FabSwingers.com forum: FFS.....

By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Will people stop telling me I shouldn't be on this site because I want to date... I don't use this site as a dating site per say...yes it's on my profile and Yes it would be great to meet someone who is sexually on the same wavelength as me and on here I don't have to hide that... But I've been told this about 5 times this week... So F*ck off.

As you where

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you ruining it for the real swingers

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Noted ... where's the gin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will people stop telling me I shouldn't be on this site because I want to date... I don't use this site as a dating site per say...yes it's on my profile and Yes it would be great to meet someone who is sexually on the same wavelength as me and on here I don't have to hide that... But I've been told this about 5 times this week... So F*ck off.

As you where

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as you where? Oh and date if you want your life your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use it for what ever you want to ... plenty of people have found good relationships on here. Good luck to you

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Quite right. You're doing just fine being on here.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Are you ruining it for the real swingers

Apparently so

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

As you where

as you where? Oh and date if you want your life your choice

Wrong where.. I was in rant mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice of them, do what you want to do, it's up to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you where

You tell 'em! Its no fecker elses business but yours how You use this site! Good luck btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assholes!

Why shouldn't you be here?!

Loads of people meet their person on fab!

I'm glad you stay here with us loonies sweetcheeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them only time they get nasty is if they can't get into your knickers if you want to date then date your life your choice don't let them grind you down xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sod them. You use it for what you want. There will be others looking for the same too

Keep ya chin up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your life, your choices.

So why let others wind you up....

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

As you where

Lol carry on

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

My profile says the same but I don't receive those type of messages...how weird is that

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

At some point OP you have to stop caring about what other people say or how they judge you, float above it serenely and say, "I'm me I do what I want" but only whisper it to yourself, it isn't worth waisting your breath on those that don't understand

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Do your own thing. It's your life your choice. Ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block everyone and search for people yourself maybe?

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

My v good friend met her fella on fab! 5 yrs together now! If u wanna date folk on here then go for it!!....x

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"My profile says the same but I don't receive those type of messages...how weird is that

I've had about 5 pms recently saying I shouldn't be on here... That people on here don't want to date and it's pissing me off.. I don't message people and say they shouldn't be on here

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Date if you want to date, play if you want to play, sit in the forums and chat sh*te (my favourite at the moment) if you want.

No-one can tell you how to use the site for whatever you want to do.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Exactly the same for me, OP - though I haven't had much of the hating (yet!)

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"At some point OP you have to stop caring about what other people say or how they judge you, float above it serenely and say, "I'm me I do what I want" but only whisper it to yourself, it isn't worth waisting your breath on those that don't understand "

That's very true...don't give any fucks Op its the only way.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Date if you want to date, play if you want to play, sit in the forums and chat sh*te (my favourite at the moment) if you want.

No-one can tell you how to use the site for whatever you want to do. "

That's what I do.. I do meet occasionally but also want to date.. Its just pissed me off when I've had an influx of messages grrrrr

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Equally annoying is all the people on dating sites thinking you're up for a fuck with them coz you are on here.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

As you where

Where?

But seriously no one else’s business bar yours so tell the to do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same predicament kind of with my fish account. Although I say I want one thing I have multiple messages per day asking for “fun”. So frustrating. X

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

That's very true...don't give any fucks Op its the only way.

I totally agree and I will do what I want just feels good to rant sometimes... And breathe all calm again now...

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Sorry about the "Where"

I was in rant mode so no need to keep correcting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Equally annoying is all the people on dating sites thinking you're up for a fuck with them coz you are on here."

Oh I’ve had it too !! Oh your on fab!!! Errr yes so what?? Grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be here for what ever you want lovely lady x x x

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As you where

I wish you nothing but good luck and hope you find what you are looking for. I’d love to meet someone on here that I’d be compatible with to date too.

You are more than welcome to look for whatever you like on here.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"My profile says the same but I don't receive those type of messages...how weird is that

I've had about 5 pms recently saying I shouldn't be on here... That people on here don't want to date and it's pissing me off.. I don't message people and say they shouldn't be on here

Some people must have far too much time on their hands if they can read through your profile,recognise they are not for you and THEN message you to say you shouldnt be on here.Bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get those types of comments too. Usually from men who are just frustrated in the knowledge we would probably say no!

