FabSwingers.com forum: Let downs

By *ebeccaHallTV OP TV/TS
over a year ago

BECKENHAM

I have been let down for a meeting.

We have been messaging for 2 days now and arranged to meet at my place.

I spend the time to get ready, made sure I was completely smooth all over, carefully done my make up and got ready and all excited.

Sent a message to see what time they would be here only to get a reply informing me that their car broke down the night before and they cannot make it.

So lame, why could they not have let me know the previous night.

Such a let down and it makes you wonder why....

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

So sorry to hear this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Idiots ruin it for everyone. Just block him and don't give him another chance.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sent a message to see what time they would be here only to get a reply informing me that their car broke down the night before and they cannot make it.

So lame, why could they not have let me know the previous night.

Such a let down and it makes you wonder why.... "

Douche!

No consideration, he most certainly could have let you know the night before.

Block, he doesn't deserve another moment of your time.

I had a guy, a few weeks back.

Chatted daily for 2wks, social arranged.

Then that morning, messages to say he hadn't realised how far away I was, and he didn't have enough fuel to do the drive!

Not sure how other folks do things, but first thing I do is check Google & see how viable something is, before making any plans!

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I had a meet planned for last night I'd cancelled things to do with friends because I'd wanted to meet this woman for a while only for her to ignore me all day then send a bullshit excuse at 2 in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodyear its the future

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I feel your pain and annoyance.

I don't think folk realise the effort that Tv's have to put in to get ready for a meeting. After all we are guys trying to look like a convincing lady.

You can spend hours getting ready only to be let down at the last minute, very frustrating. It's happened twice to me, when it does I usually go driving dressed to a local cruising /dogging site.

I'm sure regular ladies have the same issues as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were only chatting for 2 days... Imo thats not nearly enough time to suss someone out..

Most people i meet i have been chatting to for a while...

Sorry it happened btw

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"You were only chatting for 2 days... Imo thats not nearly enough time to suss someone out..

Most people i meet i have been chatting to for a while...

Sorry it happened btw "

I'm inclined to agree with KB here. I'd still be trying to work out if someone was genuine or just a pic hunter after 2 days, and as I too need time to prep for a meet, both in terms of my appearance and what to wear in making that good first impression, and in freeing up time for the meet itself, I'd be very cautious about someone new.

Minor disasters do happen and I have had someone's car break down once on the morning of a meet... But he still travelled the 3 hours (changing buses twice) to meet me. It happened another time that someone's car actually broke down on his way to meet me... He contacted a family member who loaned him their own car to continue his journey while they waited for the tow truck with his car. Where there's a will there's a way!

I think you were unfortunate enough to stumble across one of those guys who likes the idea of meeting more than the reality OP. Hope your next one turns out better

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I think fab members must own the most unreliable cars on the market. Someone should do a survey.

Still, better luck next time OP.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Sorry to hear you've been let down by this couple OP, agreed, they could have had the decency to tell you last night so you could have made other plans. Make sure you report them to admin as no shows. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think fab members must own the most unreliable cars on the market. Someone should do a survey.

Still, better luck next time OP."

This. Plus the worst bus and train routes and feet.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Report, block, move on.

If its happening a lot the common denominator is you, change ypur selection process put more checks and balances in place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see both sides here. Obviously it's disappointing to be let down, but the flip side is a first meeting can be difficult and what seems like a good idea at first, when the time comes can feel like a mistake. Obviously I don't know anything about the no-show, but my suspicion is it's probably a married man who chickened out at the last minute. Can't say I blame him, I chickened out of my first meet, sent a message of apology and rearranged later. As it turned out my doubts were confirmed and I seriously regretted the meet, though have had a couple since that went well.

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