FabSwingers.com forum: Partners

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m just curious to know how many people have partners who know what they do, or partners who are totally oblivious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner knows what I do. He's on here too. We met 12 years ago I told him straight away about me and he's cool with me meeting although I'm polygamous rather than a swinger hence why I'm satisfied having just the one regular

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My partner knows what I do. He's on here too. We met 12 years ago I told him straight away about me and he's cool with me meeting although I'm polygamous rather than a swinger hence why I'm satisfied having just the one regular "

Oh wow that’s pretty cool x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is fine and dandy with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can I ask how your polygamous relationship works?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

He knows, he's supportive. It works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it "

Do you have a partner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

Do you have a partner?"

No been single about 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

Do you have a partner?

No been single about 3 months "

Get a partner first, then worry about it

it doesn’t work for everyone. Takes a very strong and confident relationship/people to do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

Do you have a partner?

I like the idea of meeting a couple and just being there for them, not like a bull or anything

No been single about 3 months

Get a partner first, then worry about it

it doesn’t work for everyone. Takes a very strong and confident relationship/people to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

Do you have a partner?

I like the idea of meeting a couple and just being there for them, not like a bull or anything

No been single about 3 months

Get a partner first, then worry about it

it doesn’t work for everyone. Takes a very strong and confident relationship/people to do it

Ah ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband knows what I do. He doesn’t want to meet anyone, and it turns him on when I’m getting fucked

I like the thought of this but don’t know weather I could do it

Do you have a partner?

I like the idea of meeting a couple and just being there for them, not like a bull or anything

Yeah I like that idea

No been single about 3 months

Get a partner first, then worry about it

it doesn’t work for everyone. Takes a very strong and confident relationship/people to do it

Ah ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho "

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men "

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time "

Just because they want to meet single men, doesn’t mean they don’t have a presence as to which single men they meet

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a partner who knows I'm on here and I tell him when I'm meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time

Just because they want to meet single men, doesn’t mean they don’t have a presence as to which single men they meet "

Oh I know that, I meet them we go for a drink get on really well, then when it comes to it i don’t hear from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time

Just because they want to meet single men, doesn’t mean they don’t have a presence as to which single men they meet "

Preference*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bf knows what I do on here as he's also on here. If there's lies then there's no loyalty and if there's no loyalty there's no relationship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time

Just because they want to meet single men, doesn’t mean they don’t have a presence as to which single men they meet

Oh I know that, I meet them we go for a drink get on really well, then when it comes to it i don’t hear from them "

They might not be attracted to you. Chalk it up to experience and keep trying. Lots of men are struggling to even get a social

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I should imagine they are hard to get into tho

Finding a couple? Tends to be, as they tend to be looking for single women. But there’s lots out there who want to meet single men

I’ve tried that bey keep getting let down all the time

Just because they want to meet single men, doesn’t mean they don’t have a presence as to which single men they meet

Oh I know that, I meet them we go for a drink get on really well, then when it comes to it i don’t hear from them

They might not be attracted to you. Chalk it up to experience and keep trying. Lots of men are struggling to even get a social

Yeah maybe,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My bf knows what I do on here as he's also on here. If there's lies then there's no loyalty and if there's no loyalty there's no relationship x "

I like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My bf knows what I do on here as he's also on here. If there's lies then there's no loyalty and if there's no loyalty there's no relationship x "

You are beautiful oh my god xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We are both here so not an issue for us.

I might do socials alone but we would always play together.

Does need to be transparency and trust to make it work but it seems to be working for us so far

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are both here so not an issue for us.

I might do socials alone but we would always play together.

Does need to be transparency and trust to make it work but it seems to be working for us so far

Jo x

See I like that but not sure if I could watch my partner have sex with someone else

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We are both here so not an issue for us.

I might do socials alone but we would always play together.

Does need to be transparency and trust to make it work but it seems to be working for us so far

Jo x

See I like that but not sure if I could watch my partner have sex with someone else "

I couldn't watch him, but my husband likes to watch me. We only meet single men. Win win! Jo x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are both here so not an issue for us.

I might do socials alone but we would always play together.