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By *eamgreen30Couple
over a year ago

stroud

What?! You mean you’re not a filthy bitch looking to make your way through the whole of fab? Well damn girl, why are you even here? Surely that’s what swingers are right?

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By *ommyxyzMan
over a year ago

Crawley

As you where

You use the site for whatever you want girl. Fuck em!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you where

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love it its your buisness i see nothing wrong with it quite a reasonable request

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"I get those types of comments too. Usually from men who are just frustrated in the knowledge we would probably say no! "

Well I had declined and said no

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I suspect some think that Fab stands for "Fuck all boys".

Haters gonna hate. Let them. Some people aren't happy unless they're trying to bring others down.

Develop a thick skin & wear it like a goddamn superhero cape!

Ok...that's enough...I need a lie down now

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By *oby le roneMan
over a year ago

Treorchy

Use it as you see fit. If you find somebody you click with sexualy then you'll have a better relationship. Personally I'm more than happy to date as well.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Thank you everyone... It just really annoyed and upset me tonight.. I would never message anyone and say they shouldn't be on here.. So why do people keep telling me... Its not even the same ones either...

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

)

Hugs to you all and thank you

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't get why other people take against the way someone runs their profile.

You are totally upfront about what you want ,ignore the people who obvs have nothing better to do or can't take rejection.

Good luck ,i met my partner here over 3 and a half years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you everyone... It just really annoyed and upset me tonight.. I would never message anyone and say they shouldn't be on here.. So why do people keep telling me... Its not even the same ones either...

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

)

Hugs to you all and thank you

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How hard are you looking?

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

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Hugs to you all and thank you

How hard are you looking? "

I've been wanting to date properly for about 15 months. I don't spend all my time looking as I'm quite happy with my life and I think you can't force these things. I also don't necessarily want a full on serious realtionship.. But I do want more the NSA

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

its up to you what you want to do with your life as its not theres

if they dont like it tough luck is my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you where

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do what you want lass if they have an issue give em a tissue then again best not they may think you want them to wipe the precum from there johnson

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Your profile to run as *you* want OP - you already know I admire the fact you stick to your principles and look for what you want - if others can't take the rejection that brings their way then it's their problem not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You carry on it worked for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you go girl! Show them pricks you can do whatever the f you want!....

I only use this site for fun in the forums and learning more about stuff to do with sex .... I know for a fact no one will be interested in meeting/sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

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Hugs to you all and thank you

Why did it upset you?

I can understand being a tad miffed about it

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"Equally annoying is all the people on dating sites thinking you're up for a fuck with them coz you are on here.

Oh I’ve had it too !! Oh your on fab!!! Errr yes so what?? Grrr"

Yeah.

I even put on my POF profile i wasn't interested in swingers, seemed to be a magnet for them lol.

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

)

Hugs to you all and thank you

Why did it upset you?

I can understand being a tad miffed about it "

It upset me not in a sobbing my heart out way but because it's not the first time I've been told I shouldn't be on this site just for wanting to date. And sometimes it just catches you the wrong way. I blocked him end of.. But after being repeatedly told I shouldn't be on this site when I don't speak to others like that.. Then yes it did upset me as well as piss me off. I don't often rant on the forums but tonight I did. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway if I want to fuck I will fuck and if I want to date I will date... (well if I could find someone

)

Hugs to you all and thank you

Why did it upset you?

I can understand being a tad miffed about it

Just delete the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shhhhhhh!!.....you’ll have those proper swingers eye-rolling likes there’s no tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Equally annoying is all the people on dating sites thinking you're up for a fuck with them coz you are on here.

Oh I’ve had it too !! Oh your on fab!!! Errr yes so what?? Grrr

Yeah.

I even put on my POF profile i wasn't interested in swingers, seemed to be a magnet for them lol."

I’m laughing here,, it’s so predictable

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Shhhhhhh!!.....you’ll have those proper swingers eye-rolling likes there’s no tomorrow.

Hehehehe I might start a revolution... Fabdaters.com

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Noted ... where's the gin?"

Ps feel free to oepn the gin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that chick! Some make friends etc don't see the issue at all. Lol

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