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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to ask for a fuck on the 3rd message or else its game over buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

"

What’s her name loool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have to ask for a fuck on the 3rd message or else its game over buddy"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

What’s her name loool "

I don't think I can post her name here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it even a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was it even a woman? "

Well there were lots of verifications on the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it even a woman?

Well there were lots of verifications on the account. "

An insecure woman that needs validation that she’s hot?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think it was a man trying to make me flash the flesh lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was it even a woman?

Well there were lots of verifications on the account.

An insecure woman that needs validation that she’s hot? "

Yes maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was it even a woman?

Well there were lots of verifications on the account.

An insecure woman that needs validation that she’s hot? "

Hi Lola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

"
i block if soneone talks sex ....everyone's different

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do the rest of you here go straight in with sex talk or chat about random things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

i block if soneone talks sex ....everyone's different"

I go off someone and get bored if it turns to sex chat too quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the rest of you here go straight in with sex talk or chat about random things? "

Chat about random shite

I’m pretty clueless when it comes to sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats. "

Try it and see. Some might be into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have the thinkers and the doers. Dont get them mixed up. Some want the chat some want to get on with it. You'll never know who is who until you either get blocked or shagged

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

It would be nice just to have a woman chat to me on the site.

sorry to here she blocked you. We can't win

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Try it and see. Some might be into that "

Okay you dirty little slut.

Pm daddy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Try it and see. Some might be into that

Okay you dirty little slut.

Pm daddy now "

I think someone has to be initially interested in you for that to work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have the thinkers and the doers. Dont get them mixed up. Some want the chat some want to get on with it. You'll never know who is who until you either get blocked or shagged "

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Try it and see. Some might be into that

Okay you dirty little slut.

Pm daddy now

I think someone has to be initially interested in you for that to work "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Nothing surprises me on here anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing surprises me on here anymore "

What would surprise me is if I heard from the same person twice

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Look at it this way OP - she wasn't a good match for you if that's not your style, so you've not missed out.

Some people you'll start chatting to and the conversation will fizzle put because there's no spark, some you'll chat to and you'll slowly build a connection, others you'll click with right off the bat - there really is no rhyme or reason to it.

And trying to adapt to fit what everyone is looking for won't work, you just have to find the people that are on the same page as you and of a like mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats. "

Don’t change the way you are. You will meet someone on your wavelength and it will feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats. "

Or more blocks.

P

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Or more blocks.

P"

Why did I read that as "more bollocks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Or more blocks.

P

Why did I read that as "more bollocks" "

Because I managed 3 words without swearing which is extremely unusual.... practically fucking unheard of!

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at it this way OP - she wasn't a good match for you if that's not your style, so you've not missed out.

Some people you'll start chatting to and the conversation will fizzle put because there's no spark, some you'll chat to and you'll slowly build a connection, others you'll click with right off the bat - there really is no rhyme or reason to it.

And trying to adapt to fit what everyone is looking for won't work, you just have to find the people that are on the same page as you and of a like mind."

This

As a couple we are all about the action / fun. Endless ping pong messages about the weather or similar doesn't do it for us. Likewise we aren't big fans of socials but we can and have done them when required.

Our best meets have been when we arrived at someone's house once we have said Hi I'm so and so then the next minute my wife has the guys cock in her mouth and we are been led to the bedroom

Again we have seen face pictures before hand so already know the person is our type physically. We are into swinging to have experiences that are simply not possible as 2 people.

Although to contradict the above we said we weren't looking to make friends yet there is a couple we have play with a few times now who have become friends.

J K x

Good luck and try not to over think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have the thinkers and the doers. Dont get them mixed up. Some want the chat some want to get on with it. You'll never know who is who until you either get blocked or shagged "

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By *aisy SteinerWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Personally I can't sleep with someone I have no connection to. My mouth has no filter so they need to be prepared for the random thoughts that falls out.

I need to chat first to establish they aren't easily scared. Lol

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

"

Women only what to asked, can you fuck now, any good a giving a blow job, send me pictures, how fat are you, do you do bare back and have you got any lady mates to join in. Your clearly an amateur on here, didn't you know treating women with respect and like human beings is a masive turn off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rather talk about random things other than sex and see if we click first.

It doesn't seem to be working on here though. I've been feeling I should just be a perv and then maybe il get chats.

Don’t change the way you are. You will meet someone on your wavelength and it will feel better. "

I won't change the frequency then, until my balls change colour

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got blocked by a lady, because I didn't talk about sex or ask for naked pictures.

She said she felt offended by it.

It's rare for me to have conversations on this site, so I'm wondering if this is the norm on here.

Women only what to asked, can you fuck now, any good a giving a blow job, send me pictures, how fat are you, do you do bare back and have you got any lady mates to join in. Your clearly an amateur on here, didn't you know treating women with respect and like human beings is a masive turn off?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As GM said, there is no cover all for people on here. All you can do via PM is what you feel comfortable with. Personally I don't jump straight to sex chat and when I was single I would chat and build a connection for quite a while before moving on.

The thing to remember is that it takes two to build a chat and conversation, her blaming you for it not being sexual sounds a bit off, as she could've moved things in that direction too.

It's easy to blame others for things breaking down but if they're being passive and expecting you to do all the work then it potentially doesn't bode well for other more intimate encounters later.

Tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 message flo rule no sex talk for 5 messages then its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way ?

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