FabSwingers.com forum: Death

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

Here’s a cheery question for you!

If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

When

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely when.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I'd rather know when

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

And why did you choose that answer?

Would it make a difference?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"And why did you choose that answer?

Would it make a difference?"

Better for planning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. No, no, no.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When.

You could say your goodbyes and make sure you have some fun before the end.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)"

Oh God... you didn't!!!!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I wouldn't really want to know either but of the two I would choose when so I can take out a massive life insurance policy in the run-up and look after people when I'm gone.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)

Oh God... you didn't!!!!

I think I know when OP will die.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)

Oh God... you didn't!!!!

I think I know when OP will die."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How possibly. If it for example by being hit by a bus I would avoid ever crossing a road. Or choking on a fish bone, no fish for me. Death thwarted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never unfortunately I am immortal

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

Definitely the How

So I could avoid the scenario until I was ready to go

Unless it was of course old age

If was an awful illness you can better prepare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had to choose I would say when, and 6 months before I would borrow a shite load of money max everything out and spend the next 6 months having a blast

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)

Oh God... you didn't!!!!

I think I know when OP will die."

Yes, my life expectancy just got shorter!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"If I had to choose I would say when, and 6 months before I would borrow a shite load of money max everything out and spend the next 6 months having a blast

*monkey avoids this person *

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"And why did you choose that answer?

Would it make a difference?"

I could better prepare my kids for the inevitable so it isnt as hard for them to deal with when it happens & so I could know that they will be ok

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By *retty GoodMan
over a year ago

Cardiff Bay

"If I had to choose I would say when, and 6 months before I would borrow a shite load of money max everything out and spend the next 6 months having a blast

Don’t want to sound morbid but let’s say it was a 2 year battle for your life with an awful cuntish illness. Those plans go out the window.

Think HOW is the way to go here

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Neither me thinks, live each day as it comes.

Why are you in such a thoughtful mood today OP?

Quick someone put up a cheery daft post to compensate....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Probably when. I think how would make me too fearful of anything that could lead to my death.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely when!

If I’m gonna die young I don’t need to worry about pensions!

Isn’t it too late for that! Lol

(Runs for cover)

Oh God... you didn't!!!!

I think I know when OP will die.

Yes, my life expectancy just got shorter!

Shorter! it is literally hanging by a thread

For me, I have already booked my last birthday party, would be nice to know when just to confirm I will be there, dont really care how.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Neither me thinks, live each day as it comes.

Why are you in such a thoughtful mood today OP?

Quick someone put up a cheery daft post to compensate....

My daughter was asked this question by a little boy she was babysitting the other day. I thought it was a good question!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How

Then you could possibly avoid it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When. Then i could prepare. I wouldn't tell others though

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Neither me thinks, live each day as it comes.

Why are you in such a thoughtful mood today OP?

Quick someone put up a cheery daft post to compensate....

My daughter was asked this question by a little boy she was babysitting the other day. I thought it was a good question! "

Yes, kids go through the death thing, not a criticism, just something I don't wish to focus on I suppose, I'm in a good place right now and don't wish to see the end too abruptly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When, with fingers crossed that it’s soon.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"When, with fingers crossed that it’s soon. "

You’re only 28!! The best is yet to come

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Hmmm...I started off thinking "when" so I could prepare for it or even wrap myself in cotton wool for the day and avoid it completely but some of the "hows" mentioned have made sense too...

...on balance though think I'll stick with "when" even if avoidance isn't possible I could at least prepare for it

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Here’s a cheery question for you!

If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?

When

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Neither, if you make the most out of each day I don't think you'd really need to know

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

How !

When for me is a worst prospect.

The strain and stress you would feel as you approach that day would make it hard to be yourself and happy around friends & family. I’d like to leave them with good memories rather than worried ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How cos if its bad id change my destiny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably when.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

When, so that I can make sure I get to see and do as many things and people as possible. Also get all my financial stuff in order so that whoever has to sort it out doesn’t have too much of a nightmare. I’d find homes for my pets too.

