FabSwingers.com forum: The term Milf

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a porn name for mutha fuckas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Av been called worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into. "

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

No doesn’t bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "

I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "

The emergence scene in alien is tame by comparison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "

Nah it really isn’t

It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "

The out come is the actual birth is pretty messy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most

beautiful thing in the world

Visually it’s not nice? But ultimately the outcome is the best thing In the world

Nah it really isn’t

It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch"

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty "

Not something I’d personally care to try but you girls do make a fuss. I’m sure it stings a bit but what’s with all the noise? My wife screamed and screamed - and that was just during the conception!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It's a bit cliche, and a bit porny

You're always going to upset someone

It's like being called Mature ... it just makes you think of a smelly cheese

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By *_RiderMan
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's a very subjective term. You'll always get some people who find offensive and others who are indifferent and some who like it. Another term that creates similar reactions is "yummy mummy". I know some ladies love it, some hate it. You'll always have a divide on these and other terms for both men and women.

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By *ania2000Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? "
...i am a milf ...also a gilf xx n proud of it xxTxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world "

Is it fuck. Hubby watched my c-section and described it as brutal and horrific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most

beautiful thing in the world

Visually it’s not nice? But ultimately the outcome is the best thing In the world

Nah it really isn’t

It’s a beautiful thing...but visually? Ouch"

Yes, the outcome is the best thing in the world. Which is why to me, it seems weird to fetishise women because of it.

But I’m not ‘offended’ or ‘upset’ or whatever (I said yes above to drill my point home) and I’ve been called far worse, and will be called far worse. Just seems odd to fetishise women. It’s the same for men who want to meet older women purely because they’re older women....it’s just weird to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t think you upset anyone

And yes....it’s being labelled. I’m more than a label. I’m more than category you can slot me into.

What is hot about being a mum? Have you seen childbirth? That shit ain’t pretty

I have seen child birth and it’s the most

beautiful thing in the world

Is it fuck. Hubby watched my c-section and

described it as brutal and horrific."

C section is different definitely by far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a very subjective term. You'll always get some people who find offensive and others who are indifferent and some who like it. Another term that creates similar reactions is "yummy mummy". I know some ladies love it, some hate it. You'll always have a divide on these and other terms for both men and women."

‘Yummy mummy’ is for single mums on Facebook who don’t work; ‘works at being a yummy mummy’

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess some lady’s like it and others don’t, I will be more careful in future

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? ...i am a milf ...also a gilf xx n proud of it xxTxx"

And you are absolutely stunning xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Just find terms like milf a bit

...a club owner once said we should go to his club because they hold milf events.....needless to say we have never visited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel major indifference about most labels bandied about to be honest. People are usually pretty enthusiastic in their love of said category of person so carry on. Expect to be met with blank stares if you use them on me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called it.

I'm pretty sure said with a decent dollop of humour so that's how I always take it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It doesn't upset me but I do find it derogatory to be referred to by an acronym which lumps me together with huge numbers of other women. I like to be considered as an individual by other people, especially if I'm likely to get naked with them. I know lots of women don't mind so I just use it as a bit of a filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the greatest thing ti be called but I've been called worse

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

All titles like that are a subtle means of objectification, many people don’t know or understand what that is but it’s real and it’s a method of keeping people (mostly women) as disposable objects of desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? "

I just think it's a bit sad that people feel the need to use acronyms when they could engage in conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW, milf,gilf,BBC,bwc, cougar...all labels...lots more out there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it works if you think putting guys in a box with the label dilf, or any other similar stereotype works.

People are just people, but no it doesnt really bother me much. Other things in life are far more important.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory? "

I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.

Yeah, I don’t like it much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory?

I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.

Yeah, I don’t like it much."

You want my swimmers?

They’re primed and ready to do their duty

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I seem to have upset a few of the lady’s by using the term above, does anyone else find the term MILF derogatory?

I have been called it and it pisses me off as I’m not a mother. And I’d like to be a mother. But it makes me less likely to want a fuck which in turn makes me less likely to become a mother.

Yeah, I don’t like it much.

You want my swimmers?

They’re primed and ready to do their duty

Fuck yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as being called a dilf, I don’t find it offensive but I’d also be mindful of who I would tell that they’re a milf

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm not into labels anyway, but it does bug me on a personal level when someone calls me a milf, as it's incorrect! I'm not a mom

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep .... cos I’m a Gilf

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

If I ever get called a DILF it’s the ILF bit I focus on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a GILF too old for MILF

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep .... cos I’m a Gilf

And a sexy one at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a GILF too old for MILF "

I’m going to be in notts on the 13th of July and I would love to meet you

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on? "

You are really stunning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term doesn’t bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The term doesn’t bother me at all."

All you lady’s up north are so sexy xx

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

"I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on?

You are really stunning xx "

How do you know I havent got a face like a slapped arse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a GILF too old for MILF "
im both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont find it particularly offensive, but do i really want to be reminded of my children whilst getting it on?

You are really stunning xx

How do you know I havent got a face like a slapped arse?

No definitely not, but even if you did your body is sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a GILF too old for MILF im both

Would you meet someone younger

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I'd like some milf weather...

over 30 and hot

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