FabSwingers.com forum: Disappointed

By *uddscouple2019 OP Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

We were told about this site and there were recommendations on various sites (granted some were dated), but overall we have to say we are massively disappointed to say the least. There are so many men on here pretending to be women, not to mention an incredible amount of messers.....oh and some decidedly strange people. It is a shame as on the face of it the site looks good. The only plus that we could find was the club section in the forum as this has helped us in deciding which ones we will be looking to visit. It is a shame as I would bet that there are some genuinely. Ice people on here, but unfortunately they appear to be the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do know you can block men from messaging you?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"We were told about this site and there were recommendations on various sites (granted some were dated), but overall we have to say we are massively disappointed to say the least. There are so many men on here pretending to be women, not to mention an incredible amount of messers.....oh and some decidedly strange people. It is a shame as on the face of it the site looks good. The only plus that we could find was the club section in the forum as this has helped us in deciding which ones we will be looking to visit. It is a shame as I would bet that there are some genuinely. Ice people on here, but unfortunately they appear to be the minority."

Perhaps only meet people who have photo verification or personal verification (yes this can be faked but its quite difficult).

Its a shame your experience hasn't been great, i find that it starts off a lot with famine and then builds to feast, so to speak. But there are quite a few tools on the site to help you manage your profile and cut out some of the things that have led to your bad experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointment is part of the game.

Learn it and make it your friend instead of your enemy and you'd be successful young obi1

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

It’s a mine field on here with no magic way of finding what you want. We’ve met some great couples from here and we’ve been stood up a few times. Welcome to the mad world of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask what your expectations were?

How does the reality differ from them?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Welcome to the internet

I get disappointed daily checking BBC weather to find out we are indeed NOT going to have clear sky's and sunshine.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It can be hard work on here. But it's worth it.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to the internet

I get disappointed daily checking BBC weather to find out we are indeed NOT going to have clear sky's and sunshine. "

Bit of a crap analogy tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site has it's ups and downs. If you think that its all that bad there are lots of other sites. That girl is absolutely right it's hard work.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?"

Being not begging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are trying to bag people from the demograph that is most in demand on here. Of course it's not going to be easy. Sorry that you are finding it a disappointment, but you've only been on here for 9 weeks

Holly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?"

You mean it's not instashag?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It can be long winded and frustrating finding the right people for you but worth it when you do.

Your fakedar skills will get better and better in no time!

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

It's not easy but if you haven't been here long it may not happen over night!!

We mainly meet people at clubs but aren't against private meets.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like any online sites there is good and bad. Yes you get time wasters but then there are some great genuine people on here as well.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Stick with it a little longer, there are times when we think of leaving then somebody comes along who restores our faith, just a matter of time and 9 weeks isn’t that long.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?"

Bless his little hairy tooshy....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?

Bless his little hairy tooshy...."

Could more than just bless it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

Being not begging

I think you were right first time.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?

Bless his little hairy tooshy....

Could more than just bless it

Another trist in the basement....ooooooer

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

Being not begging

I think you were right first time.

Fair point ... the irony of the autocarrot

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?

Bless his little hairy tooshy....

Could more than just bless it

Another trist in the basement....ooooooer

Who needs a basement

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"The promises of the site begging a shag-fest aren't true ...

Who knew?

You mean it's not instashag?

Apparently not ... disappointing huh?

Bless his little hairy tooshy....

Could more than just bless it

Another trist in the basement....ooooooer

Who needs a basement"

Come get me tiger grrrrrr I mean monkey

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