Does need to be transparency and trust to make it work but it seems to be working for us so far

Jo x

See I like that but not sure if I could watch my partner have sex with someone else

I couldn't watch him, but my husband likes to watch me. We only meet single men. Win win! Jo x"

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner.

He knows I'm here. We actually met here, he had his own profile and we have a couple's profile too

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"We are both here so not an issue for us.

I might do socials alone but we would always play together.

Does need to be transparency and trust to make it work but it seems to be working for us so far

Jo x

See I like that but not sure if I could watch my partner have sex with someone else "

As had been said ... it depends how solid and how confident you are with the relationship ... and yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner knows I'm on here, he has full access to this account. Like someone previously said, you need to be straight forward and honest with what you both want, and are willing to try and do. I love the fact it adds another dimension to our relationship, and its refreshing to be so open with someone else about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No partner here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I don't do that much to be fair!

At the moment I ain't interested in meeting anyone alone, unless it was someone from the forum and it was purely for a chin wag, nothing more. There are plenty of men, women and couples I'd like to meet in that respect. Yes I'd prefer to meet for a social with B there too but work dictates when we can be together unfortunately.

As far as if I do decide I want to meet alone again for more than coffee, well, he will know as much as he wants to. I'll hide nothing and have nothing to hide.

Can only hope and have faith that it will work both ways.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"No partner here"

A crying shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No partner here

A crying shame

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i know no bugger wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband knows im here, we also have couples profiles and he has a profile for him too.

It works well for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No partner here

A crying shame

i know no bugger wants me

I offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No partner here

A crying shame

i know no bugger wants me

I offered "
i dont mean no one will meet me i mean a relationship and as i said i dont meet men your age ....sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My bf knows what I do on here as he's also on here. If there's lies then there's no loyalty and if there's no loyalty there's no relationship x

You are beautiful oh my god xx "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My bf knows what I do on here as he's also on here. If there's lies then there's no loyalty and if there's no loyalty there's no relationship x

You are beautiful oh my god xx

Thank you

Your welcome x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No partner here

A crying shame

i know no bugger wants me

I offered i dont mean no one will meet me i mean a relationship and as i said i dont meet men your age ....sorry"

No I understand

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yeah, mine knows

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah, mine knows

Mr. "

Do you play together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that I have one, I'm not meeting, just sticking around for the forums and the friends I have made on here.

I don't want to share in a relationship

When I joined here I was just out of a bad marriage and just looking for sexy times, which I got, but a relationship is more me and I am glad that I can pause here now for a while (hopefully a long while)

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I met mine here... So yep... He knows everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met mine here... So yep... He knows everything

Do you still play?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I met mine here... So yep... He knows everything

Do you still play? "

Haven't played with anyone else in just over a year, but that's somewhat due to other commitments and time issues, and mostly due to being kept pretty happy

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yeah, mine knows

Mr.

Do you play together "

Yup, and apart

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah, mine knows

Mr.

Do you play together

Yup, and apart

And does it work

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Yeah, mine knows

Mr.

Do you play together

Yup, and apart

And does it work "

Well, yes, otherwise we wouldn’t be here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So is this a really common thing then?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"So is this a really common thing then? "

On this site .. you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, open and honest with each other, the only way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"So what do you think my chances are of finding a couple that I’m not a bull but want to be pet of their relationship "

Do you mean “part”? What part do you want to play?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull"

I’m sorry but I still don’t understand what part you want to play? Are you talking just sex or something more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull

I’m sorry but I still don’t understand what part you want to play? Are you talking just sex or something more?"

Yeah sex and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull"

Like a boyfriend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull

Like a boyfriend?

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby knows . So long as i'm honest about whats happening etc he's fine . He loves hearing all the details when i get home .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My hubby knows . So long as i'm honest about whats happening etc he's fine . He loves hearing all the details when i get home . "

I’d like to meet you

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I’d like to meet a couple where I’m part of their relationship but not a bull

Like a boyfriend?

Yes "

Possibly the first thing to do is put this on your profile? What you seek isn’t impossible but it is reasonably niche I’d say. Good luck though

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