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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My granny is in her 70's but often refers to women her age or younger as "that old wifey" and I wonder if she knows she is one too.

Do you ever actually feel your age? I look at people I went to school with and think wow they're so grown up, does that feeling ever go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel older than I am just lately. Life is tough a the mo'.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

In my head I’m still in my late 20s. Fuck knows why

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By *wesomepearWoman
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I had to go for physio last week and honestly the guy looked about 12!!

That made me feel really old

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I certainly never act it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm as old as a man I feel..

Tonight, Matthew, I'm gonna be.. 27!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel older than I am just lately. Life is tough a the mo'."

I'm sorry to hear that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel like a kid most of the time, pretending to play grownups. I think I look my age though. I've got a youngish face with grey hair so it balances out to 37.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned 40 today

I still don’t feel like an adult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my head I’m still in my late 20s. Fuck knows why"

Does the body not match?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I'm 42.

My mind thinks 18 .

My body feels 88.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My granny is in her 70's but often refers to women her age or younger as "that old wifey" and I wonder if she knows she is one too.

Do you ever actually feel your age? I look at people I went to school with and think wow they're so grown up, does that feeling ever go? "
nope you're same person whatever age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had to go for physio last week and honestly the guy looked about 12!!

That made me feel really old "

I find that in pubs! I swear they're all underage!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I certainly never act it "

Where's the fun in that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm as old as a man I feel..

Tonight, Matthew, I'm gonna be.. 27! "

Ah! The secret of eternal youth!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I certainly never act it

Where's the fun in that? "

Never a dull day in our house

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I had to go for physio last week and honestly the guy looked about 12!!

That made me feel really old

I find that in pubs! I swear they're all underage! "

most maybe are!!!! lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

as to feeling old neither of us feel or act our age once you start feeling old you become old i think lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm as old as a man I feel..

Tonight, Matthew, I'm gonna be.. 27!

Ah! The secret of eternal youth! "

Sorry I meant Rubi, not Matthew

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel like a kid most of the time, pretending to play grownups. I think I look my age though. I've got a youngish face with grey hair so it balances out to 37. "

Do you ever have those wow! Moments when you realise it's real and you are in fact an adult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel weird that all my friends are getting married and having kids and I'm still just being a spanner. Yet, I often refer to 'young people'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I turned 40 today

I still don’t feel like an adult."

Happy birthday! Xx

(you still look early 20's to me )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 42.

My mind thinks 18 .

My body feels 88."

It's always the body that let's you down!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My granny is in her 70's but often refers to women her age or younger as "that old wifey" and I wonder if she knows she is one too.

Do you ever actually feel your age? I look at people I went to school with and think wow they're so grown up, does that feeling ever go? nope you're same person whatever age "

But aren't you meant to get wiser and more mature?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as to feeling old neither of us feel or act our age once you start feeling old you become old i think lol "

Yeah i get that, I know of older people who've "given up"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm as old as a man I feel..

Tonight, Matthew, I'm gonna be.. 27!

Ah! The secret of eternal youth!

Sorry I meant Rubi, not Matthew "

It's OK, I've been called worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like a kid most of the time, pretending to play grownups. I think I look my age though. I've got a youngish face with grey hair so it balances out to 37.

Do you ever have those wow! Moments when you realise it's real and you are in fact an adult? "

Occasionally. I'm divorced, have 2 children and a mortgage. You'd think I'd feel it more often!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel weird that all my friends are getting married and having kids and I'm still just being a spanner. Yet, I often refer to 'young people'"

That's the thing! Even my friends I think are young like me, like it blows my mind that they're adults too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 48 going on 28. I seem to party like one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the day wich personality controls my body

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By *hisCharmingMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

51 next week, still feel like I’m 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My granny is in her 70's but often refers to women her age or younger as "that old wifey" and I wonder if she knows she is one too.

