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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

In the news this week has either given you the feel good factor or got your back up?

Mine was that twat Jeremy Kyle declining to turn up for the watchdog enquiry into his show and the suicide of a guest . The coward has spent 14 yrs making a living from bullying and badgering the “not so bright” on his show . Yet when it was his turn for a grilling ,,,,,, well !!!

I’m so glad I’ve got that off my chest

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Heat wave = women in skimpy clothing =

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Heat wave = women in skimpy clothing = "

You are so shallow

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Heat wave = women in skimpy clothing =

You are so shallow "

As shallow as dog wee on concrete lol

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch = "

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch = "

All men - some men = not so many men .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

All men - some men = not so many men . "

Still too many men, still a big problem for women to navigate.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?"

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent."

Quite. Glance, look away, ooh he looks nice. He didn't notice, because I made it so, because I'm not a creep.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The one or two times I've been caught staring this century (not exaggerating), I was looking at something they were doing (most recently weight lifting. He was definitely fit, but I was looking at the massive dumbbell he had...)

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent."

I think they call that decorum and social etiquette

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

Quite. Glance, look away, ooh he looks nice. He didn't notice, because I made it so, because I'm not a creep. "

Indeed. I prefer women, but I still manage not to letch at women who obviously don’t want to be letched at.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I think they call that decorum and social etiquette "

And many men don't possess it, and will stare slack jawed like a starving dog looking at meat.

Yes, those are calves. They're my calves, leave me alone.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

Quite. Glance, look away, ooh he looks nice. He didn't notice, because I made it so, because I'm not a creep.

Indeed. I prefer women, but I still manage not to letch at women who obviously don’t want to be letched at."

I'm even more subtle with women because I know damn well what that's like and I don't want to be that person!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"The one or two times I've been caught staring this century (not exaggerating), I was looking at something they were doing (most recently weight lifting. He was definitely fit, but I was looking at the massive dumbbell he had...) "

Had that happen at an outdoor gym I was passing once.

“Hey babe, were you checking me out? Do you want some of this?”

“No... I was just debating telling you that your form is off and you’re going to hurt yourself eventually.”

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent."

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The one or two times I've been caught staring this century (not exaggerating), I was looking at something they were doing (most recently weight lifting. He was definitely fit, but I was looking at the massive dumbbell he had...)

Had that happen at an outdoor gym I was passing once.

“Hey babe, were you checking me out? Do you want some of this?”

“No... I was just debating telling you that your form is off and you’re going to hurt yourself eventually.”"

Haha!

Mine was a male PT who was doing about five times what I can do with the same exercise. He looked at me like I was nuts. I felt bad.

My thought was genuinely "Jesus Christ that's impressive".

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day."

... If that's all it is, sure, and crack on. We all do it.

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day."

Then you’re not the kind of man who I’m talking about.

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day.

... If that's all it is, sure, and crack on. We all do it. "

I’ve got to be honest and say I have no hesitation in telling someone how well they are looking . Hard work and dedication deserves comment .

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day.

... If that's all it is, sure, and crack on. We all do it.

I’ve got to be honest and say I have no hesitation in telling someone how well they are looking . Hard work and dedication deserves comment . "

I’d find a stranger telling me that kind of weird and potentially a bit intimidating. Generally I try and keep comments about other people’s appearance to myself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day.

... If that's all it is, sure, and crack on. We all do it.

I’ve got to be honest and say I have no hesitation in telling someone how well they are looking . Hard work and dedication deserves comment . "

But there's a huge difference between "you look great!" smile, disengage so you don't force someone to have an uncomfortable conversation

And... *creepy stare* "mmhmm baby you're so delicious I can see that you squat. I need you to squat on my cock oh baby" *growl*

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Heatwave = men thinking they can treat my body like porn to watch =

Do you not look at fit athletic handsome guys not wearing much ?

... I don’t rest my eyes no. Because that would be rude. I am capable of having respect for other people’s bodies and don’t involve people in my sexual kicks without their consent.

I wouldn't call appreciating a persons figure in passing a sexual kick it's just a quick smile to yourself and carry on with the day.

... If that's all it is, sure, and crack on. We all do it.

I’ve got to be honest and say I have no hesitation in telling someone how well they are looking . Hard work and dedication deserves comment .

But there's a huge difference between "you look great!" smile, disengage so you don't force someone to have an uncomfortable conversation

And... *creepy stare* "mmhmm baby you're so delicious I can see that you squat. I need you to squat on my cock oh baby" *growl*"

Oh get over yourself weren’t you squatting in your bra and knickers the other week !!! No wonder they’re all bleeding staring

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Haha.

I'm not talking about that, and tbh the guys who saw me do that were well behaved!

General principle. Give a compliment, don't force an interaction, don't make it overtly about your desire.

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By *andare63 OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Haha.

I'm not talking about that, and tbh the guys who saw me do that were well behaved!

General principle. Give a compliment, don't force an interaction, don't make it overtly about your desire. "

Totally agree . I do cringe when I see blokes doing it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Haha.

I'm not talking about that, and tbh the guys who saw me do that were well behaved!

General principle. Give a compliment, don't force an interaction, don't make it overtly about your desire.

Totally agree . I do cringe when I see blokes doing it "

It's even worse in the street. I'm minding my own business, resting bitch face on (it's what my face does), off to Boots for something embarrassing, probably in a swing dress. Guy stops me to tell me to smile or inform me about my face. Maneuvers so I can't just thank him and keep walking.

I'm not here for you you dick, move.

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