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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

That feeling of being torn between two or more feelings and options.

Each one neither good or bad, but being good and bad equally for individual and different reasons.

How do you rationalise between the two, even start to decide on which is the best option?

And no, this is not about two different women just more of a vent and release for myself, with maybe a bit of advice gained along the way.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Have a wank you may feel better

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Toss a coin.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Have a wank you may feel better "

Haha first thing I tried. 3 times actually

Felt good but didn't help haha

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Have a wank you may feel better "

And a cup of tea.... it's what Guy Martin does when he needs to have a think and cheer himself up lol

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a wank you may feel better

Haha first thing I tried. 3 times actually

Felt good but didn't help haha"

Try some lube and porn works wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That feeling of being torn between two or more feelings and options.

Each one neither good or bad, but being good and bad equally for individual and different reasons.

How do you rationalise between the two, even start to decide on which is the best option?

And no, this is not about two different women just more of a vent and release for myself, with maybe a bit of advice gained along the way. "

Wish I knew

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a wank you may feel better

And a cup of tea.... it's what Guy Martin does when he needs to have a think and cheer himself up lol"

A wank and a cuppa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Consult Natalie Imbruglia

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Pro and cons list on each option...writing it down usually helps than trying to sort out in your head.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consult Natalie Imbruglia "

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"Consult Natalie Imbruglia "

Just got that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One option may be slightly more preferable at this moment in time so follow that path keeping an open mind that it is okay to switch to the other option at any point. Don't pressure yourself to make a choice, allow the natural path to decide.... Brought to you today by Rainbow Rainstorm, wannabe hippy and wearer of kaftans

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Can't you chat to a trusted friend?

Jo x

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"One option may be slightly more preferable at this moment in time so follow that path keeping an open mind that it is okay to switch to the other option at any point. Don't pressure yourself to make a choice, allow the natural path to decide.... Brought to you today by Rainbow Rainstorm, wannabe hippy and wearer of kaftans "

That would leave me with the current option I'm on, the other two pretty much are irreversible options. The current option is just as difficult but has zero changes (for good or bad)

Haha I know this is all quite vague but not something I want to discuss openly.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Can't you chat to a trusted friend?

Jo x"

Unfortunately not. That's a whole other sad story in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a time limit on making the choice because the answer will come to you naturally.

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By *aitonel OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is there a time limit on making the choice because the answer will come to you naturally. "

Thankfully no. Though for my own sanity I need to make a decision and accept that as the outcome regardless.

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