My friend has a key to my house and she’s under strict instructions to clear out certain drawers and boxes in my bedroom if anything happens to me. I’d be able to do it myself if I knew when

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

When.......

As long as it’s not tonight in a hot tub will be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone has the option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here’s a cheery question for you!

If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?

Already know how...as for the when within 18months is experts best guess.

Gonna find out the answers to all those unanswered questions such as: Harp, Pitchfork or bugger all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When, so that I can make sure I get to see and do as many things and people as possible. Also get all my financial stuff in order so that whoever has to sort it out doesn’t have too much of a nightmare. I’d find homes for my pets too.

My friend has a key to my house and she’s under strict instructions to clear out certain drawers and boxes in my bedroom if anything happens to me. I’d be able to do it myself if I knew when

Why worry SJ...you wont be around to be worried by what people think or say lol

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Here’s a cheery question for you!

If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?

Already know how...as for the when within 18months is experts best guess.

Gonna find out the answers to all those unanswered questions such as: Harp, Pitchfork or bugger all

God bless you fella .....

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"When.......

As long as it’s not tonight in a hot tub will be fine

I hope not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

Lifes for living, not for worrying about when or how it might end.

Yesterday has gone. Tomorrow will always be just a dream.

Today is where we always live.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'd want to know when, then I could preempt it and the 'how' would be on my own terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to know HOW, so I can know whether it will be pain full or smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely how...so you can at least see if you can change something to prevent it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Neither i prefer to just live my life and when my time cones it comes

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By *XSnoopy72XXMan
over a year ago

snaith/kettering

Neither

To be told you may die is not a life experience I would wish on my worst enemy

Living life to its fullest is my answer

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Not for one second!!! I'm a nurse and I'm not scared of death but I've been around it so much and I promote living for the day with a much cheer as u can

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Definitely when

I would like to be organised before I die and would arrange my own funeral with some humour added to it.

I would prepare my children and have things in place to support them when am gone.

Then I would have a celebration of life party before I die and invite everyone I know so there are recent happy memories for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When so I can make sure my family is financially secure

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I think I'm quite sad, I have started a 'death box' for my executor.

What bank accounts, utilities etc, insurances, digital site passwords etc, anything I think they might need.

Just trying to be organised, and see that my wishes are done correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, I want fate to surprise me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a how kinda person.

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"Neither, I want fate to surprise me. "
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Also this...God if I knew half the things that I have been through or am still to go through , I wouldn't get out of bed lol....as for planning for your kids etc, we should all do that anyhow...because the only thing that is 100% certain in this life is that we are all gunna die....we should try to make the most of the "dash" between our birth date and the one that follows!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want to know either. However if had to choose I’d go for how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would be my choice

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By *obbie11022TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

When. I already know how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless that rogue bus gets me, I already know in all probability what will kill me.

I don’t really want to know when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I already know what might kill me so I'd like to know when. If it's going to be soon, then the gardening, housework and decorating can fuck off, I'm going to party instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I already know what might kill me so I'd like to know when. If it's going to be soon, then the gardening, housework and decorating can fuck off, I'm going to party instead! "

With you there Dana...I do know whats going to kill me not exactly sure when but lets just say the next 18months are going to be one long party

As for the rest I like gardens but dont do gardening, I pay someone to do the housework twice a week and the only decorating I'm likely to do is put up a tree and xmas decs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to know the date but not the year, maybe I could have a death day party each year running up to it!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Here’s a cheery question for you!

If you could find out WHEN you were going to die or HOW you will die, but not both, which one would you choose?

How.

That way i may have a chance to evoid it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How.. If you know when then the st ress levels will rise the closer it gets.. How, leaves one with no concept of time.. Could happen tomorrow, in a year.. Me personally I would see it as no different to the fact that one day I will die, as we all will

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When would probably be the most helpful, practically etc but I'd like to know how, as it might provide potential for delay

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