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By *luttyzoe OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Lutterworth

How would you know if you have been recognised on her , people are either too polite to say anything or they obviously respect your freedoms , or they don’t want to admit that they play too ( maybe a bit too close to home ) I’d love to know if anyone has noticed me but I guess I will never find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hope she recognised me if i was on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised many people on here, I tend to block and move on. So I guess there's your answer? X x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've never had anyone message me saying they knew me... but i tend to look on who's near and block everyone within a 5mile radius..i also do local searches and block anyone from my town, just in case

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x"

Bet he never thought he would see you like that one day

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x

Bet he never thought he would see you like that one day "

He did didn't imagine seeing u on here! I said why I'm a single pringle with needs like everyone! I did laugh at his offer of 9" ! Telling him he forgets I've seen his appendage ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m happy being recognised I’m here .

“ oh look is him “

There’s 2 options :

- or they like it and want some …

- or they don’t …

Simple and happy fabs .

I’m proud of being on fabs .

I’m tired of restrictions in society and discriminations and conservative church paranoia .

Is my planet . I’m a free party . Free spirit .

Plus :

To recognise u here they no better or no worse .

Me personally if I recognise a fab member out live . Supermarket , a car park etc .

I will not approach . For me is just a stranger like a celebrity u see in a movie .

If is one of your contacts , maybe wave far away and try to catch if is ok to have a quick hello .

Not gonna shout out loud in front of every one

“ Hellooooo Jackieeeee . My Fabs naughty girl,

You look niiice today …..

Shalloooooom “

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x"

It's a risk anywhere, as I post a face pic I run the risk of neighbours that secretly swing knowing me but me not knowing them. There's the unwritten rule that if you see someone in vanilla life you recognise it's fine to nod your head but not say anything, like my kids scout leader after I bumped into them on a club. When you add immediate friends and family it can get very complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x

Bet he never thought he would see you like that one day

He did didn't imagine seeing u on here! I said why I'm a single pringle with needs like everyone! I did laugh at his offer of 9" ! Telling him he forgets I've seen his appendage ! x"

Naughty x x ha ha

Is a small world ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x"

Yeah …. Some people feel awkward with situations like that .

Don’t feel sad . Is awakeard only that’s all .

Some people say : sex with friends is no good .

Ruins the friendship

I feel the other way around .

I had sex with a friends . Girls I love as mates for years and I trust . Never ruined anything .

In fact I feel more safe then with strangers .

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x

Yeah …. Some people feel awkward with situations like that .

Don’t feel sad . Is awakeard only that’s all .

Some people say : sex with friends is no good .

Ruins the friendship

I feel the other way around .

I had sex with a friends . Girls I love as mates for years and I trust . Never ruined anything .

In fact I feel more safe then with strangers .

"

I'm sad for his mum my best friend! I feel its tainted our friendship somehow! I still see him as a child not as someone I would fancy any which way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x

Yeah …. Some people feel awkward with situations like that .

Don’t feel sad . Is awakeard only that’s all .

Some people say : sex with friends is no good .

Ruins the friendship

I feel the other way around .

I had sex with a friends . Girls I love as mates for years and I trust . Never ruined anything .

In fact I feel more safe then with strangers .

I'm sad for his mum my best friend! I feel its tainted our friendship somehow! I still see him as a child not as someone I would fancy any which way x"

Bless you . Awkward …

No . I don’t think it will touch the friendship at all …

I wouldn’t worry much x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a bizarre happening yesterday! My best friends son found me here! And whilst she knows I'm on here that's not a problem most of my friends and family know I'm on here! What is a problem we have been friends best part of 50 years! And tell each other absoulutley everthing! Even stuff we don't divulge with others! But I can never tell her this! And it's making me feel very awkward and sad ! He even asked to meet for sex! Which was an emphatic no! I told him it would b wrong on so many levels as watched him grow up from a child he is 49 now! Not only that he is attached! And I would never look at him in a sexual way! I even saw his sister this morning walking dogs! Stopped to chat as allways! But felt awkward somehow! He has since deleted the account and most probably made another allready! Which was a complete fake account in that he had no pics! Wrong age no location! He actually said nothing about his profile was correct! x"

Can’t blame him for trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This story reminds me of a gay woman I know she slept with her best friends daughter and then wondered why her now ex best friend went bananas at her

There are some lines you shouldn’t cross!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"This story reminds me of a gay woman I know she slept with her best friends daughter and then wondered why her now ex best friend went bananas at her

There are some lines you shouldn’t cross!"

Yes for sure! X

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