Do you ever actually feel your age? I look at people I went to school with and think wow they're so grown up, does that feeling ever go? "

Was out with my 25yr old and single son Friday evening and sat there talking about his recent exploits and thought Here I am at the age of 53 thinking the same as him and as I did at his age, very frustrating if im honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I turned 40 today

I still don’t feel like an adult.

Happy birthday! Xx

(you still look early 20's to me ) "

You flirt

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't know what my age is supposed to feel like. All I know is what I feel like. I know that it's very different to what my current age looked like to me 25 years ago. I'm very happy with my age and my 40s is currently the most exciting and rewarding period of life so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what my age is supposed to feel like. All I know is what I feel like. I know that it's very different to what my current age looked like to me 25 years ago. I'm very happy with my age and my 40s is currently the most exciting and rewarding period of life so far. "

you both look well

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I know what you mean. I sometimes see people I went to school with and think. “Eee you look like a woman” and quite often an old one at that. hah coz I guess that’s not how I see myself. They probably think the same thing

Lex

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I don’t feel any age, I guess looks wise I’m hitting the mark at my actual age of 50 but in myself I would say I feel much younger, but then, I don’t know how I’m supposed to feel.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Always feel my age when it's winter with the aches and pains setting in....now I feel old for saying aches and pains

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"In my head I’m still in my late 20s. Fuck knows why

Does the body not match? "

Yes it does, I was pretty fat back then too

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I feel like a kid most of the time, pretending to play grownups. I think I look my age though. I've got a youngish face with grey hair so it balances out to 37.

Do you ever have those wow! Moments when you realise it's real and you are in fact an adult? "

As you get older, you learn to ignore those thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 turning 23 next month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 35 although i feel mid 20s. Lately ive started to feel my age in certain aspects of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming up to 56 and I can’t get my head around it.....see old school mates and think “fuck, he looks old!”....

Have to think about how old I am....think I’ve got it wrong....

Look in the mirror tabs see my dad looking back!!!!

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm still 21 in my head. I should have aches and pains at my age but honestly don't

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By *rviennaCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I’m 44 but always feel at least 10 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feel too old for here and fun

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely don’t feel it when out, I’m the last one to go home and don’t realise the party has stopped ... oops

It’s just a number at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely don’t feel it when out, I’m the last one to go home and don’t realise the party has stopped ... oops

It’s just a number at the end of the day "

You’re as bad as me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a teenager I feel old but people are often shocked I have a teenager and tell me I look in my twenties.... I wish I felt in my twenties

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I have a teenager I feel old but people are often shocked I have a teenager and tell me I look in my twenties.... I wish I felt in my twenties "

There is no way I would look at you and think you could have a teenager if you hadn't said so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still feel, in my head, like I'm in my early 20's

I am, of course, reminded of the fact that i'm in my late forties when I try doing some of the things that I used to be able to do with ease when I was much younger.

For example, lately i've found myself making strange noises, like if I bend down to pick something up from the floor.

And I'm not such a fan of crawling around on the floor underneath cars as I used to be.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Party harder now than when we was younger, now till sunrise

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I feel like I'm in my early twenties still. I was shocked the other day when I gave my date of birth and it was a sort of 'oh fuck, I'm 30 now. When people talk about young women I'm not in that bracket.'

I might pretend I'm 25 soon anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charlie called me "old girl" the other day, the cheeky git! Xx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I tend to feel I'm 20...until i look in the mirror and see my grey hair, or bend too early after getting up and creak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i confess my 'fab' age isnt my 'real' age although my 'real' age I still don't feel at all.. in fact I feel 10 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends. I have an 18 year old son and I look at him and think I'm too young for this sometimes.

Other days I pop my pills and look in the mirror and see too many grey hairs and think yep I'm getting old.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm 43...but I think divorce becomes me and have been told I don't look my age which is a lovely compliment to receive. I actually feel younger and happier then I have in years... I hope I'm like wine and will get better with age....Fingers crossed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 41 and don't feel it at all. My 3 year old keeps me young

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

41 and feeling every minute of it - old, tired and broken down.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m waiting for my second wind....hopefully that’ll be after the menopause??

