FabSwingers.com forum: Regrets

By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Do you have any?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I try not to have any but inevitably there are some things I’ve done that I’m not the most proud of. They’re less regrets and more leaning curves.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Yeah, I’m regretting a few things right now. Going to stop putting other people first. Screw ‘em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I try not to have any but inevitably there are some things I’ve done that I’m not the most proud of. They’re less regrets and more leaning curves. "

Learning curves! Yes! This

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mountain of them. But I can't change any of them so most I don't think about. At least not while I'm awake

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I’ve had a few, but then again...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering I overthink all the time...I regret very little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few but cant change them

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

I must be happy, no regrets in my head

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I’ve had a few, but then again..."

I was awaiting that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

I think I mean realisations rather than regrets. "

Oh, yeah! Loads of them!

My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering I overthink all the time...I regret very little.

I regret overthinking

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.

Oh, yeah! Loads of them!

My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later."

I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Overthinking. Making assumptions. Thoughtlessness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.

Oh, yeah! Loads of them!

My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later.

I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained. "

Been there! Gotta put yourself first sometimes lovely

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

I regret being stubborn and proud when I was in my early 20’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, no point til time travel is accessible. Can't change owt, can I?

I think I mean realisations rather than regrets.

Oh, yeah! Loads of them!

My brain often tells me what I should've done weeks, months, even years later.

I’ve just realised I’ve been giving all my oxygen to others and had a good look at what I’ve given up in the process and what I’ve actually gained. "

Some people are really good at being manipulative and you dont realise until it's too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting curry powder in the windscreen vents of my friends new Citroen saxo in 2003 and setting the blower on full blast whilst intoxicated.

If only I’d thought to get out when he turned the key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think regrets are more an alarming realisation of you doing your best and realising you are being taken as a mug. Never regret a good action or deed, lament only what those who took advantage are missing out on. You! There aren't many people who help others these days. I may be off the mark, but that is where i have been driven too this last year. You seem lovely, don't change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None. I regret nothing. I overthink nothing. I'm perfectly rational mostly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, quite a few but I try not to dwell on them too much

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My only regrets in life, revolve around my parents.

Moving so far away, not seeing them as often as I'd liked, them missing out on seeing their grandchildren everyday.

Everything else, lessons learnt & memories made

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I do, i keep starting threads pretending they're about other people, but really they're about me. Shhh.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Overthinking. Making assumptions. Thoughtlessness. "

Oh yes.... those

I don’t necessarily harbour regret but could occasionally think things through and achieve a better outcome

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Of course. I think it’s hard to go through life and not have at least one regret. Just don’t let it eat you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yo sweetcheeks..

I'm gonna waffle so grab a blanket and a notebook or some shit

Ahem... *clears throat*

Realisations are something you can't foresee at the time (or you wouldn't be realising it afterwards surely)

Ain't a realisation a revelation of sorts, be it good it bad. It doesn't mean you were necessarily wrong (unless you were absolutely wrong in some way, morally, legally etc) it could simply be that at that time, back then, it seemed right.

We only get these realisations over time.. events, circumstances, train of thought, experiences are what causes us to make these discoveries, without the inbetweeny stuff we'd not get to the clarity.

I think what I'm trying to say, is you gotta go through it, to learn from it, whatever it is.

You can't read the front page of a book, the last page of a book and expect to know how the fuck that ending came about, you have to read the story....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IV had a few

But then again to few to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x"

Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.

Could be gone tomorrow

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x

Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.

Could be gone tomorrow

Yeah, that feeling does occur more frequently the older you become. My mum who is very old now projects her regret on to us and when we answer the phone to her berates us for not being out enjoying ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x

Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.

Could be gone tomorrow

You'd probably be in bigger trouble if you didn't answer because you WERE out enjoying yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not regrets! Just rather not have gone through certain things. Just wished I noticed my daddies pain when I was younger! Then maybe he wouldn't of died to suicide. But we do grow from we go through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x

Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.

Could be gone tomorrow

This is so true you never know when your ticket is up.

