that’s not like you to be moaning about men!"

And it's not like you to be finding my infrequent posts and quoting them is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been here on this site for 10 years and in those years it has changed dramatically and not for the better I may add!

The more social media is involved or evolved I find most men don't have a clue how to speak to women at all!

They all think a 'hi, how r u?' messages is acceptable, with a blank profile ore 'here for fun' and a cock pic, yet feel defeated after less than a day, FFS men get a grip, and use your brain for once, that is what 'most' women bloody respond to! And why 'most' men fail, they think this site is full of free escorts they can pick and choose from like the Argos catalogue and are vastly let down with constant deletes

Wow, that’s not like you to be moaning about men!

And it's not like you to be finding my infrequent posts and quoting them is it? "

Well, you’re such a little ray of sunshine, you’re like a summer breeze through a meadow.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"A fair amount of the time I'm here to grab a bit of entertainment on the odd 10 mins here and there. Definitely the scope of my being here has change over the years on FAB.

Would you say that the lusty fun has died out.. and it’s now more a chore sometimes? Maybe even an addiction?"

No more my focus has changed since I've met my partner on here. More in it for the chat, perving (lots of perving), keeping in touch with my fab freinds, keeping up with the scene and sourcing new events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place."

I joined here for sex simple as that really, not bored got women's footie on

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I signed up through boredom & the want to chat, same reason I go to clubs, the sex is a bonus

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I joined for the free cut glass wine glass.

Seriously, I joined years ago. And sadly the world of online swinging sites has deteriorated... Mostly due to utterly clueless men.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have been here on this site for 10 years and in those years it has changed dramatically and not for the better I may add!

The more social media is involved or evolved I find most men don't have a clue how to speak to women at all!

They all think a 'hi, how r u?' messages is acceptable, with a blank profile ore 'here for fun' and a cock pic, yet feel defeated after less than a day, FFS men get a grip, and use your brain for once, that is what 'most' women bloody respond to! And why 'most' men fail, they think this site is full of free escorts they can pick and choose from like the Argos catalogue and are vastly let down with constant deletes

Wow, that’s not like you to be moaning about men!

And it's not like you to be finding my infrequent posts and quoting them is it?

Well, you’re such a little ray of sunshine, you’re like a summer breeze through a meadow."

Well I do try and educate the men along my way, just a shame they don't bother to take the hints and tips! That a hell of a lot of women have paved the path for them, they just choose to think they know best, do you barrage the men asking for advise daily about profile help? I don't believe I have seen you answer one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only here for the banter, is that wrong? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im only here for the banter, is that wrong? X"

Not wrong.. but I don’t understand it. Are you that bored without fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pop into the forums and keep in touch with a few select people. I make it clear in my profile I'm not meeting so I don't see why anyone should have issue with that.

It can be used in whatever way people want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im only here for the banter, is that wrong? X

Not wrong.. but I don’t understand it. Are you that bored without fabs?"

No but its the only place I can chat all night lol

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed


"People are here for different reasons.

Some people are mainly here to chat, use the forums.

Some to look at photos.

Some just for the social side.

Some for chat rooms.

Some to meet strangers for one off sex.

Some are here for long lasting relationships.

Some are here just to see what it's all about.

Some are here for a mix of all of the above.

So my point is we all use the site as we see fit and to meet our own needs. "

Hear Hear

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

The love honey discount certainly helps

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

What's wrong with being here for just the banter. There's lots of reasons people don't/ can't meet. It's good to talk and and listen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this because I'm bored and I like a chat. I haven't got much hopes of meeting anyone anymore.

Not a lady who is my type anyway.

So for me it's more of a way to pass time when I have nobody to chat with on my work travels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a partner at home, I definitely wouldn’t be on here as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the site to chat, have a laugh in the forum and if anything develops then great.

Am I committed to the lifestyle, no. Do I think that matters? No. As long as you are being respectful and genuine I don't see any issue how you use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people are just bored and here to chat? It’s almost as if people forgot why the signed up here in the first place."

Bit of both is healthy I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get bored ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined for nookie. I soon realised its not as easy as just sending a couple of messages, thank God for the forums and socials or I might have given up on the site by now.

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

I like a good chat and flirt helps the day go by ha

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

You don’t have to be bored to be here just to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don’t have to be bored to be here just to chat "
chat to me then, nice avatar

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Its just that a post on types of cheese fest over 100 comments. I take all your comments onboard. But that’s it.. the time inbetween.. people feel they need to fill the void here also... "

That’s the Lounge, posts from naughty to silly to probing questions - the home of where anything goes

You may think it’s mundane or daft but for me it’s the best way of deciding whether I like someone as you can get to see some of their character, rather than picking who to talk to from a photo which is not my thing at all.

Ps thanks for telling me all about the existence of the forums, I’m having a blast !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep just passing time

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed up to fuck... I get the fuck someone hot most weeks... I don't need new fucks as I have him so now I just witter away in the forum

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