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

When i see my son and think Jesus h he,s 30 then I feel old but I'm not but I think I should be older to have a 30 year old son .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just turned 49 and I am proud of getting to one year off 50.

Age is just a number it is how we feel and if we are healthy that really counts to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I look in the mirror and think I don't look a day over 35, other times I catch a glimpse..... and wonder why the fuck I look like an old hag. Like seriously, one of those Disney ones.

I think my hair has the capability of making me look ancient if it's on a crazy and I've no make up on. Proper crazy old cat lady x100

P

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

In my head I'm still about 16 but then I think my eldest is 19 & I have a grandson who's almost 2 & feel about 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 51 and one day I will grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what I’ve been doing the night before OP

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I'm 51 and one day I will grow up "

Happy birthday for yesterday then

Tomorrow you will be 51 and 2 days

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By *attooed filthMan
over a year ago

swindon

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By *attooed filthMan
over a year ago

swindon

I feel older than I am go to message people get stopped by age range blockers

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Party harder now than when we was younger, now till sunrise "

So true

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Definitely don’t feel it when out, I’m the last one to go home and don’t realise the party has stopped ... oops

It’s just a number at the end of the day

You’re as bad as me. "

I could be Lola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 47 but in my head am still 21 young like most people

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Older than Tea and Meli, my siblings.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm still around 23 in my head, despite being 37! A lot of my friends from school look a lot older than me now though when I see them on facebook, still having all my hair and being in good shape helps I think!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I move through phases - I've generally been fortunate to have young looks. But, I can sometimes feel especially ground down, worn out and fatigued, as if 99 years old - or older I know when not to look in the mirror in certain ways or certain aspects of myself: I'm going to have to apply vaseline onto mirrors, to get a romantic perspective, as some of the older movie actors had.

But things come and go - I can be the person running along the street, jumping up and down walls for fun, almost unable to stop myself.Then the next day, ambling along, as if I've just managed to leave crutches behind, at the care home. I didn't appreciate shingles recently

I should be 24, give or take a couple of years.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

48 this year.

Reminded of my age when I struggle to perform things that I used to do effortlessly before.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"as to feeling old neither of us feel or act our age once you start feeling old you become old i think lol "

We don't stop playing because we get old.

We get old because we stop playing!

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

In my mind I am in my early forties, in willingness I am in my thirties fortunately my body keeps reminding me I am in my fifties. x storm x

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

My birth certificate says a couple of weeks beyond 45. My mind says mid to late 30s. My joints laugh and say mid 70s.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"My birth certificate says a couple of weeks beyond 45. My mind says mid to late 30s. My joints laugh and say mid 70s. "

More fish for you then and plenty of exercise to keep them supple

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

193

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Telford

Was 43 last week, body is in the shape I was back when I was 23, in my head I'm about 33..... So I'd suggest I'm confused.... Which makes me about 83

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 54

I look a lot younger

I sometimes feel a lot older

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Yeah, I still feel the same as I did in my early thirties. My body is feeling a bit older but not much.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I'm 54

I look a lot younger

I sometimes feel a lot older "

Bloody hell! You look amazing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 54

I look a lot younger

I sometimes feel a lot older

Bloody hell! You look amazing...."

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 52 and feel in my 20’s

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I'm 54

I look a lot younger

I sometimes feel a lot older

Bloody hell! You look amazing....

Thankyou "

More than welcome.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My granny is in her 70's but often refers to women her age or younger as "that old wifey" and I wonder if she knows she is one too.

Do you ever actually feel your age? I look at people I went to school with and think wow they're so grown up, does that feeling ever go? "

That is so me.

I always feel like a daft 20 odd year old in most situations.

Sport has been the constant driving force behind me from a very young age and I grew up with friends and teammates that were all between 5-15 years older than me which has given me this younger guy feeling in everything I do.

Unfortunately, now fast approaching 40 and almost completely retired from playing I’m surrounded by much younger men and need to do some serious maturing this summer for a new role.

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