Me and my wife only started swinging after we got married earlier this year. We are both highly sexed, kinky little devil's who can achieve way more naughtiness together than we ever could alone.

The main argument for swinging and giving it a go was we both would hated to think we would be on our death beds years later thinking I really wish we.... If only we went to that swinging club...

It was that thinking that made our minds up. We are soul mates from day 1 but 4 months later and lots of swinging experiences under our belts we can both say it's been amazing and has made us as a couple even stronger! X

J K x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no point in regrets at the end of the day we learn and grow from all experiences. You need to know what you don't like to truly appreciate what you do!

J x

Agree, however the older I get the more I feel like I'm wasting time not doing things that could make my life easier/more enjoyable etc.

Could be gone tomorrow

This is so true you never know when your ticket is up.

Me and my wife only started swinging after we got married earlier this year. We are both highly sexed, kinky little devil's who can achieve way more naughtiness together than we ever could alone.

The main argument for swinging and giving it a go was we both would hated to think we would be on our death beds years later thinking I really wish we.... If only we went to that swinging club...

J K x"

I love that! Long may your happiness continue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than I can count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more so what I like to call "Missed opportunities". I'll regret words I should of said, actions not taken and stuff I could of done but couldn't be arsed.

If I had to be 100% honest my 1 overwhelming regret will be letting my easy, soft going nature and outlook on life being taken advantage of so many times cos its seen as a weekness. Sadly though I wouldn't want to change how I look at life, as I'd probably regret being a cunt too so I guess no win..

My opinion is, if you can't time hop and change whatever the regret is then leave it where it belongs in the past and concentrate on what you do have in the here and now, stuff you have control of how you deal with it.

Over thinking things you can't alter will Defo eat you up inside and out. Plus, positive actions throughout life will always balance up what you didn't do.

Human nature always picks out the negative (regrets) always before the good, fact so just chill, let the positive chakra flow and you won't regret a single moment.

Budah waddy has waffled on way to much it appears. I'm blaming the Gin and Juice, oooh I'll regret this in the morning....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a tad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many, and highly suspect there will be many more before my time's up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some huge ones yes

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few but then again to few to mention

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

They are lessons not regrets ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are lessons not regrets .... "
you get lessons in love then once the novelty wears off you regret them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep....trying to make friends on this site !

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!

I was enjoying that too.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

regret making certain decisions in my past but realise that without that path being travelled wouldn't be where I am today

Also regret all that beer yesterday as now head is hurty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errmmmm...anyway moving on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are lessons not regrets .... "

I don't agree with that. Lessons don't fuck your life over, regrets do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!

I was enjoying that too.

Jo.Xx "

Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!

I was enjoying that too.

Jo.Xx

Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet?

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the warm burning sensation

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

Sounds like a song title

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!

I was enjoying that too.

Jo.Xx

Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet?

It was a cracking cuppa.

Funnily enough the soggy slipper feeling wasn't great.

Jo.Xx

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By *ewtoyouXXXMan
over a year ago

rochdale cowboy

No point in worrying over things I cannot change is my Philosophy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I should have put my tea on the table properly, but I didn't, I missed and spilt a full hot cup of tea all over my feet and the floor!

I was enjoying that too.

Jo.Xx

Enjoying what, the tea scalding your feet?

It was a cracking cuppa.

Funnily enough the soggy slipper feeling wasn't great.

Jo.Xx "

Not surprised!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regret not telling someone how I really felt and hate it when my stomach knots when I see them.

But I have another life now and I enjoy it but yeah that's my one regret.

All the other decisions I live with and don't regret

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Errmmmm...anyway moving on!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"regret making certain decisions in my past but realise that without that path being travelled wouldn't be where I am today

Also regret all that beer yesterday as now head is hurty "

Completely agree. Last year was not a good time for me and I was not in a good place. Thankfully now I can look back and although I have regrets, I am in a better place now and have learnt so much. Because of that I’m a massive advocate of male mental health awareness and removing the taboo now.

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Yo sweetcheeks..

I'm gonna waffle so grab a blanket and a notebook or some shit

Ahem... *clears throat*

Realisations are something you can't foresee at the time (or you wouldn't be realising it afterwards surely)

We only get these realisations over time.. events, circumstances, train of thought, experiences are what causes us to make these discoveries, without the inbetweeny stuff we'd not get to the clarity.

I think what I'm trying to say, is you gotta go through it, to learn from it, whatever it is.

You can't read the front page of a book, the last page of a book and expect to know how the fuck that ending came about, you have to read the story....

Nicely put!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many, sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

No I don’t have any regrets. I had what I would refer to as a ‘close call’ once upon a time but luckily common sense prevailed and all is good in the world

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By *stella OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"No I don’t have any regrets. I had what I would refer to as a ‘close call’ once upon a time but luckily common sense prevailed and all is good in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don’t have any regrets. I had what I would refer to as a ‘close call’ once upon a time but luckily common sense prevailed and all is good in the world

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love?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I try not to have any but inevitably there are some things I’ve done that I’m not the most proud of. They’re less regrets and more leaning curves. "

That is a really positive way of looking at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wish to change my past as that would mean I possibly wouldn't be me or have what I have now and I'm happy with me right now

Having said that hined sight has made me look at things and thought maybe should of done that differently but they are life lessons.

But....

I do regret not putting sun screen on my chest yesterday little bit of sun burnt cleavage today

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I've had a few a few to many, and i will probably have many more , ( thats life ):

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of regrets, I can't do nothing about most of them. So I don't think about them. Joining Fab is one of them, spent a fortune in site supporter passes and I haven't got anything to show for it, but I'm pretty addicted now.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"No I don’t have any regrets. I had what I would refer to as a ‘close call’ once upon a time but luckily common sense prevailed and all is good in the world

love?"

Not love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah a couple but id not be where i am now in my head without them happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No children.. Traded that privilage for extreme sports

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I dont regret things I've done. They are lessons learned and move on.

Occasionally regret things I havent done

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No I dont really because if the things that have happened to me never did and I never reacted in a certain way then maybe I wouldn't be were I am now.

Hope that makes sense.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Never have regrets as the choices you made at the time you thought were right, so it’s a pointless thing to do..

But, if I had known how much I love to wear lingerie etc, I most certainly would have been a trans person years ago., but then if I had, I wouldn’t have my family...

So you see you can’t regret your choices

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve regrets but the decisions that were made have given me valuable experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have any?"

I used to, really badly I learned after a long time that you often need to put yourself first.

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By *omnlynneCouple
over a year ago

milton keynes

"I’ve had a few, but then again..."
too few to mention

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

The only regret i have is selling my house and coming off the property ladder.

I did it for good reasons, but i think i rushed into it.

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By *rincessPussycatTV/TS
over a year ago

a world of her own

I regret nothing except all the regrets that I have

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"The only regret i have is selling my house and coming off the property ladder.

I did it for good reasons, but i think i rushed into it.

Get back on board hun, renting is just throwing money away

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"The only regret i have is selling my house and coming off the property ladder.

I did it for good reasons, but i think i rushed into it.

Get back on board hun, renting is just throwing money away"

Can’t afford to

. We moved in with my mum as her mobility is poor and she needs day to day help around the home, and i now only work part time and earn a lot, lot less than when i took the mortgage out (and had bambinos etc).

In hindsight i could have rented mine out, but meh. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly don't think I do. I'm a firm believer in all experiences being a chance to learn something about yourself. If I fuck up I have to accept that, take responsibility and apologise if an apology is needed, but ultimately I a who I am based on everything that has come before.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes I have a few but there is little I can do about them, shit happens and on the whole i have had a charmed life so look to the future.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I honestly don't think I do. I'm a firm believer in all experiences being a chance to learn something about yourself. If I fuck up I have to accept that, take responsibility and apologise if an apology is needed, but ultimately I a who I am based on everything that has come before. "

I like this a lot. I do try and own my fuck ups and apologise. I'm human and still learning.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

None at all. I've lived my life to the full so far, and will continue to do so for as long as I'm on this